Sex Tips

Think sex on the beach is hot? Read this.

If you’re anything like most guys, chances are you’d like to get sexually wild – and in a good way at that – from time to time.

Besides experimenting with new ways on how you can make your partner’s pleasure levels off the charts in the bedroom, doing just that makes you feel like a stud, too.

Now while being sexually adventurous (and here’s how you can make her wilder during lovemaking) is an attribute you should have to keep your lover on her toes when it comes to giving her the satisfaction she wants in bed, simply getting careless with the places you get it on can lead to more problems than pleasure.

Sure there is nothing wrong with changing things up during sex, but no matter what you do avoid getting frisky with your partner in the following places or else you’ll just end up getting hurt and upset sooner than you think…

Don’t even try to record it on your phone!

Let’s start with something you shouldn’t even think about doing in the bedroom ever.

A lot of men think that it’s cool to record themselves while getting in action in bed. Sure it may be awesome to see yourself frame by frame doing the deed, but the possible repercussions are just too horrible to think of.

What if you accidentally upload it somewhere and it went viral? What if the gadget you used to record your sexual romp gets stolen and the content gets circulated on the web? Well, if you think that’s already horrible, we haven’t even questioned what will happen if your parents, siblings or relatives see it…

Sex in a hot tub isn’t hot at all.

The phrase “getting wet and wild” can take on a new meaning if you pick the hot tub as your next lovemaking destination. Besides messing with your lover’s natural lubrication, the high temperatures produced by the hot tub can also encourage the development of bacteria and other nasty stuff.

By the way, if you’re looking to get your partner pregnant, the hot tub also significantly reduces your body’s ability to produce quality sperm. Better take your business somewhere else to really pull it off.

Getting your rocks off in an elevator is a horrible idea.

The combination of excitement and the naughtiness of not being caught during the act are pretty much what makes sex in the elevator appealing to a lot of guys. However, apart from straining and feeling cramped the whole time, most elevators also have security cameras installed in them. You’ll only end up not getting satisfied and have trouble with security in the process.

Making love on the beach is going to be “beachy.”

Unlike what a lot of men mistakenly believe, having sex on the beach is not as novel or pleasurable as it sounds. Besides exposing your intimate areas to grains of sand that can give you more than a nasty burn or two, there are also tiny creatures living in and on the beach that just might crawl up into places that they shouldn’t even remotely be supposed to.

Sea water also counteracts with the natural lubrication that your lover produces during sex. Instead of making things smooth and easy, she’ll just feel sore and raw regardless of how sexually aroused she may be.

Stimulating a woman’s skin is something you should take take full advantage of in the bedroom.

I’d like to ask you a simple question before we kick things off…

How often do you stimulate your partner’s skin when you are looking to get her in the mood for action in bed?

Well, the thing is a lot of men miss out on the power of stimulating the skin to take their lovers’ sexual arousal off the charts.

Unlike what most guys think, the skin is basically one of the best erogenous zones that you should start focusing more on if you’re looking to easily warm up your partner between the sheets.

At its simplest, the skin is basically overloaded with sensitive nerve endings that can elicit countless pleasurable sensations from your lover.

There are around hundreds of thousands of these nerve endings per square inch of your lover’s skin and concentrating on it when it comes to prepping her up for sex is definitely one of the smartest decisions you will ever make during lovemaking.

So if you’re looking to surprise your partner the next time you want to get things hot in the bedroom, here are a few simple yet effective skin stimulation techniques that you definitely have to keep in mind…

You’ll be surprised how a simple tickle can do to get her horny.

Tickling can be rather sexy when done right. It serves a couple purposes in the bedroom as well. One, it loosens her up so that getting sexually aroused won’t be tough for her. And two, the sensations you can give her can vary from plain ticklish to amazingly erotic when you adjust the pressure that you apply on her skin.

A woman’s scalp is an erogenous zone that needs TLC.

Sure her scalp may be well-hidden under your lover’s locks, but stimulating it properly is sure to make her feel tingly and excited all over. As I have pointed out earlier, there are practically countless nerve endings under your skin and interestingly there are a lot of them in the scalp.

There are a couple of ways you can pull this off. You can either offer to wash her hair and give her scalp a good massage in the process, or simply brush her hair gently for a few minutes. Just remember to be extra gentle while you’re at it since the scalp can sometimes be extra sensitive, especially during hot weather.

Get her going with a nice massage.

Now while this may sound surprising, massaging your lover should absolutely be on your checklist when you want to take her sexual arousal up a notch. Women are more likely to be sexually aroused when they are relaxed and nothing beats kneading her weary muscles to start the ball rolling.

There a few things that you should take note of before starting your massage session though. Apart from making sure that the place you’ll give her a massage is clean and organized, taking time to integrate some cool elements like a smooth playlist and aromatic oils in the mix will intensify the pleasure she’ll get while at it.

So you’d like to keep on having strong and powerful erections…

Let me ask you a quick question before we start things off…

Don’t you feel like the manliest man in the world when you get a powerful erection? If you’re anything like most guys, chances are you probably do.

And this isn’t just something about ego, too. Having a rock hard erection is simply one the most important things that you’ll need when it comes to giving your lover an amazing time in bed.

Besides stimulating the hypersensitive nerve endings in your partner’s vagina, having a stable erection also means you won’t have to go through unwanted interruptions during your lovemaking session.

But the thing is don’t believe the so-called “experts” who say that keeping your erections as powerful as ever can be achieved by taking certain pills or perhaps some other chemical-based products.

Interestingly, there are simple and natural ways to do just that.

So if you’re looking to keep your ability to get rock hard up to par, here are a few simple pointers that will definitely help you do just that…

Give your teeth and gums the TLC they deserve.

Good oral health is a requirement when stable erections are concerned. Not taking care of your pearly whites and gums like you should will only lead to a number of oral problems, which can easily allow nasty bacteria to break into the bloodstream via diseased teeth and gums.

Sure it may sound rather dull and boring, but regularly flossing and brushing your teeth at least twice daily can help prevent tooth decay, gingivitis and other oral diseases. Make sure you regularly visit your dentist every 4 to 6 months as well, not just when you’re having a toothache or sore gums.

Don’t drink like a fish!

Now while drinking like a fish day by day can eventually lead to constricted blood vessels and arteries that can hinder the flow of blood to your penis, indulging in a glass or two of your favorite brews can actually help make the heart stronger.

And just to set things straight, this doesn’t apply to smoking even a bit. Smoking cigarettes will only lead to the build-up of plaque in the lining of your blood vessels, which can lead to strokes and other potentially fatal health issues in the future.

Regulate your sitting time.

There is scientific proof that there’s a direct link between having a sedentary lifestyle and erectile dysfunction. Spending most of the day sitting down watching TV or playing video games simply weakens your heart’s ability to pump blood efficiently all over your body.

Significant dips in your blood flow mean that the erectile tissues in your penis won’t be getting the sufficient amount of blood they need to get hard and ready for sex. Make it a point to at least allot 20 to 30 minutes of your day sweating it out.

Don’t give in to your sweet tooth urges each and every time.

Excessive sugar consumption can lead to the development of diabetes. And one of the effects of diabetes in the body is disrupting the flow of information from the nerves to the brain, which includes the signals your brain needs to send more blood to your penis during sexual arousal.

Now while it’s alright to indulge in your favorite desserts and other delectable goodies once in a while, doing it in a daily basis can easily lead to diabetes the least you expect it. Just remember to always take it easy and you’ll be fine.

How’d you like to see more of this when you step inside the bedroom?

Getting your lover warmed up between the sheets is not as complicated as you think. But the thing is this isn’t like what a lot of self-proclaimed “pickup artists” or “dating gurus” are saying.

You’d actually have to do something meaningful and not just show some silly gestures that these charlatans say are supposedly “guaranteed to get her hot.” Yeah, right.

Now while your partner may not get sexually aroused at the drop of a hat like you do, there are a few simple tricks that are guaranteed to get her ready for lovemaking in no time.

So if you’re looking to improve your chances of really turning your lover on the next time you get frisky in the bedroom, here’s what you should do…

Fire your stove and cook her something special.

Surprising your lover with a tasty plate of pasta or some other home-cooked meal is one way to start her up for lovemaking.

Apart from making her feel really special, the smell of food also excites the neurons in her brain that control positive feelings like happiness, delight and even sexual arousal.

Just to make it more interesting, there are also foods that can regenerate and improve a man’s libido, so you won’t have problem getting ready for sex when things get spicy between you and your lover.

Get her mind going.

A lot of guys think that getting physical is the only method to get a woman hot and ready for a sex session.

Sure stimulating her erogenous zones is one way to warm your lover up in bed, but having a bit of mental stimulation in the mix is definitely going to make the whole thing much easier.

Send your partner naughty text messages. Email her the things you’d do to her when you two get alone in the bedroom. Call her up unexpectedly and describe the kinky stuff she’ll be in for later. Send her a few sexy selfies. You can bet that she can’t wait to get in some sexy action with you.

Take your grooming and hygiene up a notch.

It’s crucial that you should pay close attention to is how you look and smell.

Like all women, your lover is very particular with the visual and nasal cues you send off. If she thinks you smell or look unpleasant, chances are she won’t be too keen on having sex with you anytime soon.

When you smell great, however, she’ll be like putty in your hands when you start working your magic.

Besides taking regular showers, make it also a habit to splash on a good amount of deodorant and keeping your oral hygiene in check by brushing and flossing your teeth regularly. Keep in mind to trim your fingernails while you’re at it, too.