I know making your lover reach the Big O is your top priority when you two start getting frisky in the bedroom.
But the problem is she doesn’t seem to be coming anymore like you want her to even if you put on your A-game when the action is getting hot between the sheets.
There’s no need to worry just yet though. I may have picked up a few useful pointers during my extensive research into the female sexuality.
Here are a few mistakes you need to keep in mind the next time you and your partner are heating things up in bed to really make her reach the point of no return while at it:
You don’t mix up your sexual rhythm.
One of the key elements of female orgasm is not knowing what will happen next. A lot of guys make the mistake of keeping their sexual rhythm slow or fast all the way, giving their lovers a clue of how things will turn out.
Don’t let her have even the slightest idea of your rhythm. This way she’ll be left wondering how fast or slow you’ll go.
And when you tease her mentally the right way, her brain will be producing mood-altering hormones in overdrive, which makes her more and more sexually aroused by the minute.
When that happens, let’s say your chances of seeing her have an orgasm will be through the roof.
You only stimulate a few erogenous zones.
A lot of men tend to think that they should only stimulate selected erogenous zones during sex like the breasts, vagina and clitoris.
Actually, there are a lot of other erogenous zones that you need to stimulate to really get your lover going for sex and give her a mind-blowing orgasm like the inner thighs, back of the neck and belly button.
Be extra adventurous next time you have sex and explore her body more meticulously for areas that make her hot. The effort you’ll put in will be surely worth it when it comes to making your partner reach the Big O.
Your bedroom is messy.
I know this one sounds rather out of line, but it actually makes a lot of sense considering women need to be totally relaxed to really enjoy sex, which raises their chances of achieving orgasm in the process.
Simply keep in mind to prioritize organizing and cleaning your bedroom and you’ll be on the right track.