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You may be unknowingly making these first date mistakes.

You may be unknowingly making these first date mistakes.

Unlike what a lot of so-called “dating gurus” are saying, acing a first date can’t be achieved by simply following some supposedly proven tips.

Each first date you have is going to be a different experience every time. Chances are they’re not going to be as successful as you think they will be.

There is even a big possibility that they’ll have the opposite effect on the woman you’re going out with.

And while we’re on the subject, I’m going to share some first date mistakes I’ve learned during my extensive research into the female psychology that you’re probably unknowingly making.

Find out what these are when you follow along…

You plan the whole thing alone.

If you’re anything like most men, chances are you have the principle of planning and organizing a first date by yourself.

Although it may feel like the right thing to do as a guy, it is actually one of the biggest first date no-no’s that you can make. See, you’re basically missing out on your date’s inputs when you do this.

Besides failing to take advantage of knowing the things she likes, you’re also losing your chances to make her feel that you have a high regard for her feedback and participation with the whole thing.

You can easily get on the right track to a successful first date if you let her in on the planning and organizing.

You kick things off with a complicated subject.

Getting a meaningful conversation going during a first date is one of the key factors of making it successful.

You’re not just making her feel more relaxed and comfortable around you, but you’ll also get to know her better in the process. How’s that for two for two?

However, you’re just going to ruin her mood to exchange meaningful ideas if you start things off with subjects that are complicated and difficult. Now while women think smart is sexy, she’s just going to think that you’re a blowhard if you do this.

You’re better off asking trivial questions if you are looking to have a gab fest with her.

You don’t keep a close eye on your grooming.

Sure this may sound really simplistic, but not pulling out all the stops on your grooming easily prevents you from acing a first date.

Women are very particular with how guys look and smell. And if you show up on your first date not quite up to par in this department, you’re sure going to be disappointed with how it will turn out.

(Here are some useful grooming pointers that will help you get on your way.)


Is your sexual stamina fizzling out these days?

Is your sexual stamina fizzling out these days?

Having ideal sexual stamina levels is a crucial factor when it comes to giving your lover an experience in the bedroom that she won’t forget anytime soon.

Apart from boosting your chances of making her achieve an orgasm or two as you go along during your lovemaking session, you’re also in for loads and loads of pleasurable sensations while at it.

But the thing is you’re simply noticing that your sexual stamina isn’t like it used to these days. Sure this may be rather frustrating for you, but it doesn’t mean that your sex life is going downhill from here.

And this isn’t a reason to get your hands on pills, creams and other artificial stuff that are claiming to bring back your ability to last long in bed either.

Perhaps you’re just making the following mistakes that are keeping your sexual stamina from really getting in gear…

You don’t exercise regularly.

Sweating it out is a key factor in terms of keeping your sexual stamina up to par.

See, regular exercise not only keeps your heart in the pink, but also maintains the ideal function of your blood channels that distribute circulation and other beneficial stuff all over the body.

As a bonus, making exercise a mainstay in your regular schedule also provides aesthetic benefits, too.

You don’t drink enough water.

Staying ideally hydrated helps keep the natural suppleness and elasticity of the blood vessels, arteries and veins.

Being the primary channels of directing circulation in the body, their overall function can either make or break your chances of having the right energy and endurance levels to last for as long as you can between the sheets.

Drinking at least 6 to 8 glasses of water daily does the trick.

You mostly load up on junk food.

The food and beverages you consume basically have a significant effect on your sexual stamina levels.

If your regular diet consists of healthy stuff, your body is going to have all the nutrients it needs to keep your sexual stamina at its peak.

The opposite happens when you mostly load up on junk food, especially stuff that are too salty and oily.

You don’t get rid of negative stress properly.

A surge in negative hormones not only makes you prone to problems getting a strong and lasting erection, but you’re sure to experience a dip in your sexual stamina as well.

Besides making it a point to unwind from time to time, discovering a new hobby or playing sports are also other awesome ways to pull this off.

Looking to give her awesome oral sex? Keep clear from these mistakes.

Looking to give her awesome oral sex? Keep clear from these mistakes.

It’s no secret that oral sex is one of the best things that you can give your lover when things are getting extra steamy in the bedroom.

You’re not just going to have the opportunity to pleasure your partner’s clitoris, which is no doubt her most sensitive erogenous zone, but going down on her during lovemaking also helps stave off premature ejaculation.

Definitely a win-win situation, don’t you think?

However, most men seem to have the wrong notions about oral sex that prevent them from really giving their lovers the pleasurable sensations they’re looking forward to experience during the action.

And if you’re aiming to knock her socks off the next time you explore south of her border, make sure you keep clear from these no-no’s…

You don’t make her completely sexually aroused.

Let’s start off with perhaps the biggest oral sex mistake ever.

Unlike what you see in porn flicks, oral sex is not about making a beeline to her clitoris and vulva when the opportunity strikes. You need to really fire her up first before you get busy.

See, her erogenous zones down there need to be activated first before they can churn out pleasurable sensations. And that can only be done when you get her really horny.

You get fast and furious as soon as you get the chance.

Licking her like there’s no tomorrow may be the most logical solution to make her come faster, but it’s actually an oral sex no-no.

You need to begin slow and easy to get her body in gear. You can only take it up a notch when she’s good and ready. Don’t worry. Chances are she’ll be the one telling you, too.

You don’t vary your techniques.

Make it a point to mix things up when you work your magic on her down there.

Besides using a different technique every few minutes, you also need to focus on another erogenous zone while you’re at it to always keep her guessing where you’ll go next.

And believe me, her sexual excitement levels are going to be off the charts when you do this.

You neglect to make the ambiance awesome for her.

I know this sounds surprising to be here, but keeping in mind to clean and organize your bedroom regularly is crucial when you’re looking to give her an oral sex session she won’t forget anytime soon.

Women are very particular with organization and cleanliness, and your lover is just going to feel uncomfortable and stressed if she thinks that your bedroom needs jazzing up.

Is she losing her interest in oral sex nowadays?

Is she losing her interest in oral sex nowadays?

Getting some oral attention from your lover is no doubt one of the things that you’re looking forward to when the both of you start up the action in the bedroom.

Besides giving you loads and loads of pleasurable sensations, seeing your partner get busy south of your border is also pretty exciting.

But the thing is you’re simply noticing that she’s not that eager to go down on you during your lovemaking sessions these days.

Sure not getting the right dose of Vitamin BJ during sex is rather frustrating, but there’s no need to worry just yet really.

Chances are you’re just making the following mistakes that prevent her from working her oral magic on your nether regions when things get pretty hot in bed…

You’re not keeping a close eye on your hygiene.

Let’s start the ball rolling with a key factor that some men tend to overlook.

No matter how long you and your partner have been together, it’s still important that you make it a point to look and smell like a million bucks to her.

See, your smell and appearance play key roles when it comes to getting her sexual arousal going.

And if your lover is not that fired up for lovemaking, she won’t be that excited to go down on you during the action.

You’re not giving her oral sex yourself.

I’m pretty sure that you’ve already heard of the adage “you reap what you sow.”

It’s also possible that your lover’s lack of interest in giving you oral sex these days stems from the fact that you’re not giving her the oral TLC that she wants in the bedroom.

Keep in mind that in order to keep her eager to go down on you, you’ve got to knock her socks off each time you explore south of her border as well.

(Here’s an awesome clitoral stimulation tip that will help you get the job done.)

You don’t ask her nicely for it.

Now while showing leadership and initiative is a turn on for women, overdoing the whole thing will just lead to the opposite.

Your lover will just think that you’re already coming off as bossy for her in the bedroom, which will keep her from getting busy down there.

Make it a point to always ask your partner nicely when you want her to give you oral sex.

Unlike what porn movies show you, it isn’t done by simply bobbing her head in the direction of your penis, too.