I’m pretty sure your ultimate goal during a first date is making an unforgettable impact to the woman you’re out with.
Unlike what a lot of self-proclaimed “dating gurus” say though, pulling off just that isn’t about putting on specific articles of clothing or perhaps using supposedly surefire pickup lines that do the trick.
During my extensive research into the female psychology though, I picked up a few useful pointers that may easily boost your chances of establishing an emotional connection with your date.
Make sure you follow along to find out what they are and really dazzle the woman you’re going out with the next time you have a date…
Listen to her intently.
According to the stuff I stumbled upon during my research, women generally like a guy who is a good listener.
Besides making a woman feel that you’re really into her, listening to your date when you’re engaged in a conversation also gives her the notion that you are eager to know her better. Plus, you can pick up a few things that you can use to impress her even more as you go along.
You’re already missing out on brownie points if you’re more engaged with your mobile phone or tablet than with your date. Keep in mind that it’s really smart to put those tweets and status updates on hold.
Go for trivial topics.
The topics you also talk about during a first date also significantly matter.
A lot of guys mistakenly think that picking complicated topics for discussion makes them look smarter and cooler to the women they’re on a date with. However, according to my research, it will only to the opposite.
Can’t think of a nice topic to break the ice? Try asking your date what her favorite childhood book is or the name of her first pet. Asking her the dessert or comfort food she’d like to tuck into now and then is also a nice idea.
This is also a great way to encourage your date to open up to you.
Don’t be desperate.
No matter how attracted you are to the woman you’re on a date with, never make her feel that you’re too frisky to be with her. Or else you’ll simply scare her off before you even dish out your A-game.
This will only give her the idea that you are desperate. And “being desperate” also means “creepy” in women’s vocabulary. Start things off friendly and keep it that way all through the date.