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Give her the foreplay that she's always wanted with these tips...

Give her the foreplay that she’s always wanted with these tips…

If you’re anything like most men, you can probably get ready for sex at the drop of a hat.

However, women aren’t wired to get sexually aroused as fast as guys do and they need foreplay to really warm up between the sheets.

What’s interesting is that a lot of men think that foreplay is simply about caressing and stroking a woman’s erogenous zones like the breasts, nape, clitoris and inner thighs.

There are actually a lot of other techniques to make your lover all primed up for sex and they’re not as complicated as you may have thought, too. Follow along to learn a few useful pointers that will surely get her going in bed in no time…

Hot foreplay tip #1. Get high-tech with your advances.

Sexually arousing a woman isn’t just about getting physical. It also involves making her hot for a lovemaking session by getting her mind into it. You can even start warming her up before you get inside the bedroom by teasing her with very sexy text messages, which give her a preview of what you’ll do to her when you two get alone.

Hot foreplay tip #2. Make her wait.

The moment you’re already getting frisky, don’t immediately get to the erogenous zones that she expects you to stimulate. Instead of making a beeline to her breasts and clitoris, focus on other areas of her body like the arms, chest and back for a few minutes. She’ll be the one guiding you to the great stuff sooner than you think.

Hot foreplay tip #3. Slow and easy does it.

Most men mistakenly think that the faster they go during foreplay, the easier it is for them to get their lover ready for sex. It’s exactly the opposite really and going faster will just make her feel that you’re only in it for your personal satisfaction. The slower you go, the more your lover will get excited and derive pleasure from the stimulation you’re giving.

Hot foreplay tip #4. Talk dirty.

Now while this may sound surprising, talking dirty while giving a woman foreplay is actually a good way to boost her sexual arousal up a notch. Apart from taking her imagination on overdrive, hearing things from you that only make her blush outside the bedroom also makes her feel more adventurous and ready for anything between the sheets.

Hot foreplay tip #5. Don’t stop until she says so.

No matter how eager you are to sexually penetrate her already, it’s best if you wait until she gives you the go signal. Patience is a virtue here. Sure it may be tough on you at first, but it will let her know that you’re all for her sexual satisfaction and she won’t have difficulty orgasming when you finally do.

Turn her on quicker with these simple tips...

Turn her on quicker with these simple tips…

Unlike what most guys believe, getting your lover warmed up between the sheets is not as complicated as you think.

Now while your partner may not get sexually aroused at the drop of a hat like you do, there are a few simple tricks that are guaranteed to get her ready for lovemaking in no time.

So if you’re looking to improve your chances of really turning your lover on the next time you get frisky in the bedroom, here’s what you should do…

Prep up like there’s no tomorrow.

The very first thing you should pay close attention to is how you look and smell. Like all women, your lover is very particular with the visual and nasal cues you send off. If she thinks you smell or look unpleasant, chances are she won’t be too keen on having sex with you anytime soon.

When you smell great, however, she’ll be like putty in your hands when you start working your magic.

Besides taking regular showers, make it also a habit to splash on a good amount of deodorant and keeping your oral hygiene in check by brushing and flossing your teeth regularly. Keep in mind to trim your fingernails while you’re at it, too.

Tease her all day.

A lot of guys think that getting physical is the only method to get a woman hot and ready for a sex session. Sure stimulating her erogenous zones is one way to warm your lover up in bed, but having a bit of mental stimulation in the mix is definitely going to make the whole thing much easier.

Send your partner naughty text messages. Email her the things you’d do to her when you two get alone in the bedroom. Call her up unexpectedly and describe the kinky stuff she’ll be in for later. Send her a few sexy selfies. You can bet that she can’t wait to get in some sexy action with you.

Show her your cooking skills.

Surprising your lover with a tasty plate of pasta or some other home-cooked meal is one way to start her up for lovemaking. Apart from making her feel really special, the smell of food also excites the neurons in her brain that control positive feelings like happiness, delight and even sexual arousal.

Just to make it more interesting, there are also foods that can regenerate and improve a man’s libido, so you won’t have problem getting ready for sex when things get spicy between you and your lover.

No matter what you do, avoid thee places when getting frisky with your lover...

No matter what you do, avoid these places when getting frisky with your lover…

Now while being sexually adventurous is an attribute you should have to keep your lover on her toes when it comes to giving her the satisfaction she wants in bed, simply getting careless with the places you get it on can lead to more problems than pleasure.

Sure there is nothing wrong with changing things up during sex, but no matter what you do avoid getting frisky with your partner in the following places or else you’ll just end up getting hurt and upset sooner than you think…

The beach.

Unlike what a lot of men mistakenly believe, having sex on the beach is not as novel or pleasurable as it sounds. Besides exposing your intimate areas to grains of sand that can give you more than a nasty burn or two, there are also tiny creatures living in and on the beach that just might crawl up into places that they shouldn’t even remotely be supposed to.

Sea water also counteracts with the natural lubrication that your lover produces during sex. Instead of making things smooth and easy, she’ll just feel sore and raw regardless of how sexually aroused she may be.

The elevator.

The combination of excitement and the naughtiness of not being caught during the act are pretty much what makes sex in the elevator appealing to a lot of guys. However, apart from straining and feeling cramped the whole time, most elevators also have security cameras installed in them. You’ll only end up not getting satisfied and have trouble with security in the process.

The hot tub.

The phrase “getting wet and wild” can take on a new meaning if you pick the hot tub as your next lovemaking destination. Besides messing with your lover’s natural lubrication, the high temperatures produced by the hot tub can also encourage the development of bacteria and other nasty stuff.

By the way, if you’re looking to get your partner pregnant, the hot tub also significantly reduces your body’s ability to produce quality sperm. Better take your business somewhere else to really pull it off.

Recording it on video.

A lot of men think that it’s cool to record themselves while getting in action in bed. Sure it may be awesome to see yourself frame by frame doing the deed, but the possible repercussions are just too horrible to think of.

What if you accidentally upload it somewhere and it went viral? What if the gadget you used to record your sexual romp gets stolen and the content gets circulated on the web? Well, if you think that’s already horrible, we haven’t even questioned what will happen if your parents, siblings or relatives see it…

(Now we’ve got that covered, here’s a foreplay tip that will definitely knock her socks off…)

Get your lover going in bed every time with these pointers...

These are the reasons why she’s not interested in getting between the sheets with you…

If you’re noticing that your lover is not in the mood for action between the sheets lately, there’s no need to worry just yet that she has already lost all interest in sex.

You simply need to look into a few things that probably cause why she’s not the feeling the sexual groove that much these days.

So if you still don’t have the slightest clue where to start, here are some useful pointers to help you get the job done in no time…

Your hygiene is getting poor.

A lot of guys simply feel all too familiar with their lovers at some point that they completely become rather sloppy with their hygiene. They don’t exert as much effort as they did before when it comes to looking and smelling good.

You see women are very particular with visual and nasal cues to get sexually aroused. If your lover thinks that you’re not simply trying hard enough, she may feel not that eager to jump in bed with you no matter how hard you try.

Make sure you take regular showers and splash on deodorant daily. Brush and floss your teeth at least twice a day, too. You can even take it up a notch by spritzing with a scent she likes.

You always do the same things in bed.

Variety is another thing you have to keep an eye on to maintain your lover’s interest in sex. Simply doing the same sexual positions and techniques over and over can be a bit dull and boring eventually. Make it a point to change things up a bit from time to time.

From the way you normally do foreplay and oral sex, to lovemaking positions as well as other things in between, try not to stick to just one. Expand your horizons every day to really keep her wanting to get things spicy in the bedroom.

You don’t turn her on enough.

Women have to be fully sexually aroused before they can really enjoy lovemaking. If you just go right ahead doing the need without even first making sure that your lover is hot and ready, she’ll eventually feel that sex with you isn’t going to be the least enjoyable.

Make sure that you warm her up nice and easy before doing any sexual penetration. Besides having the possibility of hurting your lover inadvertently, she’ll have the impression that you are selfish in bed and won’t be that excited to have a lovemaking session with you sooner or later.