Foreplay Tips

Stimulating a woman’s skin is something you should take take full advantage of in the bedroom.

I’d like to ask you a simple question before we kick things off…

How often do you stimulate your partner’s skin when you are looking to get her in the mood for action in bed?

Well, the thing is a lot of men miss out on the power of stimulating the skin to take their lovers’ sexual arousal off the charts.

Unlike what most guys think, the skin is basically one of the best erogenous zones that you should start focusing more on if you’re looking to easily warm up your partner between the sheets.

At its simplest, the skin is basically overloaded with sensitive nerve endings that can elicit countless pleasurable sensations from your lover.

There are around hundreds of thousands of these nerve endings per square inch of your lover’s skin and concentrating on it when it comes to prepping her up for sex is definitely one of the smartest decisions you will ever make during lovemaking.

So if you’re looking to surprise your partner the next time you want to get things hot in the bedroom, here are a few simple yet effective skin stimulation techniques that you definitely have to keep in mind…

You’ll be surprised how a simple tickle can do to get her horny.

Tickling can be rather sexy when done right. It serves a couple purposes in the bedroom as well. One, it loosens her up so that getting sexually aroused won’t be tough for her. And two, the sensations you can give her can vary from plain ticklish to amazingly erotic when you adjust the pressure that you apply on her skin.

A woman’s scalp is an erogenous zone that needs TLC.

Sure her scalp may be well-hidden under your lover’s locks, but stimulating it properly is sure to make her feel tingly and excited all over. As I have pointed out earlier, there are practically countless nerve endings under your skin and interestingly there are a lot of them in the scalp.

There are a couple of ways you can pull this off. You can either offer to wash her hair and give her scalp a good massage in the process, or simply brush her hair gently for a few minutes. Just remember to be extra gentle while you’re at it since the scalp can sometimes be extra sensitive, especially during hot weather.

Get her going with a nice massage.

Now while this may sound surprising, massaging your lover should absolutely be on your checklist when you want to take her sexual arousal up a notch. Women are more likely to be sexually aroused when they are relaxed and nothing beats kneading her weary muscles to start the ball rolling.

There a few things that you should take note of before starting your massage session though. Apart from making sure that the place you’ll give her a massage is clean and organized, taking time to integrate some cool elements like a smooth playlist and aromatic oils in the mix will intensify the pleasure she’ll get while at it.

How’d you like to see more of this when you step inside the bedroom?

Getting your lover warmed up between the sheets is not as complicated as you think. But the thing is this isn’t like what a lot of self-proclaimed “pickup artists” or “dating gurus” are saying.

You’d actually have to do something meaningful and not just show some silly gestures that these charlatans say are supposedly “guaranteed to get her hot.” Yeah, right.

Now while your partner may not get sexually aroused at the drop of a hat like you do, there are a few simple tricks that are guaranteed to get her ready for lovemaking in no time.

So if you’re looking to improve your chances of really turning your lover on the next time you get frisky in the bedroom, here’s what you should do…

Fire your stove and cook her something special.

Surprising your lover with a tasty plate of pasta or some other home-cooked meal is one way to start her up for lovemaking.

Apart from making her feel really special, the smell of food also excites the neurons in her brain that control positive feelings like happiness, delight and even sexual arousal.

Just to make it more interesting, there are also foods that can regenerate and improve a man’s libido, so you won’t have problem getting ready for sex when things get spicy between you and your lover.

Get her mind going.

A lot of guys think that getting physical is the only method to get a woman hot and ready for a sex session.

Sure stimulating her erogenous zones is one way to warm your lover up in bed, but having a bit of mental stimulation in the mix is definitely going to make the whole thing much easier.

Send your partner naughty text messages. Email her the things you’d do to her when you two get alone in the bedroom. Call her up unexpectedly and describe the kinky stuff she’ll be in for later. Send her a few sexy selfies. You can bet that she can’t wait to get in some sexy action with you.

Take your grooming and hygiene up a notch.

It’s crucial that you should pay close attention to is how you look and smell.

Like all women, your lover is very particular with the visual and nasal cues you send off. If she thinks you smell or look unpleasant, chances are she won’t be too keen on having sex with you anytime soon.

When you smell great, however, she’ll be like putty in your hands when you start working your magic.

Besides taking regular showers, make it also a habit to splash on a good amount of deodorant and keeping your oral hygiene in check by brushing and flossing your teeth regularly. Keep in mind to trim your fingernails while you’re at it, too.

These pointers can help boost your chances of finally getting some head from her.

I won’t lie to you.

Based on personal experience – or sexperience, if you will – BJ’s are simply awesome. Besides feeling great, getting head is also one of the manliest experiences that you’ll ever go through.

How about you? Do you have a similar viewpoint about blowjobs?

However, I’ve been receiving a lot of emails on the subject, especially on how to convince a woman to go down on you, these past few days. And to help those who need a bit of assistance in this department, this post is for you.

So without further ado, let’s get the whole thing going…

A lot of guys consider blowjobs as one of the things that should be always on their sexual checklist when they get in action between the sheets.

However, what makes things a bit interesting is that most women aren’t that too excited to give oral sex when things get hot in the bedroom because of a few simple factors.

So if you’re looking to improve your chances of getting more action downtown from your lover, here are the key factors that can easily break your chances of getting a blowjob almost instantly…

You think you’re entitled to get a BJ session from her.

Although women like to have sex as much as men do, they need a bit of time to adjust when it comes to trying new stuff in bed. Sure encouraging your lover to give your oral sex is nice, but pestering her about it just every time you get frisky is a different story.

Don’t feel bad if she isn’t up for oral sex the first or second try. Wait until you think she’s ready to handle it. Patience is a virtue when oral sex is concerned and you’ll be nicely rewarded if you just hang on. Make sure you beef up your efforts at stimulating her mentally while you’re at it to speed the whole thing up, too.

You don’t go down on her like you should.

Now while this may sound surprising, it takes your initiative to go down on your lover before she will be eager to give you the same treatment. However, you shouldn’t consider this as a favor or else you won’t change her mindset about blowjobs successfully.

Make sure you always pleasure your partner orally every time things get hot in the bedroom. Always stimulate her vagina, clitoris and other erogenous hot spots in and around her groin area during sex to give her the impression that you really like going down on her. You’ll be just surprised how fast she’ll want go down on you sooner or later.

Your personal hygiene needs improvement.

Women are very inherently particular with visual and nasal cues when it comes to oral sex. In simpler terms, you have to smell and look good to them or else you won’t be able to convince her to go down on you anytime soon.

Make it a point to shower regularly and give your privates a really good scrubbing if you’re planning to make your lover give you oral sex. Trimming your pubic hair is also a smart idea while you’re at it.

And here’s a cool bonus: perking up your overall hygiene helps boost your chances of making her say yes to action in bed, too.

She’s looking for some action if she shows these signs…

I am really disappointed with what a lot of self-proclaimed “pickup artists” are saying.

They claim that getting a woman in the mood for lovemaking instantly – remember the operative word here is “instantly” – is just about doing a “secret technique.”

See, I’ve already pointed out in a previous post that I’ve learned during my extensive research into the female psychology that making a woman sexually aroused is a process.

But what I can tell you is I’ve gathered some pretty useful information when it comes to figuring out if a woman is already getting hot under the collar.

Read on to find out more…

Women can sometimes be very tricky to decipher between the sheets. There are times when you think you’ve already got her going for lovemaking, but you find out that she still needs a bit of warming up, which can be a bit disappointing.

Now while your lover may not have neon signs all over her body that light up when she’s in the mood for sex, there are actually simple ways you can use to tell if she’s ready to jump in bed with you.

Make sure you follow along to learn what these are…

 Hint #1: She is rather anxious…in a good way.

 A lot of sensations hit a woman when she is sexually aroused that she’s basically confused how to react to them all at once.

You can tell that she’s feeling the mood for love if she seems to be very agitated, but in a good way. Don’t mind what she does. Just get into action.

Hint #2: She keeps on licking her lips.

A woman’s brain sends out massive doses of the natural chemical, dopamine, when she is sexually aroused.

This basically makes her lose her inhibitions and do a number of things she doesn’t normally do like clicking her lips, cocking her head from side to side and even arching her back. You can also expect to see a sultry smile in there, too.

Hint #3: Her eyes seem to be giving you the “come hither” look.

A woman’s eyes tend to glaze over when she gets sexually aroused.

As I have pointed out earlier, this is because of the hormonal changes that are happening in her body. The next time you two get frisky between the sheets, make it a point to catch a glimpse of her eyes, especially the pupils. If they’ve noticeably widened, then you’re in business.

Hint #4: She is blushing.

Your lover’s blood flow basically becomes more active during sexual arousal.

This is because akin to men, blood flow is also channelled to her sexual organs to make them function properly during lovemaking. While this is happening, the extra amounts of blood tend to pool in specific areas like the chest, neck, thighs and armpits. If you’re in doubt, better give them a quick peek.

Hint #5: Her breathing rate goes north.

When a woman feels sexually aroused, the hormonal patterns in her body are disrupted.

Besides raising up her blood pressure levels, her pulse also quickens and her body temperature climbs. Due to this sudden increase in temperature, the body compensates by breathing faster to cool off. This ultimately makes her breathing shallower and quicker.