So you were able to finally convince your lover to have anal sex with you…
However, there are a few very important things to keep in mind before you start getting busy to make sure that the experience is going to be as pleasurable for her as it is for you. Make sure you follow along to find out more.
Make her feel as relaxed as possible.
Relaxation is a key factor when it comes to making anal sex pleasurable for your partner. This is because she won’t be able to loosen her anus sufficiently so you can sexually penetrate it properly.
And things won’t go as they’re supposed to when this happens.
Apart from keeping your bedroom spic and span as well as maintaining ideal hygiene, you should also avoid sounding too bossy when you’re trying to get her fired up between the sheets or else things will only lead to disaster even before you got the action started.
Have a lot of lube ready.
Unlike the vagina that can produce its own lubrication, the anus needs a bit of help when doing just that. This is why you need to get your hands on a lot of lube before you start getting frisky to really make the experience pleasurable for her.
Keep in mind not to crimp up on the stuff as well. Apply the whole thing generously before and during your anal sex session. Make it a point to lube up every time you feel that things are not as smooth and slippery when you began.
Neglecting to do this can make her feel rather tender while at it. And you don’t want that to happen during anal sex since this raises the chances that she won’t be having backdoor action in her list of bedroom activities sooner or later.
Moreover, go for water-based lubricants instead of oil-based ones that can easily make the anus feel dry and sore with prolonged use.
Take things slow and easy.
When anal sex is concerned, going as slow and easy as you can is the way to go. This is because you are putting your lover at risk of having minute muscular rips in and around her anus, particularly in her sphincter muscle when you go fast and furious during the experience.
Make sure you ask your lover if you can take the speed and rhythm up a notch before doing so to ensure she won’t get hurt even a bit when doing it.