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Improve your chances of making dates turn out fantastic with these tips...

Improve your chances of making dates turn out fantastic with these tips…

If you’re anything like most men, you probably went through a date that didn’t go too well once or twice.

I’ve been there quite a few times as well and that prompted me to delve more on how to make myself more attractive to women when I take them out.

What’s really interesting is that I discovered a few significant mistakes that keep men from turning women’s heads in the dating scene over the years. And I’m sure they can help you boost your chances of snagging another date with a woman you like, too.

Make sure you follow along to find out what they are and how you can use them to your advantage without a fuss.

You don’t wear the right shoes.

I’ve learned that if you really want to make the best impression on a woman when you take her out on a date, you can start by going for the right footwear. Women have the tendency to draw out personal attributes of a guy they’re with just by giving his shoes a peek. Let me give you a few examples.

They thought you were sloppy when your shoes look like they’ve been hurriedly cleaned or wiped down. Moreover, women assumed you don’t care about your appearance if your shoes look really worn and are almost breaking up. Keep in mind to wear nice and clean shoes to a date and you’re good to go.

You don’t pay extra attention to your teeth.

I’ve come across a psychology book that revealed women are more inclined to be drawn to your teeth when you smile instead of focusing on your face as a whole. This means that if your teeth look unpleasant, there’s a possibility that your date won’t turn out well as you’ve expected.

Make it a point to brush and floss at least twice a day. Besides keeping your pearly whites free from cavities, you’re also going to do away with stains and grime that can discolor your teeth. And poor dental hygiene can lead to erectile dysfunction sooner or later as well.

You don’t keep your hair clean and styled.

Although women have different views on the correct length of hair a man should have, they seem to collectively agree that what matters the most is the style it comes in. They don’t want it too slick that it already looks slimy or perhaps too laid back that it already appears frenzied. Style it carefully and properly to get the best results.

Here are a few sexual (and health) benefits you get from drinking wine.

Here are a few sexual (and health) benefits you get from drinking wine.

Wine is no doubt one of the most popular drinks you can get your hands on these days.

Apart from having a distinct sweet tang that never fails to excite the taste buds every time, this beverage also has a few awesome components that are guaranteed to help make you a better lover when consumed moderately.

Make sure you follow along to find out why sipping on a glass or two of wine daily can make things better between the sheets (plus getting in on a few other health benefits, too)…

Wine makes your heart stronger.

The tannins found in wine are loaded with natural chemicals called procyanidins. Apart from keeping the walls of arteries in tiptop shape, they also help the heart function properly. This means your blood flow will improve leading to stronger erections and you won’t worry about being at risk of having heart problems anytime soon as well.

Wine protects you from type 2 diabetes.

Resveratrol is one of the main components of wine that gives it its health benefits. It was also discovered that this natural chemical also fends off the free radicals and toxins that play a key role in the development of type 2 diabetes, which can cause erectile dysfunction. Just remember to take it easy on the sweet stuff like cakes and other treats to get the best results.

Wine keeps colon cancer away.

Just to make things even more awesome, resveratrol has also been found to stave off colon cancer by flushing out toxins that cause bowel tumors by as much as 50% among wine drinkers. As an added bonus, the tannins in wine also help improve bowel movement to prevent constipation and similar problems.

Wine makes you resilient to dementia.

According to a study conducted by the Loyola University Medical Center, dementia basically develops because the blood platelets in the brain get too viscous and oxygen couldn’t get through properly, which can mean the loss of significant levels of nutrients. What the natural chemicals in wine do is they keep the blood vessels flexible and open to get as much oxygen to the brain.

Wine prevents stroke.

The procyanidins in wine also get rid of unwanted blood clots in the veins and arteries that can cause stroke in the future. Based on the data gathered by the Columbia University, these natural chemicals have the uncanny ability to dissolve clots that may have formed in the passages where blood flows. A single glass of wine already contains enough procyanidins to get the job done without a hitch.

(And here’s why eating oysters can improve your sex drive.)

Getting her wet down there won't be a problem with these tips...

Getting her wet down there won’t be a problem with these tips…

Getting a woman totally ready for sex can be very tricky. Unless you play your cards right, there’s a very big chance that you won’t be able to convince your lover to get it on with you between the sheets.

Now while you may already know the things that take your partner’s sexual arousal level off the charts, there will come a time when she’ll get so used to them that they won’t seem to get the job done anymore.

So if you’re looking to always make your partner wet when things get spicy in the bedroom, here are a few simple pointers that will help you do just that…

Send her sexy messages.

A woman’s mind is your best ally if you’re planning to make her always hot and ready for sex. One of the best strategies you can go for is by sending her sexy messages on her mobile phone or email to start things off.

Besides subconsciously making her want to get frisky, her brain is also encouraged to think of kinky thoughts that make her anticipate the things that will happen in the bedroom later. Just keep in mind not to overdo it to avoid killing the mood.

Ride the roller coaster with her.

Studies show that women tend to produce more dopamine, the natural chemical that makes them happy and more relaxed, when they experience very exciting and thrilling situations. Dopamine also makes it easier for them to become sexually aroused by lessening the amount of the stress hormone, cortisol, in the body.

If you’re planning to get her rocking in bed later, take her to a roller coaster ride or something similar that will fill her with excitement. You definitely won’t have a problem getting her excited for a different “ride” afterwards, if you know what I mean.

Cook her a nice meal.

Making her wet down there can be easy if you integrate ingredients in her food that will improve her body’s ability to respond to sexual arousal. Keep in mind to regularly give her a bite of oysters, chocolates, red wine, bananas and blueberries. These are just some of the flavors that will really help her get going in bed.

Now while wine does help a woman become sexually aroused, remember to limit your consumption to a glass or two. Excessive amounts do not just prevent her from getting sufficiently lubricated down there, but also make her less receptive to stimulation.

You don't really have to be too nice to attract women.

You don’t really have to be too nice to attract women.

As a guy who’s been on the dating scene for a while now, one thing that really disappoints me is the way some men are too nice when they’re around women.

Now while I am not hinting that nice isn’t a positive attribute for men, overdoing it will simply turn women off quicker than you think. So if you’re still unconvinced about the whole thing, make sure you follow along…

Women see really nice guys as boring.

Spontaneity is something women want to feel when they are building up a relationship with a man. Being too nice only makes them feel that they can easily predict every move you’ll make, which gives them the notion that things will get pretty boring along the way. They want a man who can make things lively and keep it that way.

Women see guys that are too nice as wimps.

Being a good protector is an attribute that never fails to attract women. Simply giving them the impression that you are too nice makes them feel that you can have a problem defending them when they’re in danger. Moreover, it also gives them the idea that you tend to allow people to treat you badly and won’t even complain about it a single bit.

Women think really nice guys can’t say no.

While we’re on the subject of getting treated badly, women believe that guys that seem to be very nice also can’t say no to whatever they’re asked. And this can mean a big deal when it comes to keeping a relationship interesting. Any woman can have a problem dealing with a man who always says yes no matter what she says to him.

Women think really nice men are insecure.

Men who are too nice seem to only seek approval from women they are trying to get closer with. And that makes them feel that they are quite insecure with themselves. Although making a woman feel special is a smart way to make her fall for you, just taking things over the top will only result to the opposite.

Women think guys that are too nice are simply pretending.

Come to think of it, men with perfect attitudes can only be found in the movies. Real men have flaws in them that make them unique among women. Guys who seem to be very nice are only too good to be true. And I’m putting my bet on the chances that they are.

(Here’s why you should take it easy when it comes to drinking soda, too.)