why she isn’t getting sexually aroused anymore

"Shifting" a woman's sexual arousal is very important to really get her in the mood...

“Shifting” a woman’s sexual arousal is very important to really get her in the mood…

Getting your lover properly sexually aroused before you start up the action is very important so she will really experience the pleasure she wants in bed.

However, you’re simply noticing that your partner isn’t getting as sexually aroused like she used to these days.

And this definitely makes you feel really disappointed when you want to get the old squeaky-squeaky going between the sheets.

This doesn’t mean that you’re already losing your touch when it comes to firing your lover up in bed though.

Chances are you’re simply making the following mistakes…

You’re not keeping a close eye on your grooming anymore.

Let’s start things off with the most common mistake a lot of men seem to overlook in terms of getting a woman ready for lovemaking.

She won’t be that eager to start up the action in bed if you don’t look or smell nice.

Women are very particular with grooming and if your lover’s eyes and nose tell her that you’re not up to the cut, there is a big possibility she won’t get fully sexually aroused or even at all.

Just keep in mind to take regular showers, use deodorant and get rid of unwanted facial hair and you’ll already on the right track.

(Here are a few more simple grooming tips that women will surely love.)

Your bedroom is messy.

Relaxation plays a key role when it comes to female sexual arousal.

And one of the things that can really get on a woman’s nerves is dirt and clutter. So if your bedroom needs a bit of cleaning and de-cluttering, it’s going to affect your chances of getting your partner ready for lovemaking.

This is because she’s going to find it tricky to really relax, which promotes a surge of stress hormones in her body that prevents her from feeling sexy.

Make it a point to give your bedroom a regular cleaning and organizing to keep it looking comfy and fresh. Giving it a spritz or two of air freshener while you’re at it is a good idea as well.

You don’t give her awesome foreplay.

Unlike guys that can get ready for lovemaking at the drop of a hat, a woman’s sexual arousal is just like an engine.

You need to “shift” properly or else it won’t get anywhere. And one important thing to remember when you need to pull this off is giving her foreplay she won’t forget anytime soon.

(Here are a few simple tricks that can help you do just that, too.)

Do you feel your moves in bed aren't getting the job done anymore? Read this.

Do you feel your moves in bed aren’t getting the job done anymore? Read this.

So here’s the thing…

Women aren’t like guys that can get easily get in the mood for action in bed at the drop of a hat.

And unlike what a lot of men mistakenly think and a lot of so-called “sex gurus” say, there isn’t a secret strategy that can speed up the whole process.  It’s either you work hard for it between the sheets or else she won’t be getting in the mood for lovemaking anytime soon.

However, there are mistakes that you should always keep clear of if you’re looking to get your partner sexually aroused. And make sure you follow along to find out what they are to really get her sizzling hot…

You make sex only a physical thing.

Let’s start things off with one of the biggest differences men and women have when it comes to sex.

The male version of sex is generally the physical side, which covers everything from thrusting, feeling awesome and reaching the Big O. However, although the female version is also part physical, it also involves mental stimulation.

Once you get her mind racing, getting her going between the sheets won’t be a problem.

Make it a point to tease your partner mentally first before you start heating things up in bed. One simple way to pull this off is to fire up your mobile phone or computer and send her naughty text messages or emails.

You do the same moves again and again.

Try putting yourself in your lover’s shoes for a moment.

How would you feel if you’re looking forward to a sizzling time between the sheets and you simply end up getting stimulated in the same erogenous zones by your partner, experiencing the same techniques and basically going through the same thing like the last time?

The whole sex session will simply end up boring, right? And that can be a deal breaker when sexual arousal is concerned.

Well, this is the same thing a woman will feel, too. Keep in mind to mix things up each and every time you two get frisky in bed and you’re sure to be on the right track.

You assume you know what your partner wants in bed.

One really big mistake a lot of guys make when it comes to making a woman sexually aroused is simply going ahead and doing stuff that they think will give their lovers pleasurable sensations.

There is a very big possibility that either the things in your sexual checklist aren’t hitting their mark or she’s not feeling any pleasurable sensation from them at all.