how to make a first date awesome

Make a first date awesome for her with these useful pointers...

Make a first date awesome for her with these useful pointers…

Acing a first date isn’t as easy as what so-called “dating gurus” are saying these days.

Apart from being more than just looking and smelling good, making a first date awesome also doesn’t involve putting on loud clothes as well as acting like you’re the alpha male to really get a woman’s attention.

So if you’re looking to make your next first date an experience the woman you’re going out with won’t forget anytime soon, here are a few useful pointers that you should keep in mind…

Do a bit of research.

Unlike what a lot of guys mistakenly think, simply going for the most expensive place they can find and have their first date in there is not the best course of action when it comes to making the whole thing awesome.

A better strategy would be asking your date what her preferences are in terms of the venue, food and drinks as well as other factors, such as the chocolates and flowers she likes.

Besides giving her the notion that you’re doing your best to make your first date as amazing as you can, you’re also making her feel that you are really into her while at it. And this means more brownie points for you, too.

Break the ice with trivial stuff.

Women basically view first dates as an opportunity to socialize. And you’re simply going to make her feel rather awkward when you try to break the ice with complicated topics.

Keep in mind to open with serious stuff like politics, the state of the economy or perhaps the new software you use at the office. You can easily engage her in a meaningful conversation if you ask her what her favorite movie is or the name of her first pet.

You can also easily establish a connection with your date this way because she won’t feel that you’re acting pompous and pretentious just to impress her.

Keep your hands to yourself.

Remember that patience is a virtue, especially during a first date.

Now while there’s nothing wrong with using hand gestures to emphasize a point while having a conversation with a woman on your first date, being touchy-feely with her is simply going to lead to disaster almost immediately.

Don’t get physical with her unless she’s the one initiating it. Sure your intentions may be well-meaning and nice, but you will only creep her out when you do this.

Here are a few tips to make your first date awesome for her.

Here are a few tips to make your first date awesome for her.

I’m sure pulling things off as successfully as possible is the top item in your first date checklist.

However, unlike what so-called “dating gurus” say, achieving this isn’t about showing up on your first date wearing loud apparel and acting like the alpha male, which simply means obnoxious.

I’ve learned a few interesting things during my extensive research into the female psychology and I’m going to share them with you to make your next first date really awesome for the woman you’re out with.

Looking and smelling good is essential.

I know you may have read this line over and over again, but keeping a close eye on your grooming plays a key role when it comes to making a first date great.

See, women are visual creatures who tend to make their impressions on a guy they’re on a date with based on how they look and smell.

If you arrive well-dressed and smelling nicely, you’re sure to earn a lot of brownie points immediately. (Keep in mind to put on clean shoes while at it, too.)

Pick a venue that she’s familiar with.

Unlike what a lot of guys mistakenly think, going for the most expensive venue that you can find for your first date isn’t going to cut it.

This is because she’ll think of your first date more of a job interview instead of an opportunity to get to know you better.

Go for a place that she’s quite familiar with like her local bar or deli so she won’t act and feel reserved on your first date.

Plus, you won’t spend a lot of bucks compared to taking her to a fancy restaurant.

Talk about trivial stuff.

When you engage your date in a conversation, keep in mind to go for topics that are trivial and friendly like her favorite movie or the name of her first pet.

Picking serious ones like politics and similar stuff can make her think you’re already trying too hard to impress her.

As a bonus, you will also tend to pick up a lot of useful information you can use to dazzle her as you go along.

Chivalry is not dead.

Being a gentleman adds a lot of brownie points during your first date, which is definitely going to help boost your chances of making it amazing for her.

Apart from opening doors for the woman you’re out with, lending her your jacket when the weather is a bit nippy is also a nice gesture.