Sex Tips

These are the reasons why she's not cumming these days.

These are the reasons why she’s not cumming these days.

Making your lover achieve the Big O is no doubt the biggest priority in your sexual checklist.

Although you may already have a few proven techniques in your lovemaking playbook that boost your chances of making her come during sex, you’re simply noticing that they’re not hitting their mark anymore these days.

And it’s already getting you worried that you may have already lost your sexual touch.

There’s no need to worry just yet, though. Chances are you’re just making a few mistakes that can prevent your partner from reaching orgasm.

Make sure you follow along to find out more…

You’re not getting her completely sexually aroused.

At its simplest, making a woman come during sex involves making her body produce and release high levels of positive hormones and neurotransmitters. When these reach their peak numbers, the brain translates this as its cue to activate a woman’s orgasmic responses.

Besides being a key factor in making a woman reach orgasm, getting your lover completely sexually aroused also makes the pleasuring you do more intense and her erogenous zones more responsive to stimulation.

You’re wondering how long it takes for her to come.

You’re just going to be in for disaster when you do this. See, making it a habit to wonder when your lover is going to come not just makes you think that making her achieve orgasm is a burden, but also affects your overall sexual performance. Just keep in mind to pull out all the stops when you’re at it and you’re on your way to making her come.

You do the same things again and again.

Picture out your favorite comfort food. Sure chowing down on it from time to time is nice, but eating it virtually each day takes away the excitement from enjoying it. This also applies to sex. If you’re doing the same moves over and over, the excitement they give will plummet sooner or later.

(And while we’re on the subject, here’s a great way to stimulate her breasts.)

You don’t let her in on the action.

Who knows best what sexual moves will make her come other than your lover? Make it a point to always ask her to guide you during lovemaking. Besides always hitting your mark when you’re busting your sexual moves and boosting your chances of making her come, your partner will also have the notion that you’re really into her when you do this. How’s that for two for two?

Simple and natural tips to prevent premature ejaculation.

Simple and natural tips to prevent premature ejaculation.

Chances are you’d like to last for as long as you can if you’re anything like most guys. Come to think of it – pun intended – what kind of man wouldn’t want to?

Besides experiencing lots and lots of pleasurable sensations, you’re also going to give your lover a sex session she won’t forget anytime soon.

But here’s the situation…

You’re simply noticing that you are reaching orgasm and ejaculating way sooner than you’d like to these days. And it’s already getting you worried.

There’s no need to get upset, though. I’ve picked up a few tips during my extensive research into the male sexuality that will help you extend your bedroom playing time.

Make sure you read on to find out what they are…

Have a positive mindset.

I know this sounds surprising right now, but you’re going to come sooner than you’d like to when you have a negative mindset during lovemaking. Examples of this include thinking that you’ll ejaculate prematurely while the action’s getting hot in bed.

See, apart from causing a surge in negative hormones that disrupts your overall sexual arousal, the brain will also think that this is what you really want and will set off your orgasmic and ejaculatory responses sooner than they should.

Go slow and easy.

At its simplest, the body will engage its ejaculatory and orgasmic responses when it detects that the levels of positive hormones and neurotransmitters that are released during sexual arousal have reached their peak.

The slower you go when you and your partner are at it between the sheets, the longer this process happens, which also helps you last longer during sex. The more intense the sensations you’ll experience while at it, too.

How’s that for an awesome bonus?

Focus on her pleasure.

Some men tend to overlook that they need to knock their partners’ socks off during lovemaking. They tend to get carried away and go full speed ahead as soon as they get the chance to sexually penetrate them.

The more you focus on your lover’s pleasure, the more you’ll think of how to blow her mind during your sex session.

Stimulate her in other ways.

Like we’ve discussed earlier, you’re at risk of coming way sooner than you’d like to when the amount of positive hormones and neurotransmitters reach their peak earlier than they should. This primarily comes from penile stimulation.

Make it a point to stimulate her in other ways to prevent having an overload of penile stimulation while you’re at it. You can give her amazing oral sex or fingering session instead of sexually penetrating your lover the whole time.

Oral sex mistakes you need to keep clear of.

Oral sex mistakes you need to keep clear of.

Oral sex is no doubt one of the best strategies you can go for when it comes to giving a woman a lovemaking session that she won’t forget anytime soon.

Now while you may already have a general idea of how to pull the whole thing off, there’s still a possibility that you’re making a few mistakes when you explore south of her border.

During my extensive research into the female sexuality, I’ve picked up a few mistakes that can make the experience dull and even uncomfortable for her.

So if you’re looking to really blow her mind the next time you go down on your lover, here are the oral sex no-no’s you need to keep clear of…

Stimulating the clitoris right off the bat.

Sure the clitoris may be the most sensitive of all the erogenous zones in a woman’s body, but it doesn’t produce and release pleasurable sensations at the drop of a hat. It needs to be properly prepped up first before it can churn out sensations that will blow her mind.

Make it a point to go for other moves like petting and stroking to get her really going instead of making a beeline to her clitoris. This may sound surprising, but she’ll just end up feeling awkward and uncomfortable when you stimulate it prematurely.

Not getting her totally sexually aroused.

A woman’s body won’t be ideally responsive to stimulation when she isn’t completely sexually aroused. She won’t feel the sensations that you’re aiming for if her sexual arousal isn’t off the charts.

If she’s not fired up for lovemaking like she should, chances are oral sex will feel dull for her if you go down on her. Her clitoris will also puff up if she’s reached the state of complete sexual arousal, too.

Going too fast too soon.

You will just make her feel uncomfortable – and eventually sore – if you go fast and furious on her south of the border as soon as you get the chance. Slow and easy does when it comes to oral sex.

Besides making her more sexually excited with each stroke you do, going as slow as you can also promotes more intense sensations for her. Put two and two together and you’ll knock her socks off in no time.

Not asking for her inputs.

Letting her guide you doesn’t just make her feel that you’re really into her, but also gives you the opportunity to push the right buttons as you go along. And when you do that, she’ll have the best oral sex experience each time you go down on her.

Anal sex tips you need to keep in mind.

Anal sex tips you need to keep in mind.

I’m pretty sure that anal sex is one of the things in your lovemaking bucket list. And now you’ve finally convinced your partner to give it a go.

Now while you’ve already got a general idea of what anal sex is, a lot of men tend to have the wrong notion about it. They think that you should do it like what you see in porn flicks.

And that will just lead to disaster before you know it.

What’s really interesting is I’ve come across a few pointers that will help you make the whole experience pleasurable for you and your lover.

Make sure you follow along to find out more…

Have a lot of lube ready.

Unlike the vagina that can naturally produce its own lubrication, the anus needs a lot of help in this department. This is the reason why you need to have a lot of lube on hand to make things as smooth and easy as possible during anal sex. Make it a point to apply a liberal amount of lube all over your penis before starting to sexually penetrating her in the backdoor.

Start with only the tip.

I know the urge to shove it all the way in is great when you’re having anal sex, but it’s best if you only start with the tip, especially when it’s just the first time you’re doing it. See, this not only helps your lover adapt to the sensations that she’ll experience, but also prevent her from feeling awkward and uncomfortable in the process. You can go in deeper as you go along, though.

Slow is the way to go.

Going slow not just makes the sensations that the both of you will feel more intense, but it will also keep her from feeling uncomfortable while at it. This is because she’ll just end up feeling sore when you go fast and furious while your anal sex session is going on. And as a bonus, it will also keep you from coming sooner than you’d like to as well.

Re-apply from time to time.

Applying a lot of lube when you start your anal sex session isn’t enough. You’ll need to apply again and again during the course of it. As soon as you feel that things aren’t as smooth and easy as before, make it a point to re-apply a liberal amount of lube as soon as you can.