When it comes to giving your lover an experience in the bedroom that she won’t be forgetting anytime soon, getting an amazing foreplay session going is definitely a priority.
Giving your partner awesome foreplay makes her more sexually excited. The more fired up for sex she is, the easier it will be for you to make her reach the Big O as you go along.
But the thing is a lot of guys mistakenly think that foreplay is all about reaching for a woman’s erogenous zones like the breasts and clitoris to stimulate them.
This move will just make your lover feel awkward and uncomfortable, which can ruin her sexual mood before you know it believe me.
And speaking of things that can sap her sexual mood, here are a few more foreplay mistakes that I’ve come across during my extensive research into the female psychology…
Not jazzing up the bedroom.
Women are very particular with cleanliness and organization. And if she finds your bedroom messy and dirty, her sexual arousal could take a nosedive.
This is because her stress levels will rise, which cancel out the effects of the positive hormones that are needed to get her sexual arousal in gear.
Make it a point to give your bedroom the organizing and cleaning it deserves before you get the action going.
Not putting on some nice tunes.
Music basically helps your partner get relaxed.
And if you’ve been following my posts for a while now, it won’t be that tricky to make her fired up for lovemaking if she feels really comfortable.
Besides getting her mind at ease, nice tunes also have a sexy feel to them.
Can’t decide which ones to pick? For starters, slow jazz, instrumentals and ballads can get you on your way.
Not varying your techniques.
Sure you may already have a general idea of the things your lover likes during foreplay, but simply doing the same stuff over and over will just make them flat and boring in the long run.
Keep in mind to always have new techniques up your sleeve when you and your partner are already at it in the bedroom.
She’ll also become more excited because you will keep her on her toes in the process.
Not keeping an eye on your grooming.
Remember the pointer I’ve emphasized about women and cleaning and organizing? It also involves your overall grooming, too.
Make it a point to always keep an eye on how you look and smell before you sizzle things up with her and you’ll be surprised with the results.