anal sex pointers

Keep these in mind the next time you have anal sex.

Keep these in mind the next time you have anal sex.

If I were to ask you to reveal the top things in your sexual bucket list, I’m pretty sure that anal sex is one of them.

Besides offering new sensations that you haven’t experienced before, sexually penetrating your lover in the backdoor also makes you feel really macho.

But the thing is even though you’ve got a general idea of how anal sex is done, you and your partner still haven’t given it a go in the bedroom yet.

There’s no need to worry, though. I’ve picked up a few useful pointers during my extensive research into the female sexuality that will help you get the job done properly.

Make sure you follow along to find out more…

Her sexual arousal is essential.

Unlike what you see in porn movies, having a bout of anal sex isn’t about simply making a beeline for your lover’s anus to penetrate it with your penis.

You’ve got to really fire her up for lovemaking first or else she won’t be that eager to get the backdoor action going.

And simply zeroing in on her rear as soon as you get the chance will just be awkward and uncomfortable for her.

Grab a lot of lube.

The anus doesn’t have the ability to produce natural lubrication like the vagina. You’ll need to get your hands on lube to make your anal sex session smooth and pleasurable for her.

Not keeping this in mind will just lead to disaster.

In case you’re still not sure how much lube to reach for, here’s a simple technique you can use: picture out the ideal amount you’ll need and multiply it by two.

Ease her into it.

There’s a big possibility that your partner thinks anal sex is a bit taboo, so make it a point that you discuss the whole thing with her before you even think about pointing your member in the direction of her anus.

“Accidentally” inserting it in the backdoor will simply sap away her mood for action in the bedroom.

Slow and easy is the way to go.

Sure the temptation to go fast and furious as soon as you get the chance may be great, but keep in mind to start the ball rolling with slow and easy thrusts.

You can pick things up as you go along when she’s feeling more comfortable.

Ask her to guide you.

Your lover will feel more confident to give anal sex a shot – and keep at it – if you give her the notion that she calls the shots.

Ask her to guide you as you go along and she’ll be much more comfortable while at it.

Looking to brush up on your anal sex smarts? Check this out.

Looking to brush up on your anal sex smarts? Check this out.

So here’s the thing…

You’ve finally convinced your lover to have anal sex with you after all this time.

However, the thing is preparing for an anal sex session is a bit different from getting ready for regular vaginal sex. There’s no need to worry just yet though if you need to brush up on stuff.

Here are a few pointers that you should always keep in mind when it comes to anal sex to really give your lover an amazing experience she won’t be forgetting anytime soon…

Anal sex tip #1: Warm her up properly.

Akin to regular vaginal sex, you need to get a woman going for lovemaking first before you start the anal action or else she won’t be that eager to do it. And when that happens, she won’t be enjoying the experience no matter how hard you try.

You need to get your partner very excited between the sheets to make her enjoy anal sex. This should be the very first thing you should do when you’re looking to have anal action with her.

Anal sex tip #2: Prepare lots and lots of lube.

The anus doesn’t have the ability of naturally lubricating itself unlike the vagina. This is the reason why you need to have very ample amounts of lube while at it to avoid making things rather rough when you start things up.

I say “very ample” because having enough is not enough. You need a lot of lube because apart from making the anus ready for penetration, you also need to keep it that way as you go along.

Make it a point to go for water-based lubricants as well since they have a more natural feel that their oil-based counterparts. If you feel that things are getting a bit dry even the slightest, re-apply a coating or two of lube as soon as you can.

Anal sex tip #3: Easy does it.

Unlike what you normally see in porn movies, taking things slow and easy when you’re giving your lover anal sex is the way to go. This is because going too fast or too rough can make the whole thing very uncomfortable for her.

Start slow and stay that way. Unless your lover asks you to pick up the pace while the action is hot, keep things slow and easy. Believe me, the whole experience is going to be more pleasurable for you as well.