I got the chance to catch up with old pals the other evening while checking out a few medical journals at the local library and I’m very lucky to run into Chloe, a friend and colleague when it comes to dating research.
While we were sharing a few drinks at the bar, the discussion was primed on the things that men unknowingly botch up when they already established an emotional connection with their dates.
Surely, Chloe stepped up to the plate and began sharing very useful pointers about one key thing that a lot of guys seem to overlook on the subject: kissing. Make sure you read on to find out the awesome tips she shared…
Don’t be assuming.
Sure you may feel that your date is already into you, but it doesn’t mean that she’s hyped up to share a kiss with you anytime soon.
Just imagine the disaster that will take place if you simply became too assuming in the process.
Apart from making sure that she’s sending the right signals, it’s also a smart idea to wait for your date to initiate the whole thing. One key thing to keep an eye on is if she’s getting too close physically than usual.
So she’s already leaning in for a kiss…
No matter how much you’re tempted to start getting right in action, make it a point to take things slow and easy.
Start with a few exploratory pecks here and there. Do this to zero in on the areas where she likes to be kissed so you’ll know where to focus on when the action really picks up sooner or later.
Absolutely no tongue.
Although it’s pretty normal to get really excited when you and your date are already locking lips, keep in mind that shoving your tongue in there unexpectedly is just going to ruin her mood.
And no matter what you think, it’s not sexy.
Come to think of it. Put yourself in your date’s shoes. Wouldn’t it be really weird if someone did that to you when you’re just warming up?
Let her run the show.
If you’re really looking to score extra brownie points while you’re already sharing a kiss with your date, keep in mind to let her call all the shots while you’re at it.
Believe me this is the best way to go.
This is because your date will show her yourself how she’d like things to be done and she will also think that you’re patient and easygoing, which takes your emotional bond up a notch even higher.