If you’re anything like most men, I’m pretty sure that making your lover achieve orgasm is the top item in your checklist when things are getting intense between the sheets.
However, there are stuff that a lot of guys mistakenly believe that can make their partners reach the Big O during lovemaking, but are actually ruining the whole experience for them.
And there’s a big possibility that you are making some of these mistakes, too. Make sure you read on to find out more…
You go straight to the clitoris.
Although the clitoris is definitely the most sensitive erogenous zone on a woman’s body that you can stimulate during sex, not giving it time to completely get ready for action is going to prevent it from producing pleasurable sensations.
Even if you’re already bringing your A-game into play, your partner will just feel awkward as you go along. She may even find the experience painful, too.
Sure the temptation to get fast and furious on your partner’s clitoris is can be quite tricky to hold back when you get the chance to get down and dirty, but you’ll be very surprised with the results when you allow it to really prep up for stimulation.
You don’t ask her what she wants in bed.
Chances are you already have an idea of the things that your lover likes to experience whenever you two are already at it in the bedroom.
However, this doesn’t mean that you’ll make her come each and every time when you use them in your sexual program. See, a woman’s sexual preferences tend to change from time to time.
Always make it a point to ask your partner what she wants in bed when you have a lovemaking session. She could be in the mood for different sexual positions or foreplay techniques this time.
It’s also a smart move to let her call the shots when you are getting busy in the bedroom, too.
You just focus on your pleasure.
Some guys tend to forget that sex is a two-way street. Now while your pleasure is important, making your partner feel awesome is also a priority.
Keep in mind to make the whole experience extra special for her. Apart from making it easier for her to reach orgasm, she’ll also be more excited to have another sex session sooner than you think.
And what’s really interesting about this is you can prevent premature ejaculation while you’re at it as well.