Women don’t just get sexually aroused in an instant. Unlike men who can get in the mood for lovemaking at the drop of a hat, they need to be eased into it slowly or else they won’t be able to get ready for a sex session at all.
It really doesn’t matter if you know all the best sexual positions in the book. What’s really important is that you know a few useful pointers that will really make her wet down there. And chances are you won’t be warming up your lover between the sheets if you make the following mistakes…
Mistake #1: Your bedroom is a mess.
Tidying up your bedroom should be the very first thing on your checklist if you’re planning to sexually arouse your lover. Most women are very particular with neatness and organization. If your bedroom looks more like a dump instead of a place for lovemaking, she won’t be getting in the mood for sex anytime soon.
Make sure you clean your bedroom carefully and get rid of the clutter. Put on fresh sheets and drapes regularly. Don’t use your bedroom for storage. Place all used clothes in a bin so they won’t be all over the place. Make it a point to vacuum or sweep at least twice a week to keep clear from dust and grime.
Mistake #2: You are not paying close attention to your hygiene.
Looking and smelling good is a priority if you’re planning to get your lover excited in bed. Now while there are some women who like their sexual partners a bit grungy, majority of them prefer guys who have proper grooming and hygiene.
Have regular showers. Use deodorant daily. Only wear clean clothes. Make sure you shave at least twice a week to avoid looking unkempt and scraggly. Trim your fingernails. Let your lover have the impression that you always try to look and smell like a million bucks for her.
Mistake #3: You rush things.
Sexual arousal for women is a process. It just doesn’t happen instantly. You need to get your lover in the zone or else she won’t be warmed up for sex no matter how hard you try. The biggest mistake you will ever make when you want her to get wet is by forcing her to get ready.
Don’t hesitate to give her all the foreplay techniques you have up your sleeve. Stimulate all of her erogenous zones like the breasts, clitoris, inner thighs and other super sensitive areas properly. And don’t forget to keep on going when she’s moaning and groaning like crazy. It just means you are doing a good job.
Mistake #4: You don’t exercise regularly.
Exercise is a major factor when it comes to lasting long enough in bed to satisfy your lover. When you sweat it out at least half an hour daily, you aren’t simply making your body healthier but also boosting your sexual stamina in the process.
Just imagine the orgasms you can give her if you have the right amount of sexual stamina. Compare that to lasting only a few minutes in bed and you’ll surely have exercise as a mainstay in your schedule as soon as you can.