why she isn’t getting wet anymore

"Shifting" a woman's sexual arousal is very important to really get her in the mood...

“Shifting” a woman’s sexual arousal is very important to really get her in the mood…

Getting your lover properly sexually aroused before you start up the action is very important so she will really experience the pleasure she wants in bed.

However, you’re simply noticing that your partner isn’t getting as sexually aroused like she used to these days.

And this definitely makes you feel really disappointed when you want to get the old squeaky-squeaky going between the sheets.

This doesn’t mean that you’re already losing your touch when it comes to firing your lover up in bed though.

Chances are you’re simply making the following mistakes…

You’re not keeping a close eye on your grooming anymore.

Let’s start things off with the most common mistake a lot of men seem to overlook in terms of getting a woman ready for lovemaking.

She won’t be that eager to start up the action in bed if you don’t look or smell nice.

Women are very particular with grooming and if your lover’s eyes and nose tell her that you’re not up to the cut, there is a big possibility she won’t get fully sexually aroused or even at all.

Just keep in mind to take regular showers, use deodorant and get rid of unwanted facial hair and you’ll already on the right track.

(Here are a few more simple grooming tips that women will surely love.)

Your bedroom is messy.

Relaxation plays a key role when it comes to female sexual arousal.

And one of the things that can really get on a woman’s nerves is dirt and clutter. So if your bedroom needs a bit of cleaning and de-cluttering, it’s going to affect your chances of getting your partner ready for lovemaking.

This is because she’s going to find it tricky to really relax, which promotes a surge of stress hormones in her body that prevents her from feeling sexy.

Make it a point to give your bedroom a regular cleaning and organizing to keep it looking comfy and fresh. Giving it a spritz or two of air freshener while you’re at it is a good idea as well.

You don’t give her awesome foreplay.

Unlike guys that can get ready for lovemaking at the drop of a hat, a woman’s sexual arousal is just like an engine.

You need to “shift” properly or else it won’t get anywhere. And one important thing to remember when you need to pull this off is giving her foreplay she won’t forget anytime soon.

(Here are a few simple tricks that can help you do just that, too.)

Here are a few tips that will surely make your lover wet and ready for sex...

Here are a few tips that will surely make your lover wet and ready for sex…

Women don’t just get sexually aroused in an instant. Unlike men who can get in the mood for lovemaking at the drop of a hat, they need to be eased into it slowly or else they won’t be able to get ready for a sex session at all.

It really doesn’t matter if you know all the best sexual positions in the book. What’s really important is that you know a few useful pointers that will really make her wet down there. And chances are you won’t be warming up your lover between the sheets if you make the following mistakes…

Mistake #1: Your bedroom is a mess.

Tidying up your bedroom should be the very first thing on your checklist if you’re planning to sexually arouse your lover. Most women are very particular with neatness and organization. If your bedroom looks more like a dump instead of a place for lovemaking, she won’t be getting in the mood for sex anytime soon.

Make sure you clean your bedroom carefully and get rid of the clutter. Put on fresh sheets and drapes regularly. Don’t use your bedroom for storage. Place all used clothes in a bin so they won’t be all over the place. Make it a point to vacuum or sweep at least twice a week to keep clear from dust and grime.

Mistake #2: You are not paying close attention to your hygiene.

Looking and smelling good is a priority if you’re planning to get your lover excited in bed. Now while there are some women who like their sexual partners a bit grungy, majority of them prefer guys who have proper grooming and hygiene.

Have regular showers. Use deodorant daily. Only wear clean clothes. Make sure you shave at least twice a week to avoid looking unkempt and scraggly. Trim your fingernails. Let your lover have the impression that you always try to look and smell like a million bucks for her.

Mistake #3: You rush things.

Sexual arousal for women is a process. It just doesn’t happen instantly. You need to get your lover in the zone or else she won’t be warmed up for sex no matter how hard you try. The biggest mistake you will ever make when you want her to get wet is by forcing her to get ready.

Don’t hesitate to give her all the foreplay techniques you have up your sleeve. Stimulate all of her erogenous zones like the breasts, clitoris, inner thighs and other super sensitive areas properly. And don’t forget to keep on going when she’s moaning and groaning like crazy. It just means you are doing a good job.

Mistake #4: You don’t exercise regularly.

Exercise is a major factor when it comes to lasting long enough in bed to satisfy your lover. When you sweat it out at least half an hour daily, you aren’t simply making your body healthier but also boosting your sexual stamina in the process.

Just imagine the orgasms you can give her if you have the right amount of sexual stamina. Compare that to lasting only a few minutes in bed and you’ll surely have exercise as a mainstay in your schedule as soon as you can.