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So you're looking to boost your chances of getting a second date...

So you’re looking to boost your chances of getting a second date…

I’m pretty sure that your top priority when it comes to first dates is to make the whole thing as amazing for a woman as you can to easily convince her to go out with you again.

Unlike what a lot of self-proclaimed “dating gurus,” though, getting the job done isn’t just about wearing loud clothes to really “get her attention” and “acting like the alpha male” to give her the notion that she’s safe with you.

But come to think of it. If you were to put yourself in your date’s shoes for a bit, do you really think that she will go out with another time? Well, there you go.

Interestingly, I’ve learned a few things during my extensive research into the female psychology that may just boost your chances of acing a first date and easily convince a woman to go out with you again…

Keep a very close eye on your overall grooming.

Now while this may sound really surprising to be even here, not having this one on your checklist will just lead to disaster before you know it.

See, women are very particular with how the guys they’re going on a first date with look and smell. If the woman you’re out with thinks that you didn’t take care of your grooming like you should, she’ll just think badly of you.

Choose a place that she’s familiar with.

Sure the idea of picking a luxurious place for your first date may seem like a good idea to really wow a woman, it is actually one of the biggest mistakes that you’ll ever make.

This is because she will have the feeling that she’s going on a job interview instead of a first date. She’ll simply have a surge of stress hormones that will just raise her anxiety levels.

Make it a point to go for places she frequently hangs out in like her favorite bar or restaurant so she’ll be more sociable and relaxed during the same.

Talk about trivial stuff.

Women basically think of first dates as opportunities for them to make new friends. You can already imagine how things will go if you break the ice with romantic stuff.

Keep in mind to ask her easy to digest questions like what her favorite cartoon show is or perhaps the last book she’s pored over and you’re sure to engage her in a meaningful exchange of ideas soon enough.

Rock her world during sex with these tips!

Rock her world during sex with these tips!

When it comes to sex, I’m betting that one of your biggest priorities is blowing your lover’s mind with an orgasm or two during the action.

Apart from making your partner experience loads of toe-curling pleasurable sensations, she will also be more excited to have a go at it between the sheets with you if she’s sure to have a Big O each and every time.

However, a lot of guys seem to mistakenly believe that making a beeline to the clitoris and stimulating it like there’s no tomorrow is the key to giving a woman an orgasm.

Sure doing this will produce some pleasurable sensations, but they will be mostly awkward and will become rather uncomfortable sooner or later.

So if you’re looking to boost your chances of giving your lover an orgasm, here are some simple ways that you should keep in mind…

Prep up her mind first.

Unlike what most men think, foreplay doesn’t begin when you stimulate your lover’s erogenous zones. You can actually kick things off outside the bedroom by exciting her mind.

Besides calling her up unexpectedly for a quick, kinky chat or sending her text messages detailing graphic descriptions of what you’ll do to her as soon as you two get alone, you can also leave risqué notes in places she’s sure to find them.

Tease her erogenous zones.

Now while pleasuring your partner’s erogenous zones is a must to give her an orgasm, immediately zeroing in on them as soon as you get the chance won’t cut it. Start things off by stimulating the areas around them first.

Apart from properly firing up her erogenous zones so they will produce the ideal amounts of pleasurable sensations, you’ll also intensify the surge of positive hormones in her body even more leading to higher chances of orgasm for her.

Put her pleasure first before yours.

Keep in mind that your partner’s pleasure should be on top of your sexual checklist before yours. Don’t let yourself get carried away when you’re already sexually penetrating her. Vary your thrusts. Mix things up.

Always remember that if your lover feels that she’s going to have an amazing time when you’re already at it between the sheets, she will be more excited to have sex with you.

(Now we’ve got that covered, here’s a key tip to make sure that you will always get rock hard on demand.)

These oral sex tips will surely blow her mind.

These oral sex tips will surely blow her mind.

Going down on your lover is perhaps one of the best ways to knock her socks off during your sex session.

However, a lot of men mistakenly believe that pulling the whole thing off is simply about making a beeline for her genitals as soon as things get extra steamy between the sheets, stimulate like crazy and they’re good to go.

Besides making a woman feel awkward and rather uncomfortable, it will also trigger her brain to release stress hormones that will simply raise her anxiety levels, which already gives you a pretty clear idea of how your oral sex session will turn out.

So if you’re really looking to blow your partner’s mind the next time you go down on her, make sure you keep these pointers in mind…

Get her mind going first.

If you’re anything like most guys, you probably think that getting at it when the action’s already hot in the bedroom is the best way to go during oral sex.

But the thing is it will just lead to disaster before you know it because her body doesn’t have the right amount of positive hormones that will really get her going for the same yet.

Make it a point to stimulate your lover’s mind first to get her in the zone and you’re on your way to giving her amazing oral sex.

Don’t immediately zero in on her erogenous zones.

A lot of men make the mistake of immediately stimulating the clitoris or the vulva during oral sex.

Sure these erogenous zones can produce a lot of pleasurable sensations when stimulated properly, but not allowing them to get really fired up for action will just make the stimulation you do feel flat.

Make it a point to start things off by teasing the sides of her erogenous zones. Besides making her anticipate the pleasurable sensations that she’ll experience, you’re also boosting her excitement levels in the process.

Slow and easy does it.

Now while the idea of getting fast and furious during oral sex may give you the notion that your partner is going to have loads and loads of pleasurable sensations while at it, it’s actually the opposite.

You’ll be just surprised when you do it slow and easy.

Ask her for directions.

Who knows best what will give her the most intense of sensations during oral sex? It’s your partner, right? Keep in mind to let her call the shots when you do it to really blow her mind hen you go down on her.