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Lather up if you want to wow her on a date!

Lather up if you want to wow her on a date!

Good grooming is no doubt a priority when it comes to acing a date.

Apart from boosting your chances of making a woman feel comfortable around you during your date, it also helps you project a classy and responsible image that women like.

So if you’re looking to really wow her on your first date, here are a few grooming tips that you should have in your checklist…

Dating Grooming Tip #1: Get a meticulous shower.

Showering not only helps you get rid of the dirt and grime that may have accumulated on your body, but also make you smell good.

Make sure you scrub yourself carefully and have a generous lather of soap. Give your inner thighs and armpits the attention they deserve as well.

And you’ll know when you’re already squeaky clean, too.

Dating Grooming Tip #2: Have a nice, clean shave.

Sure you may think that your beard looks cool on you, but a woman may not have the same idea when you show up on your date wearing it.

See, aside from projecting an image of sloppiness and irresponsibility, she will also think that you didn’t prep up enough for your date.

And this will make her think that she shouldn’t be even on a date with you even before your date really began.

If you’re not into clean shaves, you can sport a bit of stubble while at it. As long as it’s not bushy, it’s going to be fine.

Dating Grooming Tip #3: Clean your fingernails.

The gunk that can gather in and around your fingernails can be unbelievable. And this can also prevent you from acing a first date with a woman.

Keep in mind to give your fingernails a careful trim before going on a date. Besides adding to your overall physical oomph, you’re also staving off bad bacteria and germs that can make you sick in the process.

Dating Grooming Tip #4. Mind your oral hygiene.

Brushing and flossing are extremely important when you’re looking to wow a date.

Apart from making your breath smell fresher and your teeth shine, you will also feel more confident to have a conversation with a woman during your date.

Your oral health will also be clear from issues like tooth decay and gum problems that can lead to erectile dysfunction and similar setbacks in the long run if they’re not taken care of properly.

Follow these tips to make it easier for you to knock her socks off during sex...

Follow these tips to make it easier for you to knock her socks off during sex…

When it comes to action between the sheets, giving your lover an experience she won’t forget anytime soon is the top item in your checklist.

And one of the surefire ways of really taking her pleasure levels off the charts is by stimulating her erogenous zones.

Make it a point to give these spots the right attention the next time you and your partner are at it to really knock her socks off…

The back of her neck.

Sure her nape or the back of her neck sounds a bit odd to be included in this list, but it’s definitely a spot that you should pleasure during lovemaking.

See, the back of her neck is practically loaded with sensitive nerve endings that can give her anywhere from a tickle to a sexually charged stroke depending on how you stimulate it.

You can kick things off by licking and brushing the back of her neck to get her going.

The breasts.

I know this is quite obvious, but a lot of guys know that the breasts are erogenous zones though they don’t have a clue how to stimulate them.

This is because most men tend to attack it like there’s no tomorrow.

Although the breasts can still produce pleasurable sensations when treated this way, it’s not going to be as enjoyable for her when you go for this strategy. Make sure you give the areolas TLC while you’re at it as well.

The clitoris.

I’d like to point out that the clitoris is one erogenous zone that you shouldn’t miss out on or else you’re keeping your lover from really taking her pleasure levels off the charts.

Besides capable of producing mind-blowing sensations when properly stimulated, the clitoris can also give your partner one orgasm after another if you keep at it.

Just remember to keep things slow, easy and gentle as you go along. Unless she specifically asks you to take it up a notch, stay that way.

The inner thighs.

The inner thighs are not as packed with sensitive nerve endings compared to other erogenous zones, but there’s one big reason why you need to pleasure them when you’re getting busy between the sheets…

The inner thighs can still give her nice sensations, but will encourage her mind to get really active.

Stimulating them will keep your lover on her toes and she will keep on feeling teased, excited and wondering what you’ll do next when you have this erogenous zone in your checklist.

So you'd like to give her an unforgettable sex session...

So you’d like to give her an unforgettable sex session…

Unlike what a lot of guys mistakenly think, making a woman reach the Big O during lovemaking isn’t something that is impossible.

Now while I am not saying that pulling the whole thing off is going to be a walk in the park, I’ve learned a few important pointers during my extensive research into the female sexuality that may help you get the job done.

Make sure you follow along to find out how you can boost her chances of having an orgasm (or two) the next time things get hot between the sheets…

Clean your bedroom.

I’m sure you’re wondering why this made the list, but making it a point to keep your bedroom clean and organized is one of the best ways to make a woman feel relaxed and comfortable.

See, women need to feel relaxed and comfortable to encourage the brain to produce and release lots of feel-good hormones, which is a necessity to really get her going in bed and increase her chances of getting an orgasm as you go along.

If not, their bodies are just going to have a surge of their negative counterparts that will only lead to them feeling impatient, anxious and reserved.

Go slow and easy.

No matter how tempted you are to get fast and furious between the sheets, make it a point to slow down to really give your lover a pleasurable experience while at it.

This is because a woman’s sexual arousal isn’t as speedy compared to a man’s and she needs a bit of time to really prep up her body for action in the bedroom.

Sure this may sound rather dull for you, but you’ll be surprised how enjoyable the experience will be for her.

Ask her what she wants.

You may already know by now the erogenous zones and sexual techniques that your partner likes, but it’s still a good idea to ask her what she’s in the mood for on your next sex session.

This is because the lovemaking preferences of women tend to change from time to time. The stuff she may like yesterday may not be the ones she wants today. And the best way to really know what she’s hankering for is directly asking her!

Ask her which erogenous zones to stimulate, the sexual positions she wants to do as well as the speed and rhythm that she’s looking for. You’re sure to hear her “explode” in the process, if you know what I mean.

Here are a few premature ejaculation-causing mistakes that you should avoid...

Here are a few premature ejaculation-causing mistakes that you should avoid…

If you’re anything like most men, experiencing as much sexual pleasure as you can when things are getting hot in the bedroom is no doubt the top item in your checklist.

However, you’re noticing that you are simply going off too soon when you and your lover are at it between the sheets these days.

There’s no need to worry just yet though or perhaps get your hands on artificial products like pills and creams that claim to prolong your staying power during sex.

Make sure you follow along to learn a few simple tips on how to stave off premature ejaculation…

Think of her pleasure first.

Simply thinking that sex is mostly about you already puts you at risk of coming too soon during lovemaking. This is because you’re going to unknowingly create a surge of feel-good hormones in your body.

If you’re really looking to extend your bedroom playing time, make it a point to give her a lovemaking session she won’t forget anytime soon first.

Apart from stimulating her erogenous zones properly, you can also let her call the shots to really know what she’s in the mood for between the sheets.

Control your breathing.

Sure your breathing rate may pick up during sexual arousal, but making it a point to control it when you and partner are heating things up in bed is a priority to prevent premature ejaculation.

See, your brain translates your breathing rate as a sign that it should pump up the amount of feel-good hormones in the body. Now while these make lovemaking pleasurable, having too much of them accelerates your ejaculatory response.

Slow things down a notch.

The body’s orgasmic and ejaculatory functions basically kick in when the brain thinks that you’ve already experienced the right amount of stimulation during sex.

And the primary factor that the brain uses to gauge this? The sensations that your penis experiences as you sexually penetrate your lover. The quicker you thrust, the faster this process will take place.

You think that you’re going to come too soon.

Did you know that what you’re thinking can easily influence how long you will last during lovemaking?

If you think that you’re going to have a premature ejaculation, you’re basically giving your brain the notion that it should speed up the whole sexual arousal process to make this a reality. Keep in mind to think otherwise and you’ll be surprised how long you’ll be able to pleasure her in bed.