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So you'd like to give her an awesome oral sex session...

So you’d like to give her an awesome oral sex session…

Oral sex should definitely be on your list of things to do between the sheets if you’re looking to give a woman a lovemaking session that she won’t forget anytime soon.

Apart from having the chance of pleasuring her erogenous zones like the vulva, breasts and clitoris more intimately, you’re also going to stimulate a lot of sensitive nerve endings while at it that will give her an orgasm or two.

However, a lot of guys mistakenly believe that going down on a woman simply involves making a beeline for her genitals and licking as fast as they can.

So if you really want to give her oral sex that will blow her mind, make sure that you always keep clear from these no-no’s when  you go down on her…

Having a dirty bedroom.

Now while this may sound rather surprising to be on this list, having a clean bedroom when you’re planning to go down on a woman is more than just aesthetics.

It basically helps her to become ideally relaxed and comfortable.

And if you’ve been following my posts for a long time now, a woman needs to feel really relaxed and comfortable to get completely sexually aroused, which can easily make or break your efforts at giving her an awesome oral sex experience.

Going too fast.

Although a woman’s erogenous zones like the breasts, vulva and clitoris contain a lot of extremely sensitive nerve endings, they still need to be fired up properly or else they won’t produce pleasurable sensations.

Keep in mind to get her really warmed up first before exploring south of her border.

It’s also important to start slow and easy when you go down on her or else she’ll just feel awkward and uncomfortable even if you’re already bringing your oral sex A-game into play.

Going too hard.

Unlike what a lot of men think, applying a lot of pressure when stimulating a woman’s erogenous zones won’t increase the pleasure levels that she will experience during oral sex.

It will just lead to the opposite.

Make it a point to let her guide you while the action is going on. Ask her where she’d like to be stimulated, the techniques she wants as well as how light or hard she likes the whole thing.

Come to think of it. Who knows best what will really knock her socks off during oral sex other than the woman you’re giving it to?

Erectile dysfunction issues getting you down? Read this!

Erectile dysfunction issues getting you down? Read this!

I’m pretty sure that getting rock hard and staying that way until your lover is properly pleasured between the sheets is your top priority when things get extra steamy in the bedroom.

But the problem is you’re simply noticing that it’s either you’re  taking a very long time to rise up to the occasion or perhaps you manage to achieve an erection, but not keep it going for as long as you’d like.

Unlike what a lot of so-called “sex gurus” recommend, there’s no need to get your hands on the blue pill as well as other artificial products like creams and gels.

Chances are you’re just making a few mistakes that can significantly affect your ability to get a powerful and stable erection going. Keep on reading to find out what these are…

You’re not exercising enough.

If you’ve been following my posts for a while now, getting rock hard during sexual arousal basically depends on how fast blood can reach the erectile tissues in your penis.

As soon as these tissues absorb all the blood they need, you’ll rise up to the occasion.

However, not having exercise in your regular schedule greatly affects blood flow in your body. Simply having a vigorous 15 to 20-minute workout daily will do the trick.

You eat too much oily food.

The suppleness and elasticity of your blood channels like blood vessels, arteries and veins play a key role in the overall function of your circulatory system.

If they aren’t in tiptop shape, your body’s blood flow will be greatly affected like when you eat a lot of oily stuff ever day.

Make it a point to eat more healthy stuff like fresh fruits and vegetables, especially the ones rich in fiber, to keep them functioning properly.

You smoke and drink a lot.

Although drinking alcohol moderately can support healthy heart function, overdoing the whole thing will only lead to the opposite.

Keep it to a maximum of two drinks daily and you’ll be alright.

Cigarettes contain a lot more dangerous chemicals other than nicotine that won’t just cause a lot of health issues sooner or later, but also constrict blood channels in the process.

Kick your smoking habit as soon as you can.

You don’t masturbate regularly.

Practice makes perfect, right?

You are basically conditioning your body to get a stable erection going on demand when you integrate masturbation in your regular schedule.

And it’s also one of the most pleasurable things that you can do by your lonesome, too!

Avoid these first date mistakes!

Avoid these first date mistakes!

Acing a first date is no doubt your top priority when you’ve finally convinced a woman to go out with you.

However, unlike what a lot of self-proclaimed “dating gurus” are saying, getting the job done isn’t about acting like the alpha male or perhaps wearing loud clothes to give her the notion that your confidence levels are simply off the charts.

I’ve learned a few key dating mistakes during my extensive research into the female psychology, though, that you should keep clear of to boost your chances of making the woman you’re on a first date with to go out with you again…

Don’t choose an ultra-posh place.

Sure the idea of going for a very luxurious venue for your date may be a nice idea, but it can actually drag down your chances of acing the whole thing.

This is because doing just that will keep her from completely feeling relaxed and comfortable on your date. It will simply give your first date the atmosphere of a job interview.

Better make it a point to let her get in on the action when choosing your date’s venue to prevent this from happening.

You can also go for her favorite bar or deli since she already feels cozy there.

Don’t neglect your shoes.

If you’re anything like most men, chances are you’re not that particular with your footwear.

However, not choosing the right ones for your date as well as not keeping them in great shape in the process will only lead to disaster.

See, when you show up with dirty shoes, your date will just have the notion that you’re irresponsible and sloppy.

Definitely not a good way to kick things off to your convincing her for a second date, don’t you think?

Don’t talk about complicated stuff.

Now while engaging a woman in a meaningful discussion during a first date is a must, opening with technical subjects like electronics, politics and similar things isn’t the way to do it.

Besides giving her the notion that you’re trying too hard, she also won’t be able to relate with you while at it. You will just make her feel anxious, awkward and impatient.

And she won’t be impressed no matter what, too.

Make it a point to talk about trivial stuff to get her going. Ask her what her favorite movie is or perhaps the cartoon character she really likes.


So you'd like to get her to go down on you more often..

So you’d like to get her to go down on you more often…

Ah, blowjobs.

If you’re like most men, I’m pretty sure that you’d like experience some oral action from your lover when things are already getting steamy between the sheets.

But the thing is simply giving her the message to get in action down there by prodding her head in the direction of your genitals isn’t going to cut it.

Make sure you follow along to learn a few simple ways to encourage your partner to get busy south of your border more often…

Get her completely sexually aroused.

Unlike the stuff that you get to see in porn movies, a woman doesn’t automatically get down on her knees and suck you off when things get hot in bed.

It’s crucial that you get her really warmed up or else she won’t be that eager to give you some oral action.

Think of the whole thing as getting a car running. You can’t expect a vehicle to run without engaging it in gear first, right?

(Here’s a simple technique that you can use to do just that.)

Give her an amazing oral sex session yourself.

Convincing her to go down on you isn’t just about using your gift of gab to get the job done. You also need to give her a demonstration of your oral sex skills to seal the deal.

Make it a point to always give her a mind-blowing cunnilingus session when you’re at it in bed.

Believe me, it won’t be that tough to convince her to have the same treatment down there before you know it.

Don’t be bossy.

Now while showing initiative in the bedroom is an attribute women like, overdoing the whole thing will just lead to disaster.

You’ll only give your lover the notion that you are bossing her around when you get too rough on her when you ask her to explore south of your border.

Keep in mind to do it gently, but with a bit of ruggedness that makes her more excited while at it.

Make her feel you’re really enjoying it.

Once she goes down on you, make it a point to give a reaction that she can hear and feel.

Groan and moan in pleasure. Buckle your knees and legs. Give her the notion that you’re enjoying the experience.

This subconsciously gives her the idea that she’s doing it right and you love it, which makes her want to integrate oral sex in her bedroom checklist.