If you’re a guy reading this, I am sure you’d like to get in action with your lover between the sheets as much as you can.
However, unlike men that can get ready for lovemaking at the drop of a hat, women need to be eased into it bit by bit or else there won’t be any sex happening anytime soon.
I’ve also learned in my extensive research into the female sexuality that a lot of guys tend to overlook a few mistakes that can ruin their lovers’ mood for sex almost instantly. Make sure you read on to find out more.
You don’t keep an eye on your hygiene.
Let’s kick things off with the most common reason why your lover is not that excited to get down and dirty with you in bed. You’re simply not keeping a close eye on your hygiene.
Apart from not taking a shower in a regular basis, you’re also not exerting a lot of effort when it comes to getting rid of excess facial hair, slapping on deodorant as well as making sure you smell nice.
Just put yourself in your partner’s shoes. Come to think of it. Would you be in the mood for sex if your lover reeks of bad odors and looks rather unkempt? I think you already know the answer.
You rush her into it.
As I have pointed out earlier, women need to be eased into lovemaking or else things won’t turn out as you expect no matter how hard you try. Keep in mind to be as gentle as you can when trying to convince her to do the horizontal mambo with you in the bedroom.
Or else she won’t be looking forward to it even the least.
The same goes when you’re trying to make her go down on you or perhaps try a new position. When you get bossy, she won’t be that excited to feel the motion in the ocean. Channel your inner Don Romantico from foreplay to orgasm and you’ll be simply surprised how enthusiastic she will be while at it.
You go straight to her clitoris.
Contrary to popular belief, making a beeline for your lover’s clitoris isn’t going to guarantee that she will immediately feel good.
The thing is there’s even a chance that she will immediately stop feeling sexy because doing just that is really uncomfortable for a woman, to the point of being painful. Keep in mind that the clitoris isn’t a magic pleasure button like you see in porn films.