why you are coming too quickly

Do you feel that you're just coming too soon these days?

Do you feel that you’re just coming too soon these days?

If you’re anything like most men, lasting for as long as you can when things are getting steamy between the sheets is the top priority in your checklist.

However, you seem to be going off too soon when you and your lover are at it in the bedroom these days.

There’s no need to worry just yet though. Or perhaps get your hands on pills, creams and other artificial stuff that claim to prevent premature ejaculation.

Chances are you’re simply making the following mistakes that make you come too soon…

You’re not managing stress properly.

Although going through stress is pretty much a normal thing in life, experiencing lots and lots of it at once is just going to lead in disaster. That includes your ability to last long in bed.

This is because too much stress leads to the release of cortisol and similar negative hormones that will disrupt your body’s normal sexual arousal process.

Apart from preventing you from really lasting long during lovemaking, these negative hormones can make getting rock hard on demand quite tricky as well.

You think that you’re going to come too soon.

Sure this may sound simplistic, but the body greatly depends on its mental aspect to carry out physical activities.

When you think of something, the brain basically transforms this idea into a feeling. This feeling sets off changes in the body that affect how it functions almost immediately.

The moment that you think that you’re going to be prone to a bout of premature ejaculation when you and your lover are at it, it’s already begun.

And you’ll just find yourself popping off unexpectedly during the action.

You go too fast.

Your body’s orgasmic and ejaculatory responses kick in when the brain thinks that you’ve already experienced the right amount of pleasurable sensations during sex.

The faster you go during the action, the sooner you’re going to activate these responses.

Now while the temptation to immediately go fast and furious is simply unbearable when you’re already in action between the sheets, make it a point to tone things down to avoid premature ejaculation.

(Here are a few oral sex techniques you can bring into play to pull this one off easier.)

You don’t focus on her pleasure.

As I’ve emphasized earlier, the more sensations you experience, the faster you’re going to come during sex.

You are much prone to this when you don’t focus on your lover’s sexual satisfaction more.

Prevent premature ejaculation by keeping clear of these mistakes...

Prevent premature ejaculation by keeping clear of these mistakes…

Going off too soon during lovemaking is perhaps one of the most frustrating things that can happen to you.

Not mentioning the disappointment your partner will go through as well.

However, you don’t have to get your hands on stuff like creams, pills and other artificial stuff that a lot of so-called “sex experts” are recommending nowadays to pull off just that.

There’s a big chance that you’re simply making a few mistakes that trigger premature ejaculation.

Make sure you read on to find out what they are and last longer the next time things get hot between the sheets…

You’re thinking too much about coming quickly.

Unlike what a lot of guys mistakenly think, it’s not just penile stimulation alone that sets off your body to achieve orgasm and make you ejaculate.

Interestingly, the brain also plays a key role in the overall process, particularly what you’re thinking about.

It fires up the endocrine system to let loose hormones during sexual arousal that prep up the body for a lovemaking session. However, something happens when you become preoccupied with coming too soon while you and your partner are at it.

The brain releases stress hormones that only speed things up during sex, which also make you come sooner. So better keep in mind to relax and enjoy the show or else you’ll go off too quickly.

You don’t focus on her pleasure.

The more your erogenous zones are stimulated, the more the brain is inclined to put your body in orgasm mode and make you ejaculate.

One of the reasons why you’re experiencing premature ejaculation these days is you’re not giving enough attention to your lover’s pleasure. If you simply focus on your side of things, chances are you’ll find yourself coming all of a sudden.

The next time you and your partner are getting things extra steamy between the sheets, make it a point to focus on her pleasure.

Apart from preventing yourself from coming too soon, you’re definitely going to give your lover an experience she won’t forget easily in the process.

You don’t take it slow and easy.

One mistake most men make is taking things fast and furious as soon as the action starts.

And if you’re doing that, chances are you will come quicker than you’d like to during lovemaking.

Just remember that no matter how tempted you are to go full speed ahead, keep in mind that doing that will easily ruin the experience because you’ll pop unexpectedly.