Giving your lover a sex experience she won’t forget anytime soon involves giving her breasts, particularly the nipples, a bout of proper stimulation.
However, a lot of men seem to think that what they see in porn flicks is the way to go.
Apart from making a beeline to the nipples as soon as they get the chance, they also think that pleasuring them as fast as they can is also the best option.
The thing is I’ve learned during my extensive research into the female sexuality that the pleasure levels your partner is going to experience when you go for these techniques are just going to be very little.
And to top it off, she’ll also feel more uncomfortable and awkward while at it even if you’re bringing your A-game into play in the process.
I’ve learned a few useful tips to keep in mind, though, that will surely help you take her pleasure levels off the charts the next time you work your magic on her nipples during lovemaking…
Give the nipples time to warm up.
Unlike what you usually see in porn movies, zeroing in on the nipples as soon as the action starts is just going to lead to disaster.
See, akin to the clitoris, the nipples need time to get ready for action or else they won’t produce the pleasurable sensations that they’re really capable of.
Keep in mind to give her other erogenous zones like the inner thighs, back of the neck as well as the lower abdomen the attention they deserve before getting to the nipples to pull this off.
Stimulate from the outside in.
Make it a point to pleasure the nipples from outside of the areola inwards.
Besides eliciting a teasing sensation that will help boost your partner’s sexual excitement, this will also help her nipples get going for action.
Vary your stimulation as you go along.
Don’t just stick with one method of stimulation when you pleasure your lover’s nipples. There are actually a lot of ways to get the job done.
Besides stroking them with your fingers, you can also go for the oral route and lick and nibble on them when you and your partner are already at it in the bedroom.
Ask her to guide you.
Sure the idea of pleasuring the nipples is actually stimulating them, asking your partner to guide you helps a lot.
Apart from giving you an idea how she wants them to be pleasured, she can also point out the exact spots that really make her feel good when stimulated.