why your wife doesn’t want sex anymore

Learn the reasons why you're not getting any from your wife these days and fix it.

Learn the reasons why you’re not getting any from your wife these days and fix it.

If your last lovemaking session with your wife is so long ago you have difficulty recalling the steamy details, then you better give this article a methodical browse right now. Apart from showing you the probable reasons why she’s not that enthusiastic to get between the sheets with you these days, I will also squeeze in a couple of secrets that will revolutionize your sex life without a fuss.

Believe it or not, reigniting the fires of sexual passion with your wife is not as complicated as you think. Make sure you check out the rest of this article to learn the secrets of how to make her the one to lead you off to the bedroom for some action in the near future.

Perhaps you’re being too pushy. Don’t expect your wife to immediately get down and dirty the next time you’re feeling a bit hot to trot. The female sexual arousal process is much more complicated than ours. If your wife is like most women, she won’t get in the mood with just a sloppy peck on the lips and some groping. You have to build up her sexual tension by properly stimulating her erogenous zones to get her fully ready for intercourse.

Perhaps you’re being too sexually aggressive. Sure confidence may be one of the biggest turn ons among women but overdoing it, especially in the bedroom, can easily kill the lovemaking mood in an instant. Barking orders like a marine sergeant will only lead her to think that having sex with you is more of a command rather than something she will get pleasure from. Make it a point to be firm (pun intended) but avoid acting like a klutz if you want to get in her pants.

Perhaps you’re not paying close attention to your hygiene. Smelling and looking nice is an essential if you’re aiming to score with your wife on a regular basis. Always remember to take regular showers, shave off that rather unkempt beard and give your teeth a decent brush as well as keep in mind to splash on some deodorant. By the way, make sure you also ditch that torn-jeans-and-university-shirt combo that only makes you look like a hobo to boost your chances of getting some tonight.

Perhaps you’re forcing her to do some things. There is a fine line between being adventurous in the bedroom and being a complete blockhead. Sneaking your penis into her anus just because you want to try anal sex isn’t just uncomfortable on her part but downright rude. Ask her nicely first if you have the urge to try new positions. If she says yes, congratulations! If she says no, there is always a next time.

Perhaps you’re coming too soon. Premature ejaculation is the biggest deal breaker when it comes to sex with your wife. Lasting longer in bed not only allows you to satisfy your wife sexually the right way but also makes her look forward to your next lovemaking session. Learn how to extend your bedroom playing time by embracing the Kegel as early as now.

Here are the 4 no-nonsense secrets to make your married sex life even more exciting.

Here are the 4 no-nonsense secrets to make your married sex life even more exciting.

Sex for married couples can sometimes be a bit monotonous. Husbands and wives tend to become very familiar with each other over the years that pushing each other’s sensual buttons in the bedroom has become all but a boring routine. So let me ask you a question; you on a sexual slump with your wife?

Maintaining an exciting sexual relationship with your spouse can be quite a challenge after a decade or more of being married. Apart from becoming swamped with commitments like kids, careers and other important tasks, there are also times when you feel you don’t connect with your partner sexually anymore.

There’s no need to worry just yet though if you’re going through the same situation. Here are a few surefire tips that will have you doing the horizontal mambo with your wife like you did during your honeymoon phase in no time at all:

  • Stop thinking of her as your wife. Remember the days when you two seem to can’t get your hands off each other? Well, great sex doesn’t have to end when you’re married. You just have to let your imagination run wild and stop thinking of her as your wife. Imagine her as your dirty French maid who’s got a nasty case of nymphomania or a naughty woman looking for an adventure of the sexual kind. The possibilities are just endless if you put your mind to it.
  • Make your room conducive for sex. As you may have known by now, the female sexual arousal process is very complicated. If you can’t get her in the mood, you can’t get into action anytime soon. Up the ante on the privacy of your bedroom (meaning, make it off-limits to kids) and you’ll be surprised how fast your wife transforms into a sex vixen the least you expect it.
  • Don’t be afraid to explore new things. Doing the same stuff over and over again is the number one deal breaker when it comes to sex with your wife. Instead of just settling with the predictable missionary-with-a-side-of-cunnilingus ensemble, get your fantasies out in the open and integrate fresh elements into the bedroom. You never know what naughty things she has in store for you, too. (Why not sharpen your G-spot stimulation skills while at it so you can wow her like she’s always wanted?)
  • Bring back the old sexy times. You can never have too much of a good thing – and too much sex with your wife can easily sap the excitement and passion away. Marriage therapists recommend making your wife miss having sex so she’ll be the one initiating contact and voila…you’re back in business, buddy.