how to make anal sex more pleasurable

Boost her anal sex pleasure with these tips...

Boost her anal sex pleasure with these tips…

So you’ve finally convinced your lover to try anal sex…

However, pulling it off in such a way that she will like it isn’t that easy as you think.

Sure you may already have an idea how to get it done, but it’s a good idea to keep these useful tips in mind so you can boost your chances of making her enjoy the whole experience even more.

Make sure you read on to find out more…

Warm her up completely.

Unlike the stuff that you see in porn movies, simply zeroing in on her anus and sexually penetrating it when you get the chance is one of the biggest mistakes that you will ever make when you do it in the backdoor.

See, anal sex can be something new for your lover and if things can go awry if she’s not feeling totally up for it. And you’ll need her to be completely sexually aroused for it, too.

Apart from the possibility that she will find the experience uncomfortable even to the point of being painful, there’s a chance that she won’t give anal sex another go in the future.

(Here’s a key pointer that will surely fire her up easily.)

Get your hands on a lot of lubrication.

Unlike the vagina that can produce natural lubrication during sexual arousal, the anus needs a bit of help in the same. You’ll need to have lube and lots of it if you’re looking to get an anal sex session going.

Neglecting this will just lead to disaster even before you really got things started. And the experience will just be terrible for your lover, too.

Besides going for the water-based variety, make it a point not to scrimp on the stuff when you apply it. Remember to re-apply every after a few minutes or perhaps when you feel things aren’t as smooth as they should.

Go slow and easy.

Sure the temptation may be great, but never get fast and furious on your partner when you engage in anal sex with her. It will only make the experience rather uncomfortable or perhaps even painful for her.

Keep things as slow and easy as you can. Only pick up the pace when she says so or else she might not feel the pleasure that you’re aiming for.

It’s also a good idea to let her call the shots while you two are at it.

These tips will definitely make her want anal sex in a snap.

These tips will definitely make her want anal sex in a snap.

Women generally aren’t as accommodating when it comes to anal sex as compared to its missionary and reverse cowgirl counterparts due to the stigma that it involves a lot of pain and is only pleasurable to men.

Contrary to popular belief, however, anal sex doesn’t have to be painful and can give women the sexual satisfaction they need if you just have the proper know-how. Check out the rest of this article right away and learn how to make your wife or girlfriend look forward to be penetrated through the “backdoor” in one easy read.

Start with oral stimulation.

Perhaps the best way to make your partner more receptive to anal sex is giving her a rim job, particularly the act of licking or stimulating the outer edges of the anus using your tongue. Apart from introducing your wife or girlfriend to the amazing sensations she can get from anal sex, doing it orally for the first few times is not as invasive as using your penis or fingers to penetrate her when the opportunity presents itself.

Let her lead the way.

Sure you may have plenty of lubrication on hand to get into action but it still doesn’t give you the green light to shove your penis inside your partner’s anus right then and there. The best way to penetrate your wife or girlfriend anally without her having to go through a lot of discomfort is to let her guide your penis in so she can gauge how much she can take at one time. Once you’ve got a rhythm going, thrust slowly at one inch intervals and pull out after two to three seconds. Repeat the process until you’re completely in and you’re good to go.

Keep it gentle and slow.

No matter how relaxed and comfortable you think she may be while engaging in anal sex, don’t go for the porn star route and pound her like crazy. While this may sound rather odd, there are actually multiple sphincters (the muscles responsible for the tickling sensation during anal sex) in the anus. As long as you keep your thrusts slow and gentle the whole time, you can ensure that she will find the experience as pleasurable as possible.

Don’t go from anus to vagina. EVER.

The anus harbors a bevy of bacteria that could cause serious infections if you deliberately stick your penis in her vagina after a bout of anal sex. It doesn’t matter how clean you think your member is. If you just penetrated her through the backdoor, then you’re not allowed to come knocking out front until you’ve cleaned up or changed your condom.