March 2015 Archives

"Shifting" a woman's sexual arousal is very important to really get her in the mood...

“Shifting” a woman’s sexual arousal is very important to really get her in the mood…

Getting your lover properly sexually aroused before you start up the action is very important so she will really experience the pleasure she wants in bed.

However, you’re simply noticing that your partner isn’t getting as sexually aroused like she used to these days.

And this definitely makes you feel really disappointed when you want to get the old squeaky-squeaky going between the sheets.

This doesn’t mean that you’re already losing your touch when it comes to firing your lover up in bed though.

Chances are you’re simply making the following mistakes…

You’re not keeping a close eye on your grooming anymore.

Let’s start things off with the most common mistake a lot of men seem to overlook in terms of getting a woman ready for lovemaking.

She won’t be that eager to start up the action in bed if you don’t look or smell nice.

Women are very particular with grooming and if your lover’s eyes and nose tell her that you’re not up to the cut, there is a big possibility she won’t get fully sexually aroused or even at all.

Just keep in mind to take regular showers, use deodorant and get rid of unwanted facial hair and you’ll already on the right track.

(Here are a few more simple grooming tips that women will surely love.)

Your bedroom is messy.

Relaxation plays a key role when it comes to female sexual arousal.

And one of the things that can really get on a woman’s nerves is dirt and clutter. So if your bedroom needs a bit of cleaning and de-cluttering, it’s going to affect your chances of getting your partner ready for lovemaking.

This is because she’s going to find it tricky to really relax, which promotes a surge of stress hormones in her body that prevents her from feeling sexy.

Make it a point to give your bedroom a regular cleaning and organizing to keep it looking comfy and fresh. Giving it a spritz or two of air freshener while you’re at it is a good idea as well.

You don’t give her awesome foreplay.

Unlike guys that can get ready for lovemaking at the drop of a hat, a woman’s sexual arousal is just like an engine.

You need to “shift” properly or else it won’t get anywhere. And one important thing to remember when you need to pull this off is giving her foreplay she won’t forget anytime soon.

(Here are a few simple tricks that can help you do just that, too.)

Is your lover not reaching the Big O these days?

Is your lover not reaching the Big O these days?

Let’s get straight to the issue right away…

You’re simply noticing that your lover is having a tricky time getting an orgasm whenever you’re heating things up between the sheets nowadays.

There’s no need to worry just yet though.

Chances are you’re simply making a few mistakes that can keep her from really taking her sexual pleasure up a notch and reaching the Big O.

Make sure you follow along to find out what these mistakes are so you’ll boost your chances of making your partner have an orgasm each time you’re at it in bed…

Orgasm Breaker #1: You talk too much during lovemaking.

Sure I’ve emphasized in a previous post that mentally stimulating a woman is as important as working your magic on her physically.

Doing this isn’t that tough, too. Besides sending her naughty emails and text messages, giving her a description of the sexual moves you’ll do is also a good way to pull this off.

However, keep in mind not to overdo the whole thing like talking too much during sex.

This will just confuse her brain if you two are really looking to have sex or just want to have a meaningful conversation.

Orgasm Breaker #2: You don’t listen to her.

There is no other person that can gauge your lover’s pleasure, but she herself. You can consider this as a suggestion to making her your “sex sounding board.”

Listening to what she’s saying during sex can give you an idea if the things you’re doing are really hitting their mark.

Try asking her what she likes to try when you’re at it as well. Besides inquiring which erogenous zones you should focus on, asking her how she wants them to be pleasured is also a nice touch.

Orgasm Breaker #3: You go too rough.

Sure there are women who like to have things rough in the bedroom, but unless your lover says that she wants to take things to a whole new level then it’s a great idea to stay slow and easy.

And if things are getting a bit rough in your end, make it a point to put on some water-based lubricant to ensure that everything will keep on going smoothly.

Orgasm Breaker #4: You don’t let her call the shots.

Now while this may sound surprising, you are actually preventing a woman from really getting sexually aroused if you don’t give her the chance to get totally wild in the bedroom.

You’ll be surprised how easy it is for her to reach the Big O when you let her do this.

Keep these in mind to make your first date really awesome...

Keep these in mind to make your first date really awesome…

A great first date doesn’t just happen.

You have to make it happen or else things won’t be getting anywhere.

And unlike what a lot of men think, pulling this off isn’t something that is complicated. You can make a first date really awesome by keeping the following essentials in your checklist:

First Date Essential #1: Do your research.

Making a first date great needs a bit of planning. And you won’t be able to achieve this if you don’t know what you have to plan about.

Keep in mind to know important details like the places she’s partial with when it comes to dates, the food and drinks she likes as well as the activities she is interested with.

Sure it may sound like a lot of work, but you are definitely going to reap the rewards on the big day.

First Date Essential #2: Your grooming counts a lot.

How you look and smell can easily make or break your chances at a first date.

Women notice these factors first and unless you’ve taken of them properly, chances are you are going to see your date ending up opposite than what you’ve expected.

Besides making sure that you’ve got a nice outfit picked, keep in mind to take a long and careful shower, splash on some deodorant, clean your nails and get rid of unwanted facial hair.

Just remember not to overdo it on the accessories like jewelry to avoid looking tacky.

First Date Essential #3:  Go for trivial subjects when breaking the ice.

Unlike what a lot of men mistakenly believe, engaging a woman in a meaningful conversation during a first date isn’t really that tough at all.

No matter what you do, never talk about serious stuff like politics, religion and other things that are not that easy to relate with.

Keep it light and trivial and you’ll be surprised how much she will be more inclined to talk to you. And that means more brownie points for you.

First Date Essential #4:  Keep it friendly.

For women, first dates are friendly events that give them the opportunity to know a guy better.

And you’re simply going to botch the whole thing up if you rush it to become a romantic affair.

Remember to keep it friendly at all times and play your cards right.

If you do it properly, you may just score yourself a second date…and a lot of opportunities.

She'll enjoy sex more if you keep clear from these mistakes...

She’ll enjoy sex more if you keep clear from these mistakes…

If you’re anything like most men, chances are your biggest priority when things get hot between the sheets is giving your lover an experience she won’t forget anytime soon.

However, a lot of guys seem to forget a few key mistakes that can make sex not as awesome for their partners.

Make sure you follow along to find out what these mistakes are so you’ll always give her the satisfaction she wants when you two get the action going in bed:

Miss out on her mental stimulation.

A woman’s sexual arousal isn’t an instant thing like a man’s.

It unfolds in stages like an engine and if the gears aren’t properly set in motion, there is a big possibility that she won’t be totally into it.

And this will make it rather tricky for her to enjoy the whole thing, which can also affect her ability to achieve orgasm while you two are at it.

Stimulating a woman mentally isn’t something that’s complicated, too. One simple way you can pull this off is sending her naughty messages on her mobile phone or email.

Go straight to her clitoris.

I’m pretty sure that the clitoris is the key erogenous zone you go for to really fire up your lover during sex.

Although it’s practically packed with thousands and thousands of sensitive nerve endings that can churn out a lot of pleasurable sensations, the clitoris has to be prepped up properly before it can start doing this.

See, making a beeline straight to the clitoris when the bedroom action starts will only make your partner feel uncomfortable, even to the point of pain.

Focus on your lover’s other erogenous zones first like the lips and breasts to warm her up. Chances are she’ll even be the one directing you south of her border anytime soon.

Boss her into doing things she doesn’t like.

Sure you have things in your sexual bucket list that you’d like to realize sooner or later, but bossing your lover to achieve them will simply disrupt her mood for the old squeaky-squeaky.

Make it a point to ask her nicely when it comes to anal sex and other bedroom stuff that isn’t on your regular lovemaking checklist.

And no “oops-I-accidentally-put-it-in-there” shtick either!

You only think about your pleasure.

Giving your lover a sex session she won’t forget anytime soon won’t be happening if you are only taking your pleasure in consideration.

Make her pleasure your top priority and you’ll be surprised how much she’ll enjoy the experience.