how to get your ex-girlfriend back

Winning her back again is not as complicated as you think.

Winning her back again is not as complicated as you think.

Breakups can be tough, but winning your ex-girlfriend back can be even tougher. If you’re still having trouble zooming in on superb tips to convince your old flame to come back to you, you’ve come to the right place. I have just the pointers to help you easily do that.

Assess your role in the relationship.

Before you even attempt to persuade her to get back with you in a romantic relationship, spending time to reflect why she left you in the first place should be your very first priority. How were you as a boyfriend? Can you honestly call yourself a good one? What mistakes did you commit that made her leave you? Mull over these factors meditatively and take note of them. How were you in bed? Did you know how to stimulate her breasts the right way?

Apologize sincerely.

Making up with your ex-girlfriend is essential if you’re planning to get back with her in the long run. Apologizing for your mistakes in your relationship not only becomes the catalyst for forgiveness but also eases the pain and resentment your ex-girlfriend is going through.

Listen to what she has to say.

To fully understand why your romantic relationship broke apart, it is best to put yourself in her shoes. To do that, you have to invite her for a serious discussion to find out how she really feels about losing you as a lover. While this may not guarantee that you’ll get back together, you’re sure to learn a lot of vital information to be a better boyfriend when you do engage in a relationship in the future.

Avoid contacting her.

No, this doesn’t mean that you should avoid communicating with your ex-girlfriend altogether. You should rather keep clear from calling or sending her text messages as frequently as you would have when you were still in a committed relationship. This way, you are making her miss you unconsciously. Plus, you’ll never know when she will be the one initiating contact if you just play your cards right.

Don’t beg. Ever.

Begging her to take you back as her boyfriend is perhaps the biggest no-no when winning your ex-girlfriend is concerned. Besides being a sign of weakness and desperation, you’ll just make a fool of yourself while at it. When you feel the urge to call her at 3 AM to ask her to get back with you, you’ll just make the whole thing worse no matter how smart you think your prepared speech is.

Winning back the girl of your dreams is not as tough as you think. Here are things you need to take note of to get the job done.

Winning back the girl of your dreams is not as tough as you think. Here are things you need to take note of to get the job done.

I won’t lie to you. It’s no secret that winning back an old flame is one of the toughest things to do, but if you play your cards right pulling it off successfully is not an impossible feat either.

If you’re still zeroing in on the best tips to get back with your ex-girlfriend, then this is the place to be. I will show you a few pointers that just might do the trick when you give the rest of this article a thorough read-through.

Desperation is your number one enemy.

Showing your ex-girlfriend that you are too desperate to get back with her is the best way to, well, look repulsive to her more than ever and botch the whole thing up. No matter how much you want to be with her again, maintaining your dignity above all else is the best way to go to rekindle the fires of passion.

Instead of grovelling and whining for her to take you back (which is absolutely one of the most annoying things you can do to your ex-girlfriend), applying a bit of reverse psychology is a much smarter strategy. Make her miss you. It’s a great way to gauge if she still has feelings for you. If she initiates contact first, you know you’re back in business.

Use the relationship downtime to do some soul searching.

Surely you must have done something really terrible if your ex-girlfriend broke up with you. Before convincing her that you should get back together, coming clean and admitting that you were wrong should be on top of your list. Now is the time to reflect your half of the relationship as well.

How were you as a boyfriend? Did you give her the attention and desire that she deserved when you were still a couple? When was the last time you told your ex-girlfriend how much you loved and cherished her? Make it a point to jot down all of your shortcomings in one nifty list and use it as a guide if she does give you another chance. Believe me, the results will be very amazing.

Hone your lovemaking skills.

Perhaps she’s missing out a lot in the bedroom that’s why she left you. How many times can you honestly say that you’ve made her reach the point of no return when you made love? Did you give her the oral sex she’s always wanted? How long did you last in the bedroom?

Acknowledging that you may have messed up the sexual factor of your relationship is an important step in understanding why she left you. It goes to show that if she’s still not having the satisfaction she deserves in the bedroom when she gives you another opportunity to be her boyfriend, there’s a big possibility that you could lose her again anytime soon.

Improve your communication skills.

Women value communication as one of the most significant components of a romantic relationship. How many times did you have a chat with your girlfriend when you were still together? Did you whisper sweet nothings to her ear regularly? Do you talk to her other than asking for a sex?

Make it a point to become more open and communicative with her when she does get back with you and you’ll be surprised how much difference it makes. Doing so also makes smoothing out any problems and similar obstacles in your relationship easy as pie. Pro-tip: emails and text messages aren’t considered “meaningful communication” by mnay women’s standards so strive to do speak more personally.

Don't wait until it's too late. Here are the secrets to win her back again without a hitch.

Don’t wait until it’s too late. Here are the secrets to win her back again without a hitch.

Winning back an old flame can be quite a challenge even for the most gifted Casanova. However, with a bit of know-how and a lot of determination thrown in for good measure, it isn’t entirely impossible to pull off either. If you still think that your ex-girlfriend is the one you’d rather spend the rest of your life with, then this is the place to be.

Apart from showing you a few tricks that are guaranteed to significantly raise your chances of getting back with your ex, I’ll also include a sensual secret that will surely make your relationship even stronger the next time around. Make sure you give the following tips and pointers a thorough read-through right away to help you get started in a snap:

Use reverse psychology. No matter how sincere your intentions may be, calling up your ex-girlfriend excessively or sending her one too many text messages after you broke up can make her feel rather harassed and stalked instead of being remembered fondly. Although it can be very difficult at first, avoid contacting your ex in any way for at least three to four weeks.

Trust me, the results are worth it. Besides being a very effective technique to start making your ex-girlfriend miss you, chances are she’ll initiate opening the communication lines back again herself when she remembers how much she needs you in her life sooner or later.

Re-assess yourself as the other half of the relationship. If your ex-girlfriend broke up with you, it’s probably because you messed up. Maybe you’ve been neglecting her, not exerting enough effort make her feel appreciated, not listening to what she has to say or perhaps not spending adequate with her.

Maybe your ex was just shrugging these negative feelings off all along until she couldn’t take them anymore and decided to break up with you. Make it a point to find out what your shortcomings in the relationship were and promise to change them for the better when given another chance – or else go through another break up again. Permanently, this time around.

Learn to last longer in bed. Sex is one of the most important components of a stable romantic relationship. Did you ever ask your ex-girlfriend even once if she was fully satisfied after you went for a roll in the hay? How many times can you honestly say that you’ve given her an orgasm? This is the time to acknowledge your mistakes (including the ones outside the bedroom), express regret and learn the finer points of how to stop premature ejaculation. Promise her that you’ll make it up to her and more when she gives you another chance and you’re good to go.