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ID-10071040Giving your lover a massage she won’t easily forget anytime soon isn’t just about knowing how and where to knead your fingertips all over her body.

It’s also about having an idea of a few surefire pointers that will definitely take her relaxation levels off the charts even before you start your massage session.

So if you’re still not that confident about giving your lover the relaxing massage she’s always wanted, here are a few tips that will easily help you make her look forward to the next one in no time…

Take time to clean and organize.

Prepping up the place where you’ll give your lover a good rubdown should be the first thing on your checklist. Make sure you get rid of clutter and give the room a meticulous vacuuming to get it as spotless as you can.

Now while this may sound surprising, a woman can’t fully relax during a massage if she thinks that the environment you’re in is messy or needs a bit of cleaning first. You can even take the whole thing up a notch by making the room smell nice while you’re at it.

Have a relaxing playlist ready.

Music doesn’t just help your lover ease her mind to achieve full relaxation and lose her inhibitions to totally enjoy the experience. It also makes her more perceptive to the sensations that you’ll give her as you stimulate her with your fingertips.

Go for songs that are slow and easy like instrumental tracks and ballads. Make sure you take a listen to them first before including them in the playlist to avoid an awkward mix-up. If you think you can get to sleep with a certain song playing, it’s a keeper.

Go for quality oils.

The oil you choose for your massage can either mean its complete success or the entire opposite. Besides providing the necessary lubrication to allow you to glide your fingertips easily all over your lover’s body, it can also give off an awesome aroma that will surely take relaxation up a notch even further. Although there are a lot of oils to choose from, make sure you ask your lover first what her preferences are to really make her feel like royalty.

Put your mind into it.

It’s not enough that you want to give your lover a relaxing massage. You also have to dedicate yourself to the task ahead. Unless you do that, you’ll only make her feel that your touch is a bit hurried and rather uncomfortable. You’ll also appear impatient and not enjoying what you’re doing.

Make her hot and ready for sex with these foreplay tips...

Make her hot and ready for sex with these foreplay tips…

If you’re anything like most men, you probably think that foreplay is a very crucial element when it comes to really giving your lover the sexual pleasure she’s always wanted the next time you get between the sheets.

However, a lot of guys mistakenly believe that foreplay is simply all about stimulating a woman’s erogenous zones.

There are actually other ways to warm up your lover in the bedroom and they’re not as complicated as most men think as well.

Make sure you try these awesome foreplay techniques the next time things get spicy in bed and you’ll be very surprised with the results…

Talk dirty to her.

A woman’s mind can be your very best ally if you’re looking to give her an unforgettable time between the sheets. Talking dirty not only takes her imagination on overdrive, but also makes her look forward to the sensations that you’ll give her during sex. Keep in mind not to hold back on your dirty talking as well. The more vivid and graphic your descriptions of your upcoming lovemaking session are, the better.

Deliberately miss her sexual hotspots.

Now while stimulating your lover’s breasts, clitoris and other erogenous zones is a great way to make her ready for sex, intentionally avoiding them during foreplay is effective at heightening her sexual tension. Besides making her more excited to get down and dirty with you, she’ll even be the one prodding you to stimulate them. Instead of concentrating on her erogenous zones, focus on your partner’s arms, legs and stomach. Chances are her excitement levels will be off the charts the moment you get to the good parts.

Don’t take off her underwear.

This trick is quite similar to the previous one I explained. Rather than taking off her bra and panties yourself, just keep warming her up on and on. I know this can take quite a lot of patience and self-control, but believe me this trick is really effective at upping the ante on her sexual arousal. If you play your cards right, she’ll be the one who couldn’t wait to take her underwear off.

Kiss her properly.

Kissing isn’t just an opener for foreplay. You can also use it to make your lover even more excited to get between the sheets with you. Start things off with a light kiss. When you feel that she’s becoming more receptive and sensitive, increase the intensity of your kisses bit by bit. Keep in mind to be playful and unpredictable with your kisses while at it so she’ll keep on guessing what’s coming next.

Give her a sexy massage with the simple pointers.

Give her a sexy massage with the simple pointers.

Unlike what most guys mistakenly think, massages aren’t just for relieving stress and getting rid of knots in aching muscles.

You can also use them to warm up a woman for lovemaking if you just know how to pull it off. And the good news is it isn’t as complicated as you may have previously thought.

So if you’re looking to take your lover’s sexual arousal levels off the charts the next time you do magic with your fingertips, here are a few pointers that you should keep in mind…

Pay close attention to your hygiene.

How you look and smell when you’re giving your lover a massage can easily make or break your chances of getting her sexually excited no matter how hard you try. Make it a point to prep up meticulously before getting into action.

Besides taking a shower and having a spritz of deodorant and cologne, it’s also a good idea to trim your fingernails while at it so your lover won’t be feeling any unintentional painful pinches and nips when she’s already getting all relaxed and cozy.

Light scented candles.

Having scented candles on your checklist the next time you give your partner a massage is definitely a priority. Apart from adding a touch of daintiness that women love, scented candles also come with amazing aromas that make her feel calmer during the whole experience.

If you still can’t make up your mind which scented candles to go for, choose jasmine and chamomile. They don’t just have a soothing effect, but also smell awesome. Fruity variants like apple, cherry and peach are also available, too.

Stimulate muscles near her erogenous zones.

Just to give her an idea that you’d like more than giving her a massage, make sure you stroke the muscles near her pelvis, thighs and lower back. Apart from occasionally brushing on your lover’s erotic parts, you can also easily gauge where you need to focus more simply by observing her reaction while doing so.

She might even stop the massage and go straight to lovemaking if you’re playing your cards right, too.

Put on some sexy music.

Music can easily improve your lover’s mood during a massage. Choose tunes that are slow, easy and provocative. Besides allowing her to feel totally relaxed and tranquil, hearing sexy music will also make her think about erotic things between the sheets, making it even easier for you to get the job done.

Here are 5 manly grooming tips that you should always keep in mind..

Here are 5 manly grooming tips that you should always keep in mind..

Good grooming is not just something you do to look great and help you attract women.

It’s also something you need to do to feel great.

However, a lot of guys still find it tough to pick the ways they should spruce themselves up because they’re afraid that they’ll end up looking too feminine. When it comes to manly grooming though, here are the 5 things that you should always keep in mind…

Brush and floss daily.

Nothing beats having a fresh breath and a great smile to get a woman’s attention. Make it a point to brush and floss your teeth at least twice a day to get rid of the food that may have stuck between them as well as prevent tooth decay and plaque build-up. Gargling with mouthwash regularly also keeps bad breath at bay longer.

Trim your nose and ear hairs.

No matter how much you think they’re inconspicuous, women will notice your overgrown ear and nose hairs. They will continue to do so until you’ve taken care of them. Now while you can easily drop by your barber to have your nose and ear hairs trimmed, you can also deal with them yourself by getting your hands on clippers that are specially made for the job.

Take regular showers and use deodorant.

Women are very partial to the nasal cues that a man gives off. In layman’s terms, it simply means that if you don’t smell good, a woman may think that you’re just a waste of time. Keep bad odors at bay by making showers a mainstay in your schedule. Use deodorant while you’re at it, too. Just to take it up a notch, spritz a squirt or two of your favorite cologne or perfume to really get her attention.

Trim your fingernails.

Giving your fingernails adequate attention is a must if you’re looking to give a positive impression to women. Apart from getting rid of dirt and grime under your nails that can be loaded with germs and other nasty things, clean fingernails also translate to a woman’s perspective as a sign that you’re classy, responsible and have a keen sense to detail.

Remove your back hair.

Now while beards and chest hairs can be seen by women as a symbol of masculinity and sexiness, the fuzz on your back isn’t as attractive to them. Make sure you remove them meticulously from time to time to avoid looking like a wayward bear who got lost from the woods.