A lot of men mistakenly think that their lovers will always have sex with them no matter what. Now while this may sound surprising, not keeping a close eye on a few things can easily pull down your chances of getting her between the sheets to zero if you’re not very careful.
So if you’re noticing that she’s not that interested in sex with you anymore no matter how hard you try warming her up in bed, here are the possible reasons why…
Reason #1: You’re not giving your hygiene the attention it deserves.
Looking and smelling good should be on top of your checklist if you’re planning to convince your lover to have sex with you. Women can’t fully become sexually aroused if the nasal and visual cues you send out are less than favorable to them. Make it a point to take regular showers and use deodorant. Brush and floss your teeth at least twice a day. (Here are also great tips to eliminate B.O. the right way to really get her going in no time.)
Reason #2: You’re taking your health for granted.
Sex and overall physical fitness go together. Not paying a close eye on your health means that you’ll have problems between the sheets sooner or later. Make it a point to exercise at least half an hour daily. Apart from optimizing blood flow in your body and boosting your ability to get rock hard on demand, regular exercise also improves your physical appearance. You aren’t only the one affected by that bulging belly or flabby arms, you know.
Reason #3: Your bedroom is not that sexy to her anymore.
A lot of guys tend to forget that they need to give their bedrooms adequate attention if they’re looking to keep the fires of sexual passion burning with their partners. Besides making sure that your bedroom is kept clean and organized always, it is also a good idea to add a touch of pizzazz to make it easier to warm your lover up when you feel a bit frisky. Integrating her favorite scents and aesthetic touches into the mix greatly improves your chances of making her always say yes to your sexual advances as well.
Reason #4: You are always stressed.
Although stress is a normal part of a man’s life, going through a lot of it at one time can easily screw up your life, not mentioning the damage it will bring between the sheets. Make sure you identify your stressors and manage them properly. Always keep in mind that although it’s impossible to totally get rid of all the things that stress you, knowing what they are can help you find ways to deal with them better.