Unlike what a lot of men mistakenly believe, giving your lover an oral sex session she won’t forget anytime soon isn’t about going straight to her clitoris and licking furiously.
You need to keep a few key pointers in mind to really get the job done with flying colors.
And if you’re looking to really wow your partner the next time you go down on her, you’ve definitely come to the right place.
Make sure you remember the following pointers to really pull it off on your next trip down south of her border…
Clean your bedroom.
I know this sounds crazy to be included in this post, but neglecting the cleanliness and organization of your bedroom can make it tricky for your lover to totally relax.
When this happens, she will find it difficult to become sexually aroused. And this will really pull down your chances of making her feel good when you give her oral sex.
Make it a point to regularly keep your bedroom spic and span and you’ll be good to go.
Start slow and easy.
Now while it’s really tempting to really get to it as soon as you can the moment you get the chance to go down on her, doing so will only botch things up.
This is because although the clitoris is naturally wired to produce lots and lots of pleasurable sensations when stimulated, it needs to be eased into the whole thing.
Or else oral sex will only feel uncomfortable for her when you go full speed ahead before it is really ready for action.
Don’t blow into the clitoris.
No matter what you do, never blow into the clitoris during oral sex.
This is because it will only make the clitoris dry up and become extremely sensitive to stimulation. Notice how women lube up this pleasure button when they masturbate?
Your lover will only feel discomfort to the point of pain when you pleasure her clitoris even with the best techniques you know when you blow on it.
Vary your stimulation.
Giving your lover oral sex can be compared to a massage. The experience will become rather boring when you do the same things over and over.
Make it a point to mix things up as you go along. Change your strategy every couple of minutes. The thing is to make your moves as unexpected as can be.
If your play your cards right, you’ll easily find your lover reaching the Big O again and again, too.