spice things up in bed

Are you looking to spice things up in bed? Check this out.

Are you looking to spice things up in bed? Check this out.

If you’re anything like most men, you probably like to get in action between the sheets with your lover as much as you can.

However, you’re simply noticing that your partner seems to be not as excited for lovemaking like she used to nowadays.

Now while this may be rather worrying for you, it doesn’t mean that your sex life is going to get downhill from here.

I’ve learned a few useful pointers during my extensive research into the female sexuality that may help you spice things up in the bedroom the next time you and your lover are getting frisky.

Make sure you read on to find out more…

Give your bedroom the cleaning and organizing it deserves.

Let’s start the ball rolling with a factor that a lot of guys seem to overlook. See, women are very particular with a bedroom’s organization and cleanliness.

If your partner thinks that your bedroom is messy, she may not get as sexually aroused as she should to get in the mood for a lovemaking session.

Keeping in mind to regularly clean and organize your bedroom will do the trick.

Play some sexy tunes.

A woman needs to feel completely relaxed to get really sexually aroused. And playing the right tunes when you’re looking to heat her up for lovemaking helps a lot.

Make it a point to go for slow and downbeat music when you’re putting your playlist together. Instrumentals, ambient sound and slow jazz are my top picks for this.

Let her call the shots in bed.

Sure this may sound a bit surprising, but giving your lover complete control in bed from time to time has a few interesting benefits that you’d like to know about.

Besides making your partner more sexually adventurous, chances are she will also be more excited to get down with you between the sheets. How’s that for a win-win situation?

Focus on lesser known erogenous zones.

I’m pretty sure that you’ve already got a list of erogenous zones like the breasts and clitoris to work your magic on when you’re heating things up in the bedroom, but concentrating on their lesser known counterparts will help rekindle her sexual excitement.

Besides stimulating her lower abdomen, which is also called as the “treasure trail,” pleasuring her earlobes and back of the neck are also nice choices to go for.

Add a splash of kinkiness.

Make it a point to add a bit of kinkiness when you’re having a lovemaking session. And it’s not as complicated as you may think right now.

There are actually lots of ways to pull this off. Apart from using a blindfold while you’re getting busy in bed, you can also play sexual games in the process.