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Find out why you almost always come too soon during sex.

Find out why you almost always come too soon during sex.

Unlike what most people think, it’s not what you do during sex that makes you last longer in bed. Interestingly, it’s what you do before you get between the sheets that really matters. Let me explain what I mean…

The mind plays a huge role when it comes to lasting longer during sex. If you don’t have the right mindset when things get steamy in the bedroom, chances are you’re going to ejaculate quicker than you’d like.

Think of it like setting the right temperature on your oven before baking a cake. Getting it too high can instantly ruin the whole thing. And that’s the problem with most guys. They tend to get so excited that they thrust intensely in the first few minutes of sex and end up ejaculating prematurely.

This is where mindset comes into the picture. Knowing how to control your urges so they won’t go off the charts during sex means that you will last longer. Sure it may sound quite difficult but here are the things you should do in the first few minutes of sex to last as long as you want.

Firstly, have you ever thought about taking things slow? Well, if you haven’t, now’s the time to do so.

Having a patient mindset is a must in bed. While the idea of finally entering your wife or girlfriend can be pretty exciting, it’s not a good enough reason to start thrusting deep and hard as soon as the opportunity presents itself.

The penis is covered with sensitive nerve endings that trigger the orgasm process when stimulated. The more forceful these nerve endings are stimulated, the faster you’ll reach orgasm and ejaculate. Just remember to take things slow and easy at the start of your next sex session and you’ll be surprised how much longer you will last.

Secondly, when was the last time you only focused on her pleasure and not yours?

Having a compassionate mindset is also a plus. Many men tend to concentrate on making sex as pleasurable as they can for themselves and not for their partners. This is one of the biggest reasons why there are a lot of women out there who are sexually unsatisfied.

When you and your lover get between the sheets, make her sexual satisfaction your number one priority. Make the whole experience about her pleasure from start to finish. The more you think about her satisfaction, the longer you’ll last in bed – and the bigger the chances that she will want more sex sooner or later.

Wow your date with these superb grooming tips.

Wow your date with these superb grooming tips.

When it comes to first dates, how you look and smell can either make or break your chances of scoring another one with the girl of your dreams (and make you a bit socially awkward as well). If you’re looking to wow your date and make a romantic connection at the same time, here are the things you need to take note of:

Get rid of that stubble.

Women tend to be very partial to men who are cleanly-shaven. Unless you can pull off the “rugged” look or she is a beard enthusiast of some sort, make sure you get rid of that stubble when you take her out for a date. While you’re at it, get a trim and remove those unruly nose hairs, too. You will be very surprised how suave you’ll look when you’re done.

Have a nice shower.

Taking a long and thorough shower before a date is an essential. Apart from getting rid of the dust and grime that have accumulated on your skin, it also boosts endorphins in your body that make you feel good. Lathering up properly makes your skin softer and more supple as well. All the more reason to take a shower before you take her out.

Brush your teeth.

When impressing your date is concerned, giving your teeth a meticulous brush is key. It doesn’t just help remove any unwanted morsels of food caught between your teeth but also makes your breath smell fresher in the process. Don’t forget to brush your tongue and gums while at it to achieve the best results.

Trim your fingernails.

Fingernails are a big deal to women. You can already say goodbye to a second date if you show up on the first one with dirty fingernails. Make it a point to trim them carefully, removing any dirt and grime that may have been caught between the sides. Wash them with soap as a final touch and you’re now ready to flaunt your fingernails with a flourish.

Dress to impress.

Sure, choosing what clothes to wear on a first date can be rather tricky but you can get the job done effortlessly if you just have the right know-how. Always go for apparel that you’re comfortable in. Don’t just wear something because it looks good. If a piece of clothing doesn’t feel cozy enough, look for another option. Keep it simple yet appealing and you’re sure to impress your date in no time.

Wear the right scent.

Just reaching for whatever cologne or perfume you can get your hands on before a date is a big no-no. Although there can be a lot of fragrances out there to choose from, pick a neutral scent that’s neither overpowering nor flat. Spritz moderately on your wrist, neck and torso and you’re guaranteed to sweep your date off her feet when she catches a whiff of you.