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Your ability to get rock hard will be affected with these bad habits.

Your ability to get rock hard will be affected with these bad habits.

If you’re anything like most guys, I’m pretty sure that the strength and intensity of your erections matter a lot to you.

Besides knowing that you have the ability to get rock hard and give your partner a lovemaking session that she won’t forget anytime soon, you’re also in for a lot of pleasurable sensations while at it as well.

Now while your erections may be strong and intense these days, you’re at risk of losing them sooner or later if you have the following bad habits…

You habitually light up a cigarette.

Sure having a cigarette helps you relax and relieve stress, but smoking in a regular basis is actually very bad when the power of your erection is concerned.

See, you’re not just getting a dose of nicotine each time you take a puff. You’re also introducing a lot of dangerous chemicals like carbon monoxide and tar in your system in the process.

Apart from disrupting your body’s circulation, these chemicals can also significantly lessen the suppleness of blood channels that direct blood to the erectile tissues in the penis to firm it up during sexual arousal.

You don’t exercise.

Not making exercise a mainstay in your regular schedule can have a big effect on your body’s overall function.

Besides making you feel tired and lethargic most of the time, your heart and blood flow can also become affected in the long run. You’ll also be prone to a lot of health issues like obesity if you have a sedentary lifestyle.

Simply having 15 to 20 minutes of vigorous exercise each day is sufficient to keep your body in good shape – and your erections up to par as well.

You don’t have to be a hardcore gym buff to do this, too. Easy options you can go for include slow jogging, brisk walking and biking.

You drink like a fish.

Now while enjoying moderate amounts of your favorite brew like beer and wine does have a few benefits to how your heart functions, overdoing the whole thing frequently can eventually lead to damage in a specific area of the brain that plays a key role in achieving and maintaining erections.

Just limit your consumption to a couple of servings a day and you’re good. It’s also important to remember that letting your alcohol intake go off the charts also puts your liver at risk to a number of problems in the long run.

These massaging tips will surely get her going.

These massaging tips will surely get her going.

The pleasurable sensations that a woman experiences during lovemaking greatly depends on how sexually aroused she is.

The more fired up your partner is for action between the sheets, the more powerful and intense the sensations she will feel the moment you take things up a notch as you go along.

During my extensive research into the female sexuality, I learned that giving a woman a sensual massage is one way of really getting her in the mood.

And here are a few useful pointers that you should keep in mind when you’re planning to work your magic on her with your fingers…

Make things spic and span.

Comfort and relaxation are the two most important factors that you need to prioritize when prepping her up for a massage.

She won’t be feeling as refreshed and rejuvenated even if you’re getting your already getting your massage A-game into play if she thinks the place you’re giving her a massage is dirty and messy.

Remember to keep things in apple pie order to really get her going.

Have some nice tunes.

Music not only helps get her relaxed, but also somehow intensify the sensations that she will experience when you get busy on her with your massaging moves.

Go for slow, downbeat tunes that promote her brain to take it easy for a while. Avoid those that have prominent bass drum beats because they will prevent her from really getting cozy.

My personal suggestions include slow jazz, ambient as well as instrumentals. You can also pick sounds like raindrops, sea breeze and the like if you’d like a more natural feel while at it.

Don’t forget the cream.

Massage cream, that is.

Your massage is going to be more pleasurable for her if you use one because besides making your strokes smoother, she’s also in for some refreshing aromatherapy action in the process.

You can also go for oils and liniments if she prefers stronger and more pronounced aromas.

Go slow and easy.

Massages are supposed to be gentle and soothing. They should not be hurried and given as if you’re impatient and rushing to be somewhere else.

I know this sounds tedious, but the rewards are just worth it. Apart from making it easier for her to get ready for action in bed sooner or later, she will also have the idea to give you a nice massage anytime soon.

Does she give you this look when you ask her for a blowjob?

Does she give you this look when you ask her for a blowjob?

If you’re anything like most men, chances are getting a blowjob from your lover is one of the biggest highlights that you’re looking forward to during your sex session.

But the thing is you’re simply noticing that she’s not that eager to give you oral action anymore when things are getting hot between the sheets these days.

Although not getting your dose of vitamin BJ during lovemaking can be rather disappointing, this doesn’t mean that she’s already closing her doors when it comes to oral sex.

Chances are you’re just overlooking the following reasons that are preventing her from going down on you…

Reason #1: You’re neglecting your hygiene.

I’ll give you a moment to assess your overall hygiene right now.

If you think that you’re smelling a bit funky or looking quite unkempt, there is a big possibility that things are not that pretty and inviting down there as well.

Put yourself in your partner’s shoes for a sec. If things aren’t as fresh and nice south of your border, would you still give oral sex a go? Well, there’s your answer.

Make it a priority to always keep your hygiene in check so she won’t be easily turned off with the look and smell of your intimate areas.

Reason #2: You’re not giving her oral sex.

Oral sex is basically a two-way street. Your lover will think that she’s simply in the losing end if she is the only one who’s doing the work in terms of exploring south of the border.

Keep in mind to always include oral sex in your checklist of foreplay priorities to encourage her to give the whole thing a go sooner or later during your lovemaking session.

This means giving her a bout of oral action that will really knock her socks off, too, and not an experience that sends out the message that you’re only doing it because you’re obligated to.

Reason #3: You get too bossy when asking her to do it.

Now while being firm and showing initiative when things get extra steamy in the bedroom is an attribute that women find attractive in guys, overdoing the whole thing will only lead to the opposite.

Make it a point to ask your partner to go down on you in a firm manner, but with a gentle and patient touch while at it. Believe me, she will just feel that you’re bossing her around when you don’t do it this way.

And when this happens, it will be a BJ-less lovemaking session for you.

Avoid these anal sex no-no's!

Avoid these anal sex no-no’s!

Having a fancy for anal sex isn’t uncommon among guys.

Apart from the promise of experiencing new sensations while the action’s going on, sexually penetrating a woman in the backdoor also takes your excitement levels off the charts.

And now that you’ve finally convinced your lover to give anal sex a go, you’re looking to make the whole thing as enjoyable for her as it will be for you.

But the thing is unlike what a lot of men mistakenly believe, pulling it off isn’t copying porn star moves. You’re just going to end up making the experience horrible for her before you know it.

Make sure you read on to learn key mistakes that you should keep clear of to give your partner an anal sex session that will be fun and exciting for her, too.

You don’t really fire her up for action in bed.

Anal sex is quite similar to vaginal sex. You need to get a woman as fired up for lovemaking as you can to get her ready for backdoor action.

Unless your lover is really sexually aroused, she’s not going to get in the mood for anal anytime soon.

(Here’s a neat foreplay trick you can use to get her going while we’re on the subject.)

You don’t have a lot of lube ready.

Unlike the vagina that can produce its natural lubrication, the anus needs a bit of help in that department.

Make it a priority to get your hands on a lot of lube to ensure that things are going to be smooth and easy when you sexually penetrate her from behind.

And while we’re on the subject, remember to get twice the amount that you think is ideal.

You go full speed ahead as soon as the action starts.

Sure the temptation to go fast and furious as soon as you get the chance to sexually penetrate her anus, but the best way to do it is slow and easy.

Instead of experiencing pleasurable sensations, she’s just going to feel awkward and uncomfortable in the process.

You don’t ask her to guide you.

Who knows best what will make her feel awesome during anal sex than your lover?

Don’t think that you already know what will make her feel good when you’re already at it because chances are you’re wrong.

Always keep in mind that you let her guide you through the whole thing to make sure that she’s going to really enjoy it.