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Keep clear from these anal sex mistakes!

Keep clear from these anal sex mistakes!

So you finally managed to convince your lover to have anal action with you…

But the thing is a lot of guys mistakenly think that going about it is simply sticking it in a woman’s backdoor and pumping like there’s no tomorrow.

Apart from being really uncomfortable for your partner, she’ll just think that you’re the only one getting all the pleasure during the whole thing, which will easily break your chances of convincing her to do it again.

If you’re looking to really give her an awesome time during your anal sex session, make sure you keep clear of these mistakes…

Not really getting her in the mood.

A woman’s sexual arousal level plays a crucial role during anal sex. If she’s not really fired up for lovemaking, she will have second thoughts about it.

Make it a point to really pull out all the stops during foreplay to take her sexual arousal off the charts.

Stimulate her erogenous zones the right way. Give her a foreplay session she won’t forget anytime soon. You’ll be surprised how game she is when the main event arrives.

Not having enough lube.

The anus can’t produce lubrication unlike the vagina. Unless you’ve got enough lube with you when you’re gearing up for anal sex, you’re simply setting yourself up for disaster.

Make sure you got a lot of lube to really keep things smooth and easy for her. Don’t know how much lube you need to prepare? Get your hands on the amount you think is ideal and double the whole thing.

Not gauging her reaction.

Keep in mind how your partner reacts when you sexually penetrate her anus. Stop immediately when she feels uncomfortable. Pick up the pace again when she’s up for action again.

Moreover, always remember that slow and easy does it when you’re already at it. Doing it like crazy only happens in porn movies. Believe me. You’ll be really sorry when you do it in real life.

Not stopping from time to time to reapply lube.

No matter how much lubricant you put on your penis during anal sex, chances are it will thin out and lose its efficacy sooner or later. If you feel it’s not slippery as before, it’s time to put on some again.

Make it a point to reapply it from time to time to make sure things are at their smoothest as you go along…or else you’ll be sorry before you know it.

Avoid these dating mistakes at all times.

Avoid these dating mistakes at all times.

Unlike what you see in the movies, having a successful date isn’t something that you can pull off by just doing something cliché to really get a woman’s attention and hoping for the best.

Now while I think that there are no surefire dating tips that can ensure your date is going to be a success, I’ve learned a few mistakes during my extensive research into the female psychology may just prevent you from getting on the right track.

Let me explain what I mean…

Not having the right mindset.

If you’re anything like most men, you probably have the notion that you’ve finally got a shot at romance with the woman you’ve got your eye on for a long time now because she agreed to go on a first date with you.

Although this is partly true, thinking that you should pull out all the stops in terms of romance when you go out with her for the first time is a very big no-no.

This is because women basically think of first dates as friendly situations where they meet new people.

How do you think she’ll react when she feels that you’re going full Casanova on her when she’s simply looking to make friends?

Not engaging her in the planning process.

Most guys believe that planning and organizing a date should be entirely their responsibility. Now while having initiative is a plus among women, not letting her in on the whole thing can keep you from really getting the brownie points to ace a date.

Make sure you consult her when you figure out key details like the venue, the food and drinks you’ll have as well as the activities that you’ll do together.

Apart from making her feel that you’re really determined to make your date amazing for her, you will also have clues about the things she likes in the process.

Not knowing how to break the ice.

Exchanging meaningful ideas properly with a woman is a priority when it comes to dates. Besides knowing her a lot better, you will also make her feel that she enjoys talking with you.

This boosts your chances of convincing her to go out with you another time.

However, some men seem to not have an idea how to break the ice. Keep in mind to start things off by asking simple and trivial questions and you’re on your way.

You're sure to "take matters into your own hands" more often when you read this.

You’re sure to “take matters into your own hands” more often when you read this.

Chances are you’re already quite familiar with masturbation.

Besides being one of the most pleasurable activities that you can do even without your partner, making it a habit to “attack the one-eyed purple-headed warrior” and “call in the secret service” also has a lot of cool benefits that you’re sure to find really interesting.

Make sure you follow along to find out what these are…

Masturbation makes you feel happier.

Let’s start things off with a benefit of masturbation that you’ll surely appreciate right off the bat.

See, your body goes through a surge of positive hormones like dopamine and oxytocin when you masturbate. These hormones also linger for a bit after you achieve orgasm and come.

Apart from making your skin, especially in and around the erogenous zones, more sensitive to stimulation, these positive hormones also help boost your feelings of excitement and happiness, which usually happens after your masturbation session is over.

This is the reason why masturbation is a proven stress reliever.

Masturbation helps prevent prostate cancer.

According to a number of clinical studies, masturbation helps clear out toxins and other unwanted things in the prostate area that can lead to health issues and even cancer in the long run if allowed to accumulate.

Masturbating frequently prevents these toxins from building up inside you and helps keep your overall wellness up to par.

Now how about that? Masturbation keeps you in great shape and staves off prostate cancer, too.

Masturbation helps keep erectile dysfunction at bay.

When you masturbate, you are basically “practicing” achieving strong and lasting erections. And according to the popular maxim, practice makes perfect, right?

This is because you are stimulating the erectile tissues in the penis to absorb the ideal amount of blood they need to firm up and achieve quality erections. The more you do it, the easier and quicker it will be for these tissues to get ready for action.

With an activity as pleasurable as masturbation, you’d never want to miss out on this “practice” as well.

(And it can also help prevent premature ejaculation while we’re on the subject.)

Masturbation prevents anxiety and other maladies.

Like we’ve touched on earlier, masturbation helps release lots and lots of positive hormones like oxytocin, dopamine as well as endorphins that boost your overall disposition.

Having ample amounts of these in the body not only helps you stay happy, but also safe from panic attacks and even problems with the circulation.

The next time you feel down, try masturbating. You’ll be just surprised with the results.

These commonly overlooked factors can break a woman's sexual arousal.

These commonly overlooked factors can break a woman’s sexual arousal.

A woman’s sexual arousal plays a very important role when it comes to giving her a lovemaking session that she won’t forget anytime soon.

The more fired up for sex your partner is, the more pleasurable sensations she will experience when the action’s already hot between the sheets, which means that making her reach the Big O as you go along won’t be that tricky.

But the thing is a lot of guys seem to overlook a few crucial factors that can keep a woman from really getting sexually aroused. And we will tackle them in a bit when you follow along…

You rush her to get in the mood.

Unlike guys that can get ready for action in the bedroom at the drop of a hat, women need a bit of time to get in the mood for lovemaking. And you’re only setting yourself up for disaster if you rush your partner in any way.

Make it a point to go as smooth and easy as you can when you’re trying to fire her up for sex. Sure the temptation to go fast and furious is overwhelming, but the rewards are simply worth it when you do it slowly.

You do the same moves.

Here’s the thing. No matter how much a woman likes a foreplay technique, she won’t find it pleasurable as before if you do the same thing each time you get the opportunity. Make sure you use different techniques every time to really take her sexual arousal up a notch.

You don’t keep an eye on your bedroom’s cleanliness and organization.

Women are very particular with organization and cleanliness. Your chances of getting her sexually aroused are going to be very slim because her body will only have a surge of negative hormones.

Unlike their positive counterparts that promote sexual arousal, negative hormones will set off feelings of anxiety and impatience. Just imagine how that will disrupt the possibility that she will be excited for getting frisky between the sheets.

You go straight to the clitoris and nipples.

Sure they may be the two most sensitive erogenous zones in a woman’s body, but simply making a beeline to the clit and nipples will only lead to the opposite. Keep in mind to warm her up properly first before you get right to the main event.

Key erogenous zones that will help start her up include the back of the neck, the lower abdomen and the inner thighs.