A Quick Anal Sex Guide For Beginners

So you're having anal sex for the first time...

So you’re having anal sex for the first time…

Now here’s the situation…

You’ve finally managed to make your lover say yes to anal sex and you’re looking to give her an awesome experience so you can easily convince her to give it another go in the future.

But the thing is it’s also your first time sexually penetrating your partner in the backdoor and you’re simply in for a lot of disappointment if you don’t get some helpful pointers anytime soon.

You’ve definitely come to the right place, though. Here are some very important anal sex tips that you need to keep in mind to really give her a pleasurable experience when the action starts…

Take her sexual arousal off the charts.

Unlike the stuff that you see in porn movies where the actors are always seen immediately sexually penetrating their partners in the anus as soon as they get the chance, doing the same thing in real life will only lead to disaster.

You’ll just end up making your lover feel really uncomfortable, which will only give her the notion that anal sex is a bad idea after all.

Start things off by making her as sexually aroused as you can to get rid of her inhibitions that are usually the reasons that prevent her from really getting in the zone.

Get and stay lubed up.

Lubrication is a top priority during anal sex because the anus isn’t capable of producing its own unlike the vagina.

Believe me your partner will totally cross off anal sex in her lovemaking list if you do away with this key essential.

Make it a point to apply a liberal amount of lube before even doing anything else. Remember to reapply as soon as possible when you feel that things aren’t as smooth and gentle like before.

Using a water-based lube is also much friendlier to her anus.

Slow and easy is the name of the game.

Now while the temptation to kick off your anal sex session with a bang is too great, always remember that going for the slow and easy route is your safest strategy to keep her engaged in your anal sex session.

The moment your lover feels that she isn’t enjoying the experience even a little bit, it’s game over for you.

Listen to her.

Always make it a point to let her guide you during the action. Ask her if what you’re doing is alright with her and keep in mind to be extra sensitive to her body language.

She won’t just feel that you are doing all that you can to make her enjoy the experience, but earn some extra brownie points as well.

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