I’m pretty sure that getting an anal sex session with your lover is one of the things that’s in your bedroom bucket list.
Apart from the promise of experiencing sensations that you’ve never felt during lovemaking before, what guy hasn’t thought of sexually penetrating his lover in the anus?
But now here’s the thing…
Anal sex isn’t what you see in porn movies where the actor simply sexually penetrates the actress in the anus as they go along. Doing this in real life will just lead to disaster before you know it.
There are actually some key things that you need to keep in mind to make the whole thing pleasurable for you and your partner.
So if you’re looking to have anal sex with your lover soon, here are a few factors that you have to take note of…
Discuss it out of the bedroom.
If your partner is anything like most women, chances are she thinks that anal sex is taboo.
Besides being unnatural, getting sexually penetrated in the anus will just feel uncomfortable and dirty in her mindset.
This is the reason why you need to discuss it outside of the bedroom before you even think of having anal sex with her when you’re at it between the sheets. Make it a point to ask her how she feels about it and how you can ease her to give it a try.
Simply telling her that you’d like to pleasure her anally when you’re already having sex will just give her the notion that she has been blindsided and ruin her mood almost immediately.
Get your hands on a lot of lube.
Unlike the vagina that can naturally produce lubrication for sexual purposes, the anus cannot. Keep in mind to have enough lube on hand before thinking about getting on track to anal sex when things are already heating up in bed.
Gauging if you’ve already got enough lube isn’t that tricky. You simply have to get the amount that you think is ideal and double it.
Integrate the anus during foreplay.
Most women tend to keep clear of anal sex because they are not familiar with the sexual pleasure that it can provide.
You’ve got to add the anus in your list of erogenous zones to pleasure when you’re heating things up in bed to show her that it can also be a source of sexual pleasure like the vagina, breasts and clitoris.
Apart from licking and kissing the anus, you can also gently caress it with your fingers. Don’t forget to make your lover give it the right cleaning first to prevent any unpleasant issues like pinkeye from possibly happening.
Slow and easy is the way to go.
Making it a point to go slow and easy is important when it comes to anal sex. It’s one crucial way of easing her into it.
Going full speed ahead as soon as you get the chance will just be extremely uncomfortable for her and possibly the end of your anal sex session.