why she is not having an orgasm

Here are the reasons why you're not making her orgasm...

Here are the reasons why you’re not making her orgasm…

If you’re anything like most men, chances are making your lover orgasm between the sheets is your number one goal.

Although I don’t mean this as something offensive, the possibility that she won’t be reaching the point of no return will be extremely low if you’re making the following mistakes.

Make sure you read on to learn the things that may be hindering you from giving your lover an orgasm each and every time you get frisky in the bedroom.

You are rushing things.

Unlike guys that can get ready for lovemaking at the drop of a hat, women need to be eased into it or else she won’t be getting the pleasure she wants. And this can also easily break her chances of getting an orgasm.

Before you get into action, keep in mind to make sure that your partner is really ready for sex. Warm her up properly so she’ll be lubricated properly and experience the pleasure that she wants in bed.

Her brain won’t also release the pleasure hormones that she’ll need to get her body going for an orgasm so better keep clear from rushing things.

You are not stimulating her erogenous zones like she wants to.

Sure you may have an idea what erogenous zones can give her the pleasure she needs during sex, but there is a big chance that your idea of making her feel good may not be the same as hers.

Make it a point to ask your lover how she wants her erogenous zones stimulated. Besides ensuring that you are doing the whole thing right, the possibility that she’ll reach the Big O also is also boosted.

Don’t rely on porn films when it comes to giving your partner an orgasm. Ask her directly.

You don’t have the right mindset.

Not having the mindset that you’ll make her orgasm can ruin your chances of giving her one. Now while this may sound rather odd, but you won’t be able to really satisfy her between the sheets if you are not really into it mentally.

Having the wrong mindset simply makes you act as if you’re not interested in what you’re doing. Sure you can easily pretend, but your lover can feel that you’re just faking and will prevent her from orgasming.

Make sure you keep these in mind the next time things get hot in the bedroom to increase your chances of giving your lover a mind-blowing orgasm when you get into action.