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Foreplay Doesn't Have To Just Happen In The Bedroom

Not a fan of foreplay? Here’s a great method to use so you don’t have to spend the first 30 minutes under the sheets waiting for sex…

Now if you’re a guy who doesn’t really enjoy foreplay that much (or at least loves sex 1000x more than foreplay) then that’s OK.

But one fact you will have to face is that turning on a woman doesn’t happen instantly.

Men can be aroused in a matter of seconds, but for women this just isn’t the case.

So the trick here is to be wise about HOW and WHEN you arouse your women.

You see, the “old-school” thinking behind foreplay is that when you’re in bed with a woman you need to start turning her on, therefore you engage in foreplay.

And if you subscribe to this way of thinking then unfortunately foreplay in bed is pretty much unavoidable, because like I said earlier women need at least some time to be turned on.

Now if as soon as you get into bed you want to start having sex then you’re going to need a different approach.

And this is what I recommend…

Perform foreplay THROUGHOUT THE DAY.

Whenever you interact with your woman during the day, whether it be via text, phone, e-mail or in person – start turning her on.

Be sexual.

And just like you would in foreplay slowly raise the intensity and intimacy of the stimulation.

So start by talking about stroking her hair and kissing her neck first, and then later move on to talking about her more intimate areas and what you’re going to do to them.

If you sprinkle this kind of interaction throughout the day with your woman, then by the time it comes to sex she will so horny you won’t believe it.

Remember a woman’s mind is INCREDIBLY active and she’ll be fantasising all day about you if you stimulate her well with your conversation.

And what you’ll find is that all this conversation IS YOUR FOREPLAY.

The purpose of foreplay is to turn a woman on and to prepare her for sex… And this is exactly what you’re doing by communicating with her sexually and teasing her all day long.

So when you finally meet in bed she’ll be so horny that you won’t need the “traditional” foreplay before having sex… She’ll be ready for it.

Seriously… The power of this approach when done right is AMAZING.

And, if you so wish, eliminates the need for foreplay in the bedroom.

(Of course, if you do decide to add some “traditional” foreplay then the results will be even more powerful)

So now you know how to skip foreplay you better be sure you can last long in bed!  Check out this article on Premature Ejaculation to make sure you avoid it from happening.

I’ve just come across what is probably THE easiest sex tip ever to apply.  Want to know what it is?…

Couple being intimate

This guy obviously knows a few sex tips

So the sex tip I’m talking about is this…

Hold your partners hands while having sex.

You don’t have to do it for the whole time you have sex, but if you do it for a few minutes you’ll find that it really improves the intimacy of sex…

Which, by the way, women LOVE.

Now, to be honest, I can’t take credit for this sex tip.  I discovered it while reading this article called Sex Tips: A Handy Way to Increase Intimacy.

But how easy is that?

Now you might be thinking…  “Jack, but this is hardly going to help me become the best lover she has ever had overnight…”

And my response would be…

You’re right.

This ALONE will not transform your love life overnight.

But what really leads to massive change in life and getting the BIG goals we want (like becoming an extraordinary lover or lasting over 30 minutes in bed)…

Is the grouping of MANY small changes.

Sure, this sex tip in itself won’t make you into a truly unforgettable lover, but what if you learned 10 different sex tips like this one and applied ALL OF THEM in one love making session.

Now my betting is that would make one HELL of a difference.

So keep up the learning, because it’s the accumulation of many small distinctions that helps you breakthrough to achieve the massive goals you want.

Oh, and here’s another VERY important sex tip you need to know, both if you want to be a better lover and last longer in bed…

It’s how to perform something known as Kegels For Men. Check it out now.

A recent article I read inspired me to write this post.  For anyone thinking of dabbling in sex with an ex here’s my take on the essential precautions you must take…

The first thing I’d recommend if you’re considering “rekindling the flame” with an ex is to read this article called 5 Tips for Sex with the Ex.

It’s a great article, and it’s what inspired me to write this post.

The thing that struck me while reading it was that I noticed an underlying theme that I’ve come across many times before when it comes to dating, relationships, sex, etc.

And that underlying theme is to just take things easy.

Play it cool.

Don’t get overexcited and stress too much too soon.

Don’t make mountains out of molehills.

For example in the article I was just talking about the second tip is “Sex does not equal love”.

What this means is if you go back to have sex with an ex, don’t instantly assume that you’ve suddenly fallen in love again and now you’re going to spend the rest of your lives together.

This is the exact OPPOSITE of playing it cool.

If you were to react like that then you’d probably push your ex away FAST.

Whereas if you play it cool then you probably wouldn’t scare them away and then if you wanted to you could always slowly develop your relationship to take things more seriously again if you wanted to.

Although this is a blog mainly focussed on helping men last longer in bed, I wanted to talk about this because every little thing you do spills over to other areas of your life.

Which means that if you don’t play it cool when you go to have sex with your ex then the chances are that you don’t play it cool when you have sex full stop.

And if you don’t play it cool when you have sex then you’re much more likely to experience premature ejaculation, because being tense and nervous are MASSIVE triggers for premature ejaculation.

The bottom line is play it cool in your relationships and sex, at least at the start (because you can always get more intense later on), and you will be rewarded.

And if you’re looking for some more “tangible” tips for lasting longer in bed, in other words, actual strategies and techniques you can use then you’ll want to check out this article on Premature Ejaculation Cures.

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If you’re in a relationship and want to avoid an affair then you better listen up, because I’m about to show how your sex life DIRECTLY impacts the chances of your woman having an affair…

I’ve just finished reading a very interesting article called The Truth About Affairs and it raised an interesting pattern that occurs in many relationships.

The pattern I’m talking about here is when over time the man starts to show less and less affection towards the woman in the relationship, whether it be physically through hugging and kissing or just through general compliments, etc.

And as a result the woman reacts by withdrawing sex, as a subconscious way of punishing the man, but also because she feels less like having sex because she feels less loved.

Naturally the man gets more disappointed by this and is less affectionate and the woman reacts similarly.

In the end it’s a negative spiral, until one person in the relationship meets someone else who fulfils all their needs and makes them feel special and BAM… An affair starts.

So as negative as this whole pattern might seem, it can be easily avoided.

And as the man in the relationship it all comes down to showing affection.

If you can be sure to show plenty of affection all the way through your relationship your woman will have no reason to withdraw sex.

And on top of that… If you have the skills to last long in bed and deliver her incredible pleasure she’ll have EVEN LESS reason to withdraw sex, because it will be such a huge source of pleasure for her.

It’s win-win.

Now the “how to” of showing affection is obvious, you just give her compliments, pay attention to her, listen to her and show her physical affection as often as possible.

But the “how to” of lasting longer in bed is less obvious. So if you’re not sure of exactly how to pull this off you may want to check out this article that includes 7 expert tips for instant-results on ending premature ejaculation…  It’s called Last Long In Bed.

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