why she doesn’t give you a BJ these days

Is she losing her interest in oral sex nowadays?

Is she losing her interest in oral sex nowadays?

Getting some oral attention from your lover is no doubt one of the things that you’re looking forward to when the both of you start up the action in the bedroom.

Besides giving you loads and loads of pleasurable sensations, seeing your partner get busy south of your border is also pretty exciting.

But the thing is you’re simply noticing that she’s not that eager to go down on you during your lovemaking sessions these days.

Sure not getting the right dose of Vitamin BJ during sex is rather frustrating, but there’s no need to worry just yet really.

Chances are you’re just making the following mistakes that prevent her from working her oral magic on your nether regions when things get pretty hot in bed…

You’re not keeping a close eye on your hygiene.

Let’s start the ball rolling with a key factor that some men tend to overlook.

No matter how long you and your partner have been together, it’s still important that you make it a point to look and smell like a million bucks to her.

See, your smell and appearance play key roles when it comes to getting her sexual arousal going.

And if your lover is not that fired up for lovemaking, she won’t be that excited to go down on you during the action.

You’re not giving her oral sex yourself.

I’m pretty sure that you’ve already heard of the adage “you reap what you sow.”

It’s also possible that your lover’s lack of interest in giving you oral sex these days stems from the fact that you’re not giving her the oral TLC that she wants in the bedroom.

Keep in mind that in order to keep her eager to go down on you, you’ve got to knock her socks off each time you explore south of her border as well.

(Here’s an awesome clitoral stimulation tip that will help you get the job done.)

You don’t ask her nicely for it.

Now while showing leadership and initiative is a turn on for women, overdoing the whole thing will just lead to the opposite.

Your lover will just think that you’re already coming off as bossy for her in the bedroom, which will keep her from getting busy down there.

Make it a point to always ask your partner nicely when you want her to give you oral sex.

Unlike what porn movies show you, it isn’t done by simply bobbing her head in the direction of your penis, too.