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So you'd like to give her a mind-blowing oral sex session...

So you’d like to give her a mind-blowing oral sex session…

Going down on a woman is perhaps one of the best ways to knock her socks off when things get extra steamy in the bedroom.

Aside from giving you the opportunity to pleasure her intimate areas using various stimulation techniques that you can’t normally pull off using your fingers and penis, you can also easily make her reach the Big O if you play your cards right as you go along.

But here’s the situation…

Unlike what a lot of guys mistakenly think, simply giving your lover a bout of oral sex isn’t going to cut it if you’re looking to blow her mind.

So if you’re really looking to give her an oral sex session that will blow her mind as soon as the action kicks off, here are a few mistakes that you should always keep clear of…

Don’t go straight to the clitoris.

Now while I agree that the clitoris is no doubt the most sensitive erogenous zone in a woman’s body given the sheer number of nerve endings that it contains, making a beeline for it when you get the chance is just a big mistake.

See, the clitoris needs to be properly prepped up first before it can really produce the pleasurable sensations that it’s capable of. Not doing so will only make a woman feel uncomfortable – even to the point of pain – while you’re at it.

(Same thing applies for the nipples, too.)

Don’t start hard with your stimulation.

Most men tend to think that the more forceful you stimulate a woman’s nether regions during oral sex, the more pleasure she will experience.

It’s actually the opposite. You’ve got to start as slow and easy as you can to really get her going in the process. And once she’s buckling and groaning with pleasure, you can already take things up a notch.

Don’t forget to ask her what she’s in the mood for.

Although there are very specific erogenous zones that should be pleasured during oral sex, making it a point to ask your partner how she’d like to give it a go is a must.

This is because a woman’s sexual preferences tend to change from time to time and you won’t be able to give her an amazing time if you just rely on your instincts.

Come to think of it. Who knows what will really pleasure her during oral sex best? It’s your lover, right?

These habits will surely help keep your erections strong and powerful.

These habits will surely help keep your erections strong and powerful.

I’m pretty sure that you’d like to get rock hard as soon as the action’s getting hot in the bedroom.

Apart from knowing that your lover is going to be in for loads of sexual satisfaction when you penetrate her, you will also experience a lot of pleasurable sensations yourself in the process.

And your chances of knocking her socks off with an orgasm (or two) are going to get higher as you go along if you play your cards right as well.

Now while you can easily rise up to the occasion on demand these days, not taking note of a few simple habits can lead to the dreaded softie syndrome sooner or later.

Make sure you read on to find out what these are and keep your erections as strong and powerful as ever…

Habit #1: Drink lots of water.

Water doesn’t just keep your body ideally hydrated.

This also maintains the natural elasticity and suppleness of the blood channels like blood vessels, veins and arteries that play a key role in directing circulation to the erectile tissues in the penis to firm it up during sexual arousal.

Make it a point to drink at least 6 to 8 glasses of water daily and you’re on the right track.

Habit #2: Load up on healthy stuff.

Your regular diet has a direct impact on how your body works as a whole.

And that means you’re going to have issues getting rock hard if you’re not eating the right stuff. Besides making sure that you load up on as much fresh fruits and vegetables as you can, remember to only indulge in your favorite salty and oily treats from time to time.

Habit #3: Exercise regularly.

Making it a habit to sweat it out as much as possible not only helps you keep your heart in tiptop shape, but also prevents your body weight from going off the charts.

If you’ve been following my posts for a while now, you probably already know that your weight and heart’s health are key factors when it comes to getting powerful erections.

Habit #4: Masturbate!

I know this one sounds surprising to be even on the list, but making it a habit to masturbate frequently helps your body maintain its ideal “sexual reflexes.”

This simply means that it can react as soon as possible when you and your lover are already getting things hot in bed.

You can think of it as some sort of practice to properly prep up your body for a sex session.

Give her an awesome anal sex experience with these tips.

Give her an awesome anal sex experience with these tips.

I’m betting that anal sex is definitely one of the things that are in your sexual bucket list.

And after a long time convincing your lover to give it a go in the bedroom, she’s finally given you the green light to include anal sex on your intimate repertoire.

But here’s the problem…

You’ve got no idea how to go about it, which can easily mean the difference between convincing your partner to have anal sex with you again and totally making her swear it off on her lovemaking checklist.

There’s no need to worry just yet, though. I’ve learned a few important anal sex pointers during my extensive research into the female sexuality that you definitely have to take note of.

And here they are…

Stock up on lots of lube before even thinking about anal sex.

When it comes to anal sex, making sure that you’ve got the right amount of lube should be your top priority.

See, unlike the vagina that can produce natural lubrication, the anus needs a lot of help in that department since it’s incapable of doing so.

It’s important to get your hands on a lot of lube to make and keep things as smooth and easy for your partner. Can’t decide how much lube to get? Grab the amount that you think is right and double it.

Remember this one, too. When you feel that things aren’t as smooth like when you started, reapply a liberal amount of lube immediately.

Be very, very patient.

Unlike what you see in porn, it’s not uncommon that it will take a bit of time to get your penis inside your partner’s anus.

Sure the temptation will be great when it comes to simply shoving the whole thing in there, but you’ll just end up hurting her before you know it.

Keep in mind that when it comes to anal sex, slow and easy always does it.

Let her call the shots.

It’s crucial that you ask your lover to get on top of things when you’re having anal sex since you can be easily in for disaster if you only do it your way.

Ask her questions as you go along, too. Make sure that she’s feeling comfortable and properly pleasured in the process so she won’t have the notion that anal sex is only a good thing for you.

Be very conscious of her gestures as well. If she looks even the slightest hint of uncomfortable, stop and ask her what you should do to make things better.

So you'd like to make her cum again...

So you’d like to make her cum again…

If you’re anything like most guys, I’m pretty sure that making your lover achieve orgasm (or two) during sex is absolutely one of the top priorities in your lovemaking checklist.

Apart from giving your partner lots of pleasurable sensations so she won’t forget your sex session anytime soon, she will be more excited to have a go at it in the bedroom more often.

How’s that for two for two?

But there’s only one problem. You’re simply noticing that your lover is having a tricky time cumming during lovemaking these days.

And that’s even if you’re already bring your sexual A-game into play, too.

There’s no need to worry just yet, though. Chances are the following reasons are what’s keeping your partner from really achieving orgasm when the action’s hot between the sheets…

You’re neglecting your hygiene.

How you look and smell means a great deal to your lover. Besides being a crucial factor to turning her on, it also plays a key role when it comes to keeping her sexually aroused.

Make it a point to always keep your overall hygiene up to par. Apart from taking regular showers, it’s also a must to use deodorant as well as get rid of excess facial hair in the process.

Your bedroom is a mess.

The cleanliness and organization of your bedroom has a significant effect on the production and release of positive hormones to get your lover sexually aroused.

If she thinks your bedroom is a mess, it will be very difficult to make your partner feel really relaxed and comfortable, which is a requirement to get the sexual arousal process going.

Keep in mind to maintain the organization and cleanliness of your bedroom and you’re on the right track.

You go straight to penetration.

During my extensive research into the female sexuality, a woman’s ability to achieve orgasm involves more than just sexually penetrating her vagina.

You’ve also got to really prep her up for action by heating her up through foreplay. And unless you keep this in mind, your lover is going to find it quite difficult to reach the Big O.

(Here’s a useful oral sex tip that you should check out, too.)

You do the same things again and again.

Sure you already have an idea of the things that turns your partner on and the stuff she likes when you’re getting busy between the sheets, but simply doing the same techniques over and over isn’t going to cut it.

Mix things up each and every time and you’ll be surprised with the results.