why she is not as hot for sex these days

Here are a few reasons why she's not that excited for sex these days...

Here are a few reasons why she’s not that excited for sex these days…

If you’re anything like most men, I’m pretty sure that you’d like to have a go between the sheets with your lover as often as possible.

However, you’re simply noticing that she is not that eager to make love with you these days – and that’s even when you are already bringing your convincing A-game into play.

There’s no need to worry just yet though. This doesn’t mean that she’s finally mellowed down between the sheets like what some so-called “sex gurus” are saying.

Chances are you’re just overlooking the following factors that keep your partner from really getting in the mood for action in the bedroom…

Your hygiene.

If you’ve been following HowToLastLongInBed.com for a while, you probably already know that hygiene plays a key role when it comes to getting a woman going for sex as well as making her enjoy the whole thing as you go along.

Neglecting to keep your hygiene up to par not only affects the way you look and smell, but also lead to issues that can prevent her from getting the pleasurable she wants while you two are at it.

Just think about uncomfortable stubble and long fingernails getting in contact with her erogenous zones and you’ll get the idea.

Your bedroom.

I know this sounds a bit surprising to be included in this list, but keeping your bedroom as clean and organized as you can actually helps improve your chances of getting your lover in the mood to heat things up between the sheets.

See, women are very particular with cleanliness and organization. It helps their bodies churn out positive hormones like oxytocin and dopamine to set off the key changes to get ready for lovemaking.

However, when your lover thinks that your bedroom is dusty, chaotic and smelly, it will just promote the release of stress hormones that will only make her feel impatient, anxious and definitely not in the mood for sex.

Your sex techniques.

Say you’ve got this favorite snack and you decide to eat it every day. You’ll tend to lose interest in it sooner or later, right? What’s really interesting in this also applies to lovemaking.

If you always use the same techniques whenever you and your partner are at it between the sheets, there’s a very big possibility that her interest in sex is going to dwindle down before you know it.

Make sure you mix things up and learn new stuff you can use in the bedroom so she’ll really look forward to your next sex session.

So she's not getting as hot for sex like she used to nowadays...

So she’s not getting as hot for sex like she used to nowadays…

Getting a woman ready for action between the sheets is totally different compared to how we prep up for lovemaking.

We tend to get turned on as soon as we get an eyeful of our lover’s sexy bits. However, she needs more than that to get going in the bedroom.

Your lover needs to be eased into the whole thing or else she won’t enjoy sex fully even if you’re already bringing your A-game into play.

And chances are you’re also probably making a few mistakes that can prevent her from really getting sexually aroused these days.

Make sure you read on to find out what these are…

You don’t give your bedroom the cleaning and organizing it deserves.

So here’s the situation…

A woman gets sexually aroused when her brain stimulates her endocrine glands to produce and release positive hormones.

However, this process gets disrupted if stress hormones get in the picture. And one of the surefire situations that can easily encourage the release of these hormones?

Seeing dirt and disorder. Like dusty windows, trash on the floor and dirty clothes that are not in the hamper. You can add smelling bad odors in the mix, too.

So if you’re looking to really get her in the mood for sex, make it a point to clean and organize your bedroom.

You already rush her into it.

Like what I’ve emphasized in an earlier post, a woman gets sexually aroused in stages.  It doesn’t just happen in an instant like in our case.

Sure you may already know the erogenous zones that she likes to be stimulated, but they won’t immediately feel good when you start stimulating them. There’s even a chance that she will feel awkward or uncomfortable when you get busy with them.

Always remember to keep the action slow and easy. Believe me you’ll make her feel more satisfied this way.

You don’t ask her what she is hot for in bed.

Come to think of it. Who would know what your lover really wanted in the bedroom if not her, right?

Make sure you ask her which erogenous zones should be pleasured and how to do the same. Don’t just rely on the stuff you already know. Ask her because her preferences tend to change regularly.

Remember to ask her what she likes to have a clue of her preferences and build your strategy from there.