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These can easily make you come too during sex...

These can easily make you come too soon during sex…

Chances are you’d like to last as long as you can when you and your lover are at it in the bedroom.

However, you just find yourself going off too soon during sex these days.

Now while this may be rather frustrating for you and your partner, it’s still not reason enough to get your hands on pills, creams and other artificial solutions that claim to help extend your playing time between the sheets.

I’d like to point out a few things that you may be unconsciously doing during sex that can lead to premature ejaculation though so you can fix this problem naturally…

You let yourself get too excited.

Sure it’s completely normal to feel excited when things are already getting steamy in bed, but allowing yourself to become too excited during the same is another thing.

This is because you are basically stimulating your brain to produce and release a lot of extra mood-altering hormones that get you more sexually aroused. The body translates an overload of these hormones as its cue to set off the ejaculatory response and make you come.

Make it a point to not let yourself get carried away when you two get busy between the sheets and you’ll be just fine.

You don’t focus on her satisfaction.

I know this sounds crazy, but not keeping a close eye on your lover’s sexual satisfaction when you and your lover are getting at it in bed is going to make you come quicker than you should.

This is because experiencing too much penile sensation during sex creates an overload of feel-good hormones in the system. And as I’ve pointed out earlier, you’ll be at risk of prematurely ejaculating when their numbers go off the charts.

Keep in mind to have a few breaks in the action like giving your lover oral sex and stimulating her erogenous zones without sexually penetrating her.

This keeps you from getting too much sensation on your penis and last longer.

You worry too much that you’re going to come quickly.

Sure this sounds a bit odd, but you are actually putting yourself at risk of premature ejaculation if you simply think that you are going to pop too soon during lovemaking.

This is because the brain wrongly translates this as something that you want and sooner or later you’ll just feel your ejaculatory response kicking in.

Think that you’re going to last for a very long time during the action instead to give your brain a message that you’re not going to come anytime soon yet.

So you'd like to build a friendly connection on a date...

So you’d like to build a friendly connection on a date…

If you’re anything like most guys, I’m pretty sure you think dates are stepping stones to establishing a romantic connection with a woman.

However, women see dates as more of social events where they can make friends. Imagine how awkward things will turn out if you immediately make the moves on her.

And that easily means blowing your chances of acing your date, right?

During my extensive research into the female psychology, I discovered a few key pointers that may just help you boost your chances of establishing a friendly connection with a woman on your date.

And if you play your cards right, you might even take your connection up a notch anytime soon. So given that you already took care of your grooming and switched your mobile phone to silent, let’s go over these pointers real quick…

Don’t arrive late.

Arriving late on a date is pretty much a mortal sin.

Besides giving a woman the notion that you’re taking the whole thing for granted, it also makes her feel that you’re really not that interested in her, so you can scratch off any potential romance in the long run while at it.

Make it a point to arrive at least 15 minutes ahead just to be extra safe.

Break the ice with trivial topics.

Never start a conversation with a serious tone.

This covers everything from politics to the technical stuff you learned at work. Keep clear from discussing about marriage and going steady as well. Believe me, it’s either going to bore your date or perhaps creep her out.

One simple trick to pull this off is asking a woman what her favorite book or movie is.

She won’t be that reserved with her words since the topic is so trivial. Keep in mind to listen intently to her while at it or she’ll lose interest with the conversation in no time.

Lay off the alcohol.

No matter what you do, never reach for your favorite brew on a date, especially if it’s the first time you’re taking a woman out.

Alcohol can make you say and do things awkward if you have one too much of it. Just to guarantee that things won’t go haywire anytime soon, save the thirst-quenching after the date.

However, if your date insists that you should have wine with the entrée you ordered, limit yourself to a glass tops and no more.

You should start checking how tight your pants are these days...

You should start checking how tight your pants are these days…

I’m pretty sure that you’ve already experienced not rising up to the occasion once or twice when things get hot in the bedroom.

Whether you’re feeling too anxious that you won’t please your lover like she wants or perhaps not totally in the mood for action because you’re down with something, it happens the least you expect.

However, did you know that there are things that a lot of guys usually overlook, but can easily sap their ability to get rock hard sooner or later? Make sure you follow along to find out what these are…

Wearing pants that are just too tight.

I know wearing slim fit pants are considered fashionable these days, but putting them on regularly can have an unfavorable effect on your ability to get rock hard when you and your partner are at it in bed.

This is because you are slowly cutting off blood flow to the pelvic region, which can prevent the erectile tissues in the penis to absorb as much blood to really get you hard in the long run. Sure having on a pair may give you a trendy look, but you’ll never know when the dreaded softie syndrome can strike.

Wearing pairs of underwear that are rather tight can also trigger this effect.

Eating too much junk food.

Now while I am not saying that you should straight up stop indulging in your favorite potato chips, pork rinds, pretzels and similar junk foods, simply going over the top when you load up on them can easily cause a disease called hypertension.

Hypertension basically pushes your blood pressure levels high above than they should. Besides preventing the ideal flow of blood get to where they are supposed to during sexual arousal, it can also constrict the channels where it flows through.

Make it a point to eat them moderately while also having regular bites of oatmeal, fruits and vegetables to easily keep clear from hypertension.

Sitting down too much.

I know this sounds quite surprising, but there’s a scientific explanation to this.

Sitting for very long periods of time disrupts the normal flow of blood to the lower limbs of the body. This also affects the pelvic region, which plays a key role in getting you rock hard during sexual arousal.

Make it a point to sit no more than an hour straight. Having a regular exercise routine also helps a lot to prevent this problem.

So she's not achieving orgasms during sex these days...

So she’s not achieving orgasms during sex these days…

So you’re noticing that your lover is not reaching the Big O when things get hot between the sheets any longer nowadays…

Sure this setback may be rather frustrating for you, but chances are it can still be fixed by keeping clear of a few mistakes that you may possibly have in your sexual checklist.

Make sure you read on to find out more…

You go straight to her clitoris.

Unlike what a lot of guys mistakenly think, automatically pleasuring your partner’s clitoris during foreplay isn’t a guarantee that she’ll have an orgasm during sex. Or if she’s really going to enjoy the whole thing in the first place.

This is because women need time to get sexually excited down there. Just because she is getting it on with you already in bed doesn’t mean that you can start stimulating south of her border.

You rush things in bed.

The biggest difference between men and women when it comes to sex is women take a lot of time to get completely ready for lovemaking.

Sure it’s an almost instantaneous thing for us guys, but your lover requires having her sexual arousal built up slowly. Unless she gets this treatment, she’ll find it really tricky to reach the point of no return.

Now while the temptation to go full speed ahead in bed is great, holding your horses and taking your time is the way to go.

You call all the shots during sex.

One of the biggest reasons why your partner is not coming these days is you’re not pressing her buttons like she wants.

The easiest way to fix this is letting your lover decide how your sex session will go the next time things get extra steamy in bed. Ask her what she really wants during the action and where she likes to be stimulated when you warm her up.

What’s really interesting is you can also make her more adventurous in bed when you do this. How’s that for two for two?

You don’t give her oral sex.

Did you know that your chances of giving a woman an orgasm are much higher when you stimulate her orally during lovemaking?

So if you’re finding it tough to make her come these days, make sure you give her an oral sex session she won’t forget. (Here is a tip on how to do that you’ll find really useful.)