Unlike what a lot of so-called “dating gurus” are saying, acing a first date isn’t something that you can pull off immediately.
There are key factors that you should take note of to really wow the woman you’re going out with and easily convince her to have another date with you soon.
So if you’re looking to take your chances of acing your next first date, here are some important tips that you should keep in mind…
Get her in on the planning.
If you’re anything like most guys, chances are you think that all of the planning and organizing of a first date should be your responsibility.
However, you’re already missing out on a number of opportunities to impress the woman you’re going on a date with if you have this mindset.
Besides having an idea of the stuff that she likes, you will also make her feel that you’re really interested in her, which easily scores you a lot of brownie points in her book while at it.
Keep a close eye on your grooming.
Sure this may sound simplistic, but not making it a point to keep a close eye on your grooming for a first date will already lead to disaster before you know it.
This is because women are very particular with how a man looks and smells. If you don’t make the cut, she’s just going to have a surge of stress hormones in her body that won’t raise her anxiety levels, but also make her feel impatient in the process.
Just imagine how your first date will turn out when this happens.
(Here are some key grooming tips that will surely get you on the right track.)
Switch your mobile phone off.
The woman you’re going on a first date with will simply feel that she’s boring you to death if you check out your phone every couple of minutes.
Keep in mind that your texts, voice mails, status updates and tweets can wait for later. This also applies to other gadgets that you may have like tablets and mp3 players.
Listen to her attentively.
Always remember to listen to her as closely as you can when you manage to engage her in a meaningful conversation.
Besides getting to know her better, you’ll also promote a boost in positive hormones in her body, which will make her feel comfortable, relaxed and excited.
And just imagine what will happen when she starts to associate these feelings with you…