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Make a first date awesome for her with these useful pointers...

Make a first date awesome for her with these useful pointers…

Acing a first date isn’t as easy as what so-called “dating gurus” are saying these days.

Apart from being more than just looking and smelling good, making a first date awesome also doesn’t involve putting on loud clothes as well as acting like you’re the alpha male to really get a woman’s attention.

So if you’re looking to make your next first date an experience the woman you’re going out with won’t forget anytime soon, here are a few useful pointers that you should keep in mind…

Do a bit of research.

Unlike what a lot of guys mistakenly think, simply going for the most expensive place they can find and have their first date in there is not the best course of action when it comes to making the whole thing awesome.

A better strategy would be asking your date what her preferences are in terms of the venue, food and drinks as well as other factors, such as the chocolates and flowers she likes.

Besides giving her the notion that you’re doing your best to make your first date as amazing as you can, you’re also making her feel that you are really into her while at it. And this means more brownie points for you, too.

Break the ice with trivial stuff.

Women basically view first dates as an opportunity to socialize. And you’re simply going to make her feel rather awkward when you try to break the ice with complicated topics.

Keep in mind to open with serious stuff like politics, the state of the economy or perhaps the new software you use at the office. You can easily engage her in a meaningful conversation if you ask her what her favorite movie is or the name of her first pet.

You can also easily establish a connection with your date this way because she won’t feel that you’re acting pompous and pretentious just to impress her.

Keep your hands to yourself.

Remember that patience is a virtue, especially during a first date.

Now while there’s nothing wrong with using hand gestures to emphasize a point while having a conversation with a woman on your first date, being touchy-feely with her is simply going to lead to disaster almost immediately.

Don’t get physical with her unless she’s the one initiating it. Sure your intentions may be well-meaning and nice, but you will only creep her out when you do this.

Here are a few tips how you can keep getting rock hard on demand...

Here are a few tips how you can keep getting rock hard on demand…

If you’re anything like most men, chances are you hold your erections in high regard.

And you and your lover are sure to be in for a lot of disappointment and frustration as well when you lose your ability to get rock hard on demand.

However, unlike what a lot of so-called “sex gurus” are saying though, maintaining your ability to get a stable erection doesn’t have to do with age or perhaps the use of artificial stuff like pills and creams.

So if you’re looking to keep getting rock hard on demand, here are a few simple tips that you should keep in mind…

Get the right amount of sleep.

I know this sounds a bit surprising right now, but making it a point to have the ideal amount of sleep is a priority if you’re aiming to maintain the strength and quality of your erections.

See, missing out on the z’s can easily lead to a surge of stress hormones that can disrupt the sexual arousal process. And this means it can make achieving an erection rather tricky.

Just keep in mind to get 7 to 8 hours of sleep when you go to bed and you’re good to go.

Stay hydrated.

Apart from keeping you feeling cool and refreshed, water also has a key benefit in the body: it helps maintain the elasticity of blood channels like veins, arteries and blood vessels.

And if you’ve been following HowToLastLongInBed.com for a while now, you probably already know that your blood flow picks up when things get extra steamy in the bedroom. Just imagine what will happen when your blood channels aren’t working like they should while at it.

Besides making you prone to weak erections that will fizzle out sooner than you’d like to, there is also a possibility that you won’t get hard at all.

Make sure you load up on at least 8 glasses of water daily. You can also drink fresh fruit juices in the process.

Make exercise a regular habit.

Making it a point to sweat it out in a regular basis helps keep the function of your circulatory system up to par.

You are also training your body to become stronger and resilient during physically taxing activities during the same.

I’m  not saying that you should do hardcore gym routines to pull this off. Simply having a vigorous bout of brisk walking and slow jogging for at least 25 minutes daily should do the trick.

Keep your sexual stamina up to par with these tips...

Keep your sexual stamina up to par with these tips…

Having lots of sexual stamina is absolutely a priority if you’re looking to really give a woman a lovemaking session she won’t forget anytime soon.

But the thing is that I am really quite disappointed with what a lot of so-called “sex gurus” are saying these days.

Apart from recommending that you should get your hands on pills, creams and a lot of other artificial stuff to maintain your sexual stamina in ideal levels, they are also pointing out that your ability to last long between the sheets declines with age.

Let me share a few useful simple and natural pointers that will help you do just that…

Don’t miss out on sleep.

Sleep does a lot of good things for the body. Apart from helping bring down the amount o cortisol hormones that play a significant role in making you feel stressed, anxious and generally awkward, making it a point to get the right amount of sleep also has a big contribution in recharging your energy levels.

You simply have to get at least 6 to 8 hours of sleep when you climb into bed and you’re good to go.

Have exercise on your regular schedule.

Sweating it out on a regular basis helps you train your body to keep on functioning properly even when it’s pushed to its limits in the process.

Come to think of it. Sex is basically a form of exercise because you are expending energy when you and your partner are at it. Just imagine how you’ll be able to please her when you don’t easily break the action because you’re already feeling tired.

I’m not saying that you should become a hardcore gym buff to achieve this. Simply having a vigorous jogging or biking session for at least half an hour in your schedule can already do the trick.

Load up on the right stuff.

Opting for the right food and beverages is one way of ensuring that your sexual stamina levels are going to stay up to par.

Make it a point to have fruits and vegetables in your regular diet and keep clear from having too much junk food, particularly the oily and salty ones, in the process. I don’t mean to say that you should stop enjoying your favorite snacks and comfort food, but only keep it at a minimal amount.

Keep in mind to kick your smoking habit and drink alcohol moderately.

Here's how to really heat her up for sex...

Here’s how to really heat her up for sex…

Unlike guys that can get ready for sex at the drop of a hat, women need to be eased into it or else there’s a big possibility that they won’t be going to enjoy the whole thing like they should.

There is even a chance that your lover isn’t going to achieve an orgasm even if you’re already bringing your A-game into play while you’re at it.

However, properly heating your partner up between the sheets isn’t as easy as what a lot of so-called “sex gurus” are saying these days.

Make sure you follow along to learn a few useful tips on how to do this…

Start her off mentally.

I know this sounds rather surprising, but you can actually kick things off when it comes to heating up your lover for sex by stimulating her mentally.

Pulling this off isn’t as complicated as you think as well.

Apart from doing it the old school way like sending her a romantic card with a provocative message in it, you can also get the job done by forwarding her kinky emails and text messages.

Make it a point to keep things rather descriptive and graphic to really get her mind going in the process.

Make her feel really relaxed.

A woman needs to feel totally relaxed before her body can produce and release feel-good hormones that are needed to get her body for sex.

Unless she feels comfortable and relaxed, her brain won’t stimulate the endocrine glands to churn out positive hormones. And you already know how things will turn out when you’re looking to get lucky with her.

Besides making it a point to keep a close eye on your grooming, remembering to clean and organize your bedroom should also be a priority.

Let her run the show.

During my extensive research into the female sexuality, women are more inclined to become sexually aroused if they feel that they are calling the shots during foreplay and lovemaking.

Their sexual preferences tend to change from time to time as well. Although you may already have an idea of what she likes in bed, but really asking her what she is in the mood for also helps a lot.

Slow and easy is the way to go.

Women are more inclined to become sexually aroused when you do things slow and easy. Sure this may sound a bit boring, but you’ll be aroused how things will go.