Sex Tips

These may be the reasons why your erections are losing their power.

These may be the reasons why your erections are losing their power.

I’m pretty sure that you consider your ability to achieve strong and lasting erections one of the most important attributes that you have as a guy.

Besides being your body’s cue that you’re all set to give your lover a sex session that will blow her mind, you’re also in for a lot of pleasurable sensations in the process.

But here’s the situation…

You are simply noticing that your erections aren’t that powerful these days. And it’s getting you worried that you’re already losing your sexual touch.

Sure this problem may be quite upsetting, there’s no need to beat yourself up about it. Or perhaps reach for pills, creams and other artificial stuff that claim to bring back your erections up to par.

Why not follow along to find out the possible reasons that prevent you from really getting rock hard that I’ve come across during my extensive research into the male sexuality?

You don’t load up on the right stuff.

Your regular diet plays a key role when it comes to achieving ideal erections.

What you eat or drink in a regular basis either boost your ability to rise up to the occasion or disrupt the whole thing altogether.

Make it a point to mostly go for the right stuff like fresh fruits and vegetables when you chow down.

I’m not saying that you should totally swear off your favorite comfort foods and drinks, though. Just keep in mind to load up on them once in a while and you’re good to go.

You light up when you get the urge.

Sure having a puff of your favorite cigarette helps you relax and think clearer, but you’re basically putting your erections at risk when you do this.

See, cigarettes contain several toxic chemicals that damage your lungs and other vital organs as well as cause the blood vessels to tighten.

And if you’ve been following my posts for a while now, you probably already know that having the ideal amount of circulation directed to the erectile tissues in the penis is a must to have a strong erection.

You don’t sweat it out.

Exercise basically helps the heart in tiptop shape.

Your ticker is the organ that is in charge of pumping blood to the pelvic region where it gets absorbed by the erectile tissue in the penis.

And if the heart isn’t functioning like it should, your erections could be in danger of losing their edge.

Are you doing these during foreplay? Stop!

Are you doing these during foreplay? Stop!

When it comes to giving your lover an experience in the bedroom that she won’t be forgetting anytime soon, getting an amazing foreplay session going is definitely a priority.

Giving your partner awesome foreplay makes her more sexually excited. The more fired up for sex she is, the easier it will be for you to make her reach the Big O as you go along.

But the thing is a lot of guys mistakenly think that foreplay is all about reaching for a woman’s erogenous zones like the breasts and clitoris to stimulate them.

This move will just make your lover feel awkward and uncomfortable, which can ruin her sexual mood before you know it believe me.

And speaking of things that can sap her sexual mood, here are a few more foreplay mistakes that I’ve come across during my extensive research into the female psychology…

Not jazzing up the bedroom.

Women are very particular with cleanliness and organization. And if she finds your bedroom messy and dirty, her sexual arousal could take a nosedive.

This is because her stress levels will rise, which cancel out the effects of the positive hormones that are needed to get her sexual arousal in gear.

Make it a point to give your bedroom the organizing and cleaning it deserves before you get the action going.

Not putting on some nice tunes.

Music basically helps your partner get relaxed.

And if you’ve been following my posts for a while now, it won’t be that tricky to make her fired up for lovemaking if she feels really comfortable.

Besides getting her mind at ease, nice tunes also have a sexy feel to them.

Can’t decide which ones to pick? For starters, slow jazz, instrumentals and ballads can get you on your way.

Not varying your techniques.

Sure you may already have a general idea of the things your lover likes during foreplay, but simply doing the same stuff over and over will just make them flat and boring in the long run.

Keep in mind to always have new techniques up your sleeve when you and your partner are already at it in the bedroom.

She’ll also become more excited because you will keep her on her toes in the process.

Not keeping an eye on your grooming.

Remember the pointer I’ve emphasized about women and cleaning and organizing? It also involves your overall grooming, too.

Make it a point to always keep an eye on how you look and smell before you sizzle things up with her and you’ll be surprised with the results.

These tips will help you get more BJ's from her.

These tips will help you get more BJ’s from her.

If you’re anything like most guys, chances are you’d like to have as much oral action from your lover as possible.

However, you’re simply noticing that she’s not going down on you like she used to these days.

And it’s already getting you worried that you may be losing your touch in terms of making her explore south of your border.

There’s no need to worry just yet, though. I’ve come across a few simple pointers that may just help increase your chances to convince your partner to give you more BJ’s.

Let me explain what I mean…

Ask her nicely.

I know this sounds really simplistic right now, but a lot of men seem to overlook the fact that they’re getting somewhat bossy when they’re hankering for some oral action.

Make it a point to always ask her as nice as you can when you’re looking to make her play your skin flute when you’re already at in between the sheets.

Besides making her feel that you really respect her, asking her nicely also staves off a surge in stress hormones in her body that will kill her sexual mood.

Knock her socks off when you go down on her.

If you’re gunning to make her go down on you as much as possible, giving her a mind-blowing oral sex session yourself each time you’re getting busy south of her border is definitely a priority.

(While we’re on the subject, here’s a useful oral sex pointer you need to keep in mind when you’re already working your magic down there.)

When she gets the notion that you’re always pulling out all the stops to give her an awesome time when you give her cunnilingus, she will more than happy to return the favor before you know it.

Get her imagination in gear.

Unlike what a lot of men mistakenly think, convincing a woman to give you head mostly involved luck.

It’s either she’s going to blow you if you’re lucky or not.

But the thing is the possibility that she’s going to “open wide for Chunky” becomes much higher if you make her imagination run wild.

See, the more fired up for sex a woman is, the more adventurous she will become in the bedroom.

Don’t see cunnilingus as a burden.

Some men tend to be very obvious when it comes to showing that they think of giving their partners oral sex as tedious work.

You’ll only make her feel annoyed and taken for granted when you do this. Always remember that giving awesome oral sex is a two-way street.

Always avoid these anal sex mistakes!

Always avoid these anal sex mistakes!

So you’ve finally convinced your lover to have anal sex with you…

Now while you already have a general idea of how to do it, a lot of men mistakenly believe that pulling the whole thing off is simply about making a beeline to her anus to sexually penetrate it.

Doing just that will only make your partner feel awkward and really uncomfortable. And you can already picture out how your anal sex session will turn out as you go along.

Interestingly, I’ve learned some key mistakes you need to avoid when you’re looking to give a woman an anal sex session she’ll like.

Let me explain what I mean…

Not getting her really fired up for lovemaking.

A woman’s sexual arousal level plays a key role when it comes to her anal sex enjoyment.

See, the hornier she is when you’re already at it in the bedroom, the more pleasurable the sensations she will experience when the action takes place.

Your lover will also be more game between the sheets when her sexual arousal is off the charts, too.

You don’t discuss it outside the bedroom.

Simply introducing the idea that you want to sexually penetrate your partner’s anus when you’re already heating things up in bed with her is just going to sap her mood for lovemaking.

This is because she’ll just feel that you’re making her do something she doesn’t want to, which can make her more anxious than sexually excited.

Besides making her feel uneasy, she won’t also be that adventurous in bed when her sexual arousal level takes a dive.

You have only a bit of lube.

Getting your hands on a lot of lube is a priority if you’re looking to make anal sex pleasurable for a woman.

See, the anus isn’t like the vagina that can produce its own natural lubrication. And if the former isn’t that well lubricated, the sensations that your lover will experience when you’re already getting busy in the backdoor are just going to be rough and sore.

Here’s a simple technique you can use to make sure if you’ve got enough lube for anal sex: picture out the ideal amount you think you’ll need, double it and you’re done.

You don’t go slow and easy.

Akin to the vagina, going fast and furious on the anus when you’re already sexually penetrating it is just going to lead to disaster.

Keep in mind to go at it slow and easy. Besides making the sensations she’s going to experience more intense, you also won’t be prone to coming way sooner than you’d like to in the process.