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Here are some good reasons why you need to keep your bedroom clean...

Here are some good reasons why you need to keep your bedroom clean…

Now while this may sound surprising, research shows that women find it easier to become sexually aroused if they think that the bedroom they’re in is clean and organized when it comes to lovemaking.

Instead of successfully turning her on the next time you get frisky, neurological scientists from Atlanta discovered that a lot of women are more likely to feel stressed and uncomfortable if the bedroom they’re going to make love in is a mess.

This simply means that no matter how good you are at foreplay to make your lover hot and ready for action between the sheets, there is a very big chance that you won’t fully arouse her sexually if your bedroom is cluttered and just plain chaotic.

Now while it’s not uncommon for men to be less than devoted to cleaning and organizing their bedrooms, not doing so can take a toll on your sex life sooner or later. So if you’re still not convinced why you need to spend more time keeping your bedroom tidy and organized, here are a few good reasons why you should have it on your regular schedule immediately…

She won’t feel comfortable and relaxed.

Let’s start with the most important reason of all. Women can’t fully become sexually aroused if they feel anxious or uncomfortable. As long as your lover feels that something isn’t right, like the dirty clothes you have on the floor or the dusty drapes, you won’t be getting her wet and wild anytime soon.

She will feel that she’s not valuable to you.

Women are very critical with nasal and visual cues. In short, how you exert effort to look and smell good around them can either make or break your chances of actually getting them between the sheets.  The more you look and smell awesome, the more valuable they feel to you. The same logic goes for your bedroom. Sure she may be your lover, but how do you think she will feel if you try to have sex with her in a messy place?

She’s not going to totally enjoy your sex session.

As I have pointed out earlier, women are not wired to get completely sexually aroused when they feel stressed or anxious even a bit. Unlike guys that can rise to the occasion at the drop of a hat, women simply need to feel extremely relaxed during lovemaking. Although there is a possibility that sex can still happen between the two of you, you will easily notice that she won’t be as lubricated or responsive while you’re at it.

Here are a few tips that will help you score a second date.

Here are a few tips that will help you score a second date.

If you’re anything like most men, you’ve probably experienced going on a first date with a woman you like and pretty much thought that you’ve got it all in the bag. But when you ask her to go out with you again, you unfortunately find out that she’s not too keen on having another date with you.

Now while there is no magic formula that will guarantee a woman will go on a second date with you, there are simple ways that can easily boost your chances of convincing her to do so. So if you’re looking to score that somewhat elusive date number two, here are a few pointers that you should keep in mind…

Stash away your phone.

Nothing ruins an otherwise amazing date than giving your mobile phone or some other device more attention than the woman you’re with. You will only give her the notion that you’re impatient and would like to leave as soon as you can or perhaps someone who sees her that she’s not really worth your time. Either way a woman won’t be too happy to go out on a date with you again if you choose to stick your nose at your phone most of the time.

Ask open-ended questions.

A lot of guys make the mistake of asking questions that can be easily answered by a simple yes or no during a first date. Besides making the woman you’re with feel extremely bored, she can also think that you don’t consider her as someone interesting to have a conversation with. Instead of asking her if she likes to cook, find out what her favorite recipes are. That easily gives you an idea how to maneuver your date to your advantage as well.

Tell her jokes.

You may already know by now that getting humor in the picture is one effective strategy to use if you’d like to make a very nice impression on your date. Apart from making it easier for her to build a connection with you, she will think that you’re a nice guy and asking her out again won’t be a problem. Moreover, remember to stay clear from off-color jokes and other bits of crude humor that you normally share with other guys to avoid making her think that you’re getting fresh with her. You can always do that later when you two are much closer.

Show her you’re a gentleman.

Chivalry isn’t dead and showing your date that you’re one smooth chap is guaranteed to make her feel more eager to go on a second date with you. Don’t hesitate to pull her a chair, take off your coat when she feels chilly and basically making her feel that you’re her knight in shining armor. By the way, having good posture is also a mark of a true gentleman.

Here are a few tips to convince her to try anal sex easier...

Here are a few tips to convince her to try anal sex easier…

As a guy, there is a good chance that anal sex is one of the greatest fantasies you have between the sheets.

However, there’s also the possibility that your lover isn’t too keen on giving anal sex a try anytime soon because you’re simply not convincing her the right way.

So if you’re looking to, let’s say, successfully enter the backdoor the next time things get hot in the bedroom, here are the possible mistakes that you should keep clear of to get the job done easily…

You don’t make her see it as a pleasurable experience.

A lot of guys fail at convincing their partners to try anal sex because they don’t make it sound like it’s pleasurable for them, too. They just describe the experience as a whole and do not include the enjoyable sensations that their lovers can go through when they do it.

Make it a point to maximize the power of suggestion the next time you convince her to give anal sex a try. Besides explaining to her that it’s not as bad as she thinks, make sure you also tell her that more and more women are including anal sex as a regular in their bedroom action playlist these days because it’s awesome.

You don’t get her as relaxed as possible.

As I have emphasized in my previous posts, getting a woman as relaxed as can be is a must if you’d like her to become more adventurous in bed. Interestingly, giving your lover a relaxation overload also boosts your chances of actually convincing her to try anal sex.

Now while she might not warm up to the idea of getting her anus sexually penetrated immediately, make sure you reassure her that everything will be alright and give her time to decide if she’s really ready to do it. Forcing her to have anal sex will only end up in disaster sooner than you think.

You don’t start slow and easy.

What’s really important if you’re looking to make your partner see anal sex as something enjoyable is you have to do it right the first time…or else it will be your last time doing it.

Before you even think about starting the action, always keep in mind to have all the necessary stuff ready like plenty of lubrication to avoid experiencing setbacks while at it. When you’re totally sure that everything’s smooth and prepped up, try thrusting as gently as you can. Carry on if she’s not asking you to stop. Don’t forget to reapply lube from time to time to keep the whole experience as smooth as can be.

ID-10034226Already being in a romantic relationship for a long time with your girlfriend doesn’t mean that she will remain loyal to you forever.

I’m not trying to scare you but she could be already daydreaming about being in the arms of another man right now, if you’re not very careful. A lot of men lose their girlfriends because they simply got too cocky in their relationships and it could happen to you as well.

No matter how long you’ve been together as a couple, not knowing how to keep her as loyal to you as possible can easily lead to her breaking up with you – or worse, eventually cheating on you.

There’s no need to worry just yet though. So if you’re looking to keep her faithful to you, here are a few important tips that you should keep in mind…

Take time to compliment her.

Now while this may sound surprising, giving your girlfriend sincere compliments regularly draws her closer to you. Expressing your admiration for the attributes you like about her not just makes her happier by increasing the dopamine levels in her brain, but also makes it easier for her to share her feelings with you.

Don’t just tell her you like the color of her eyes or you find the dress she’s wearing nice. Although physical compliments are welcome, make it a point to admire your girlfriend’s abstract traits like her being loving or thoughtful for maximum effect.

Empathize with her.

Empathy means being sensitive with the feelings of other people. Make it a point to do this when things aren’t going smoothly between you and your girlfriend. Besides understanding why she’s acting and feeling that way, you’re also knowing her better while at it.

The next time you have an argument or simply not agreeing on a few things, put yourself in her shoes. Chances are she’ll see you as a mature, sensitive guy, which translates to being a keeper in a woman’s dictionary.

Romance her.

A lot of men mistakenly think that romancing their girlfriends is simply foreplay or some other sexual connotation. It’s rather about doing things that make her fall head over heels in love with you over and over.

Simple ways to pull this off include surprising her with flowers, calling her at the office just to say sweet nothings, hiding love notes in her books as well as cooking for her when she least expects it. Improving your massaging skills is a cool strategy, too.