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Wow her with these first date getup tips!

Wow her with these first date getup tips!

Unlike what a lot of self-proclaimed “pickup artists” are saying, acing a first date isn’t something that you can achieve by simply following some pointers like acting like the alpha male and wearing loud clothes to really give a woman the idea that she should go out again with you.

But the thing is you’ll just end up giving her the wrong notion when you follow these tips.

Come to think of it. Put yourself in a woman’s shoes for a moment. How would you feel if the guy you’re on a date with arrives in a really gaudy getup and acts like the most self-obsessed man on earth?

Not good, right?

Interestingly, I’ve picked up a few key wardrobe factors during my extensive research into the female psychology that can help boost your chances of convincing your date to go out with you another time.

Go for a simple yet well-planned apparel.

A lot of men tend to overlook the fact that coming up with a nice outfit for a first date doesn’t have to be complicated in any way. You simply have to keep three important things in mind: it has to be appropriate, comfortable and match well together.

Having these three in your checklist when you’re planning your outfit will surely help you make the right choices and come up with a superb getup, which will wow your date as soon as you arrive.

Cleanliness is a big deal.

Women are very particular with cleanliness. If your date notices that your clothes and shoes are not as clean and well-maintained as they should be, she will just have a surge of stress hormones that will make her feel that you’re sloppy and irresponsible.

And it will just get worse as your date goes on. Besides feeling uneasy with you, she will also feel impatient and awkward as the minutes tick. That already gives you an idea of how your chances for a second date will turn out.

Don’t overdo it on the accessories.

Although topping off your getup with an accessory or a piece of jewelry helps wrap things up, overdoing it will simply make you look showy and desperate. Remember to only integrate two accessories in your apparel max and you’re on the right track.

Never forget your hanky.

A handkerchief is a crucial part of your apparel. You’ll never know when you will need it so make sure you have one.

Is she taking a long time to get in the mood for sex these days?

Is she taking a long time to get in the mood for sex these days?

When it comes to giving your lover an unforgettable sex session, it’s crucial that you get her really fired up for action in the bedroom first.

Unless your partner is completely sexually aroused, chances are she won’t enjoy lovemaking like you want her to experience it.

So now here’s the situation…

You’re simply noticing that your lover takes a longer time to really get sexually aroused these days. And it’s already getting you worried that you’re losing your touch when it comes to heating her up between the sheets.

There’s no need to get anxious yet, though. Here’s a quick list of the reasons why your partner isn’t getting sexually aroused as fast as she used to…

Your bedroom is a mess.

A woman isn’t going to be sexually aroused if she doesn’t feel comfortable and relaxed. And one of the things that will definitely prevent her from getting in the mood is a dirty and unorganized bedroom.

Simply keeping in mind to fix the bed, put dirty clothes in the hamper as well as doing a bit of organizing in a regular basis will surely help do the trick.

Your grooming needs a little improvement.

If you’re looking to get a woman fired up for lovemaking, then it’s very important to look and smell the part.

Make sure you trim excess facial hair, which can also be a bit annoying and uncomfortable for her when you’re pleasuring her intimate areas, brush and floss properly as well as apply deodorant.

Having a spritz or two of cologne is a nice way to top things off as well.

You go too fast.

Sure you may already have an idea of the erogenous zones and the techniques she likes when foreplay is concerned, but the pleasure levels that you can give her while you get busy while at it will go down if you go fast and furious as soon as you get the chance.

Keep in mind to go as slow and easy as you can and you’re sure to give her lots of pleasurable sensations.

It’s also smart to explore her body to discover new erogenous zones. Make sure you give her inner thighs, back of the neck and lower abdomen or “treasure trail.”

You don’t ask her what she wants.

Come to think of it. Who knows best what will give them the most foreplay pleasure than your lover?

These bad habits can ruin your erections!

These bad habits can ruin your erections!

The strength and quality of your erections play a very important role when it comes to lovemaking.

Besides ensuring that you will really knock your lover’s socks off while the action’s hot between the sheets, you’ll also experience loads of pleasurable sensations in your end while at it.

However, there’s just one problem that you’re noticing. It seems that your erections are losing their power these days.

Now while this is no doubt an issue that can get you anxious in no time, I’d just like to point out that there’s no need to resort to the blue pill or any other artificial product just yet – which can lead to adverse side effects sooner or later, too.

Chances are you just have these bad habits that can make it really tough for your body to really let you rise to the occasion…

You drink a lot.

Although I’ve emphasized in an earlier post that moderate alcohol consumption can help strengthen the heart and optimize your blood flow leading to more intense erections, overdoing it will only result to the opposite.

Excessive alcohol levels in the blood channels can already impair them from doing their jobs properly. Plus, frequent alcohol binging also makes you prone to a lot of other health problems.

Make sure you limit to one or two drinks daily and you’re going to be fine.

You smoke.

Did you know that nicotine isn’t the only chemical that you’re going to introduce in your body when you puff on a cigarette?

Besides carbon monoxide and tar, there are literally hundreds of dangerous and toxic stuff in there that can make blood vessels, veins and arteries lose their elasticity and suppleness when exposed to them for a long time.

Kick the habit as soon as you can to prevent this from happening in the long run. The danger of getting emphysema and lung cancer are also very real.

You don’t exercise regularly.

Making it a point to sweat it out in a regular basis not only keeps you fit and trim, but also maintain the overall wellness of your heart.

Simply keeping in mind to have 15 to 20 minutes of vigorous exercise can already do wonders for your heart and the rest of your body, too.

You don’t have to go hardcore when you do this, too. For starters, you can slow jog, have a bit of brisk walking or perhaps ride a bike.


Are these the reasons why you're coming too soon these days?

Are these the reasons why you’re coming too soon these days?

Lasting for as long as you can when things are already sizzling in the bedroom is definitely one of the most important factors in your sexual checklist to really knock your lover’s socks off.

And it’s not just your partner that gets all the fun, too. The longer you last, the more sexual pleasure you’re going to experience while at it. How’s that for two for two?

But the problem is you’re simply noticing that you come sooner than you’d like to between the sheets these days.

I know it’s frustrating for you and your partner as well, but you don’t need to get your hands on artificial products that claim to extend your bedroom playing time.

Come to think of it. The operative word here is “artificial” so the risk of going through adverse side effects sooner or later is very real.

Chances are you’re just making the following mistakes that boost your chances of coming too soon during lovemaking…

You think that you’re going to prematurely go off.

I’m pretty sure that you’ve already heard the phrase “mind over matter” once or twice now. What’s really interesting is it actually applies to how long you will last in bed, too.

See, when you think that you’re going to come too soon before the action between the sheets even starts, you’re inadvertently sending a subconscious message to your brain that it should activate your orgasmic and ejaculatory responses prematurely.

Just keep things positive and think about how you’re going to give her a mind-blowing sex session and you’re going to be alright.

You don’t masturbate regularly.

Unlike what a lot of guys mistakenly believe, masturbation isn’t just about experiencing sexual pleasure all by yourself. It actually helps you identify when your sexual peak takes place.

At its simplest, your sexual peak is the time when the amount of positive hormones released during sexual arousal reaches their ideal levels. This stimulates your brain to activate your orgasmic and ejaculatory responses.

You can actually have an idea when your sexual peak kicks in when you masturbate in a regular basis. Think of it as a rather sensual and intimate kind of “practice” that will surely be enjoyable.

(And speaking of solo action, here’s a mistake that can make masturbation boring for you.)

You go fast and furious.

Now while the temptation to go full speed ahead when the action starts in bed is great, make it a point to go as slow and easy as you can. You won’t just stave off the risk of coming too soon, but give your lover an amazing time as well.