Making your lover achieve the Big O is no doubt the biggest priority in your sexual checklist.
Although you may already have a few proven techniques in your lovemaking playbook that boost your chances of making her come during sex, you’re simply noticing that they’re not hitting their mark anymore these days.
And it’s already getting you worried that you may have already lost your sexual touch.
There’s no need to worry just yet, though. Chances are you’re just making a few mistakes that can prevent your partner from reaching orgasm.
Make sure you follow along to find out more…
You’re not getting her completely sexually aroused.
At its simplest, making a woman come during sex involves making her body produce and release high levels of positive hormones and neurotransmitters. When these reach their peak numbers, the brain translates this as its cue to activate a woman’s orgasmic responses.
Besides being a key factor in making a woman reach orgasm, getting your lover completely sexually aroused also makes the pleasuring you do more intense and her erogenous zones more responsive to stimulation.
You’re wondering how long it takes for her to come.
You’re just going to be in for disaster when you do this. See, making it a habit to wonder when your lover is going to come not just makes you think that making her achieve orgasm is a burden, but also affects your overall sexual performance. Just keep in mind to pull out all the stops when you’re at it and you’re on your way to making her come.
You do the same things again and again.
Picture out your favorite comfort food. Sure chowing down on it from time to time is nice, but eating it virtually each day takes away the excitement from enjoying it. This also applies to sex. If you’re doing the same moves over and over, the excitement they give will plummet sooner or later.
(And while we’re on the subject, here’s a great way to stimulate her breasts.)
You don’t let her in on the action.
Who knows best what sexual moves will make her come other than your lover? Make it a point to always ask her to guide you during lovemaking. Besides always hitting your mark when you’re busting your sexual moves and boosting your chances of making her come, your partner will also have the notion that you’re really into her when you do this. How’s that for two for two?