If you’re anything like most guys, chances are lasting for as long as you can during sex is one of the top priorities in your checklist when you and your lover are getting frisky between the sheets.
Apart from giving her a constant barrage of pleasurable sensations that will lead to the Big O as you go along, you’re going to have your share of mind-blowing feelings in the process as well.
Sure this sounds a bit surprising right now, but there’s a big possibility that you’re the one sabotaging your body into premature ejaculation with a few mistakes that you are making during sex.
Make sure you read on to find out what these mistakes are so you can last longer the next time you and your partner are at it in bed and boost your chances of knocking her socks off with an orgasm or two as well.
You worry that you’re going to come too soon.
Simply doubting that you’re going to experience premature ejaculation before the sexual action even starts will promote the release of stress hormones that will disrupt the effects of their positive counterparts.
Besides making it tricky for you to get and stay rock hard, it will also mess up your brain’s timing when to activate your body’s orgasmic and ejaculatory responses.
You go too fast.
The brain basically gauges when to set off your body’s orgasmic and ejaculatory responses with the levels of positive hormones released when you’re sexually aroused.
Interestingly, more positive hormones are churned out in your body when your penis experiences constant stimulation in a short period of time. It’s also important to switch from one position to another every few minutes to slow down the release of these hormones.
Make it a point to pace yourself to avoid this from happening.
You don’t pleasure her in other ways.
Unlike what a lot of men mistakenly believe, giving a woman an amazing lovemaking session isn’t just about sexually penetrating her with your penis.
You can also get the job done by knocking her socks off with a bout of awesome oral sex and pleasuring her erogenous zones with your fingers.
(Here’s a useful tip to keep in mind when you’re fingering her, too.)
You don’t keep an eye on your thrusting.
I know we’ve touched this one earlier, but let me reiterate: take it slow and easy when you’re thrusting and you’re sure to last longer during lovemaking.