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Simple and natural tips to prevent premature ejaculation.

Simple and natural tips to prevent premature ejaculation.

Chances are you’d like to last for as long as you can if you’re anything like most guys. Come to think of it – pun intended – what kind of man wouldn’t want to?

Besides experiencing lots and lots of pleasurable sensations, you’re also going to give your lover a sex session she won’t forget anytime soon.

But here’s the situation…

You’re simply noticing that you are reaching orgasm and ejaculating way sooner than you’d like to these days. And it’s already getting you worried.

There’s no need to get upset, though. I’ve picked up a few tips during my extensive research into the male sexuality that will help you extend your bedroom playing time.

Make sure you read on to find out what they are…

Have a positive mindset.

I know this sounds surprising right now, but you’re going to come sooner than you’d like to when you have a negative mindset during lovemaking. Examples of this include thinking that you’ll ejaculate prematurely while the action’s getting hot in bed.

See, apart from causing a surge in negative hormones that disrupts your overall sexual arousal, the brain will also think that this is what you really want and will set off your orgasmic and ejaculatory responses sooner than they should.

Go slow and easy.

At its simplest, the body will engage its ejaculatory and orgasmic responses when it detects that the levels of positive hormones and neurotransmitters that are released during sexual arousal have reached their peak.

The slower you go when you and your partner are at it between the sheets, the longer this process happens, which also helps you last longer during sex. The more intense the sensations you’ll experience while at it, too.

How’s that for an awesome bonus?

Focus on her pleasure.

Some men tend to overlook that they need to knock their partners’ socks off during lovemaking. They tend to get carried away and go full speed ahead as soon as they get the chance to sexually penetrate them.

The more you focus on your lover’s pleasure, the more you’ll think of how to blow her mind during your sex session.

Stimulate her in other ways.

Like we’ve discussed earlier, you’re at risk of coming way sooner than you’d like to when the amount of positive hormones and neurotransmitters reach their peak earlier than they should. This primarily comes from penile stimulation.

Make it a point to stimulate her in other ways to prevent having an overload of penile stimulation while you’re at it. You can give her amazing oral sex or fingering session instead of sexually penetrating your lover the whole time.

These are the reasons why she's not cumming these days.

These are the reasons why she’s not cumming these days.

Making your lover achieve the Big O is no doubt the biggest priority in your sexual checklist.

Although you may already have a few proven techniques in your lovemaking playbook that boost your chances of making her come during sex, you’re simply noticing that they’re not hitting their mark anymore these days.

And it’s already getting you worried that you may have already lost your sexual touch.

There’s no need to worry just yet, though. Chances are you’re just making a few mistakes that can prevent your partner from reaching orgasm.

Make sure you follow along to find out more…

You’re not getting her completely sexually aroused.

At its simplest, making a woman come during sex involves making her body produce and release high levels of positive hormones and neurotransmitters. When these reach their peak numbers, the brain translates this as its cue to activate a woman’s orgasmic responses.

Besides being a key factor in making a woman reach orgasm, getting your lover completely sexually aroused also makes the pleasuring you do more intense and her erogenous zones more responsive to stimulation.

You’re wondering how long it takes for her to come.

You’re just going to be in for disaster when you do this. See, making it a habit to wonder when your lover is going to come not just makes you think that making her achieve orgasm is a burden, but also affects your overall sexual performance. Just keep in mind to pull out all the stops when you’re at it and you’re on your way to making her come.

You do the same things again and again.

Picture out your favorite comfort food. Sure chowing down on it from time to time is nice, but eating it virtually each day takes away the excitement from enjoying it. This also applies to sex. If you’re doing the same moves over and over, the excitement they give will plummet sooner or later.

(And while we’re on the subject, here’s a great way to stimulate her breasts.)

You don’t let her in on the action.

Who knows best what sexual moves will make her come other than your lover? Make it a point to always ask her to guide you during lovemaking. Besides always hitting your mark when you’re busting your sexual moves and boosting your chances of making her come, your partner will also have the notion that you’re really into her when you do this. How’s that for two for two?

Avoid these first date mistakes!

Avoid these first date mistakes!

Making a first date successful is no doubt your top priority when you’re taking out a woman for the first time.

But the thing is doing such that isn’t about following the advice of self-proclaimed “dating gurus” these days.

Pulling it off isn’t about acting like the alpha male or perhaps wearing loud clothes to make her think that she has to give you her utmost attention.

Acting like a jerk and having a bad get-up combined? Well, that’s the start of a really bad first date in my book.

However, I’ve compiled a few mistakes that you should avoid to help boost your chances of making her say yes to a second date.

Let me explain what I mean…

Arriving late.

Women are a bit particular with punctuality. If you arrive late on your first date, she might think that you’re irresponsible. And it’s going to have a big effect on your goal to score a second date even if you’re already pulling out all the stops while at it. Keep in mind to arrive at least 15 minutes earlier and you’re good to go.

Not planning your apparel ahead of time.

How you look and smell is a big deal when it comes to women. So you’re sure to elicit the wrong reaction from her when you show up with a hastily grabbed getup. Make it a point to plan your apparel two days before so you can easily see what works and what doesn’t.

Talking about complicated stuff.

Now while intelligence is sexy to women, kicking things off with complicated stuff when you’re trying to engage her in a conversation will just lead to disaster before you know it. This is because she’ll just think you’re trying too hard in the process. Ask trivial things like the name of her favorite cartoon character, the name of her first pet or perhaps the TV show she’s following these days and you’ll be surprised with the results.

Not getting and keeping eye contact.

So here’s the situation…

You’re basically giving her the idea that you’re hiding something when you can’t keep and maintain eye contact with the woman you’re on a first date with. If you’re having difficulty looking at her straight in the eye, try looking at the top of the bridge of her nose. Besides giving her the notion that you’re listening to her intently, it will also make her feel that you’re really into her.

These sex tips are sure to fire up your lovemaking sessions even more!

These sex tips are sure to fire up your lovemaking sessions even more!

Making a woman really sexually aroused is definitely a very important factor when it comes to giving her a lovemaking session that will blow her mind.

A completely sexually aroused woman is going to be a sexually fulfilled woman.

Besides making her experience an overload of pleasurable sensations while the action is hot in the bedroom, making her reach the Big O also won’t be that tricky to pull off as you go along.

Now here’s the really interesting part…

I’ve picked up a few neat tricks during my extensive research into the female sexuality that you can use to really get her going for lovemaking. Make sure you read on to find out more…

Try sexting.

Sexting basically means “dirty texting.” You simply have to send her sexually charged text messages to do this. Sure this may sound a bit mild, but a woman’s imagination plays a key role when it comes to getting her turned on in bed.

Compliment her body as you go along.

A type of dirty talk, complimenting her body makes a woman feel that you are really into her. Make it a point to go all out when you do this and not settle for the weak stuff. Express your admiration for her breasts. Tell her how hot you become when you see her vagina.

Eat more celery.

Believe it or not, celery is packed with androstenone, a type of steroid that is found in human sweat and – wait for it – human pheromones. Chowing down on the stuff more often not just makes her feel more attracted to you in a sexual way, but you’re also getting a load of vitamins and minerals while at it as well. How’s that for an awesome bonus?

Don’t forget dirty talk.

Dirty talk is really straightforward. You simply have to talk dirty to your lover and you’re on your way to getting her imagination going. Dirty talk can be describing how hot her body is to you or perhaps outlining the things that you’ll do to her during your sex session.

Have a workout with her.

Now while this may sound surprising, having a workout with your partner helps release positive hormones and neurotransmitters that also get released during a woman’s sexual arousal. You’re basically doing a bit of a shortcut when this takes place. Choose a physical activity that you and your lover like and you’re good to go.